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  • Paperback: 156 pages
  • Publisher: Dangerous Little Books (December 12, 2012)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1908675047
  • ISBN-13: 978-1908675040
  • Product Dimensions: 8.5 x 5.5 x 0.3 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 7.2 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.6 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (34 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #412,148 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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"For many people, figuring out that the supernatural claims of religions don't hold up to honest analysis is relatively easy. It's the next step--sharing this conclusion with mom and dad--that often proves to be the most difficult of all. Fortunately, David G. McAfee has produced an invaluable contribution to all nonbelievers who find they must navigate that most treacherous minefield known as the religious family..."
-- Guy P. Harrison, author of Race and Reality and 50 Simple Questions for Every Christian

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David G. McAfee is a journalist, a religious studies scholar, and author of Disproving Christianity and other Secular Writings. He is a columnist for Canadian Freethinker Magazine and a contributor to American Atheist Magazine. Mr. McAfee attended University of California, Santa Barbara, and graduated with a dual-degree in English and Religious Studies with an emphasis on Christianity and Mediterranean religions. After experiencing discrimination within the American public education system as a result of his secular activism, David G. McAfee sought to publish Mom, Dad, I'm an Atheist to help those who fear similar professional or familial consequences to their public non-belief.

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David Gregory McAfee (February 23, 1989) -- known as David G. McAfee -- is an American author, journalist and religious studies graduate. Born in Roseville, California, on February 23, 1989, David Gregory McAfee moved to Santa Barbara, CA at the age of eighteen in order to pursue multiple degrees, in English and Religious Studies, from the University of California, Santa Barbara. After graduating with two BAs, McAfee republished his first book under the new title, Disproving Christianity and Other Secular Writings. In December 2012, McAfee published Mom, Dad, I'm an Atheist: The Guide to Coming Out as a Non-Believer.

McAfee is an outspoken atheist who opposes biblical literalism. He is a columnist for Canadian Freethinker Magazine and a contributor to American Atheist Magazine. As a result of his atheist activism, he was rejected by a public university from entering its religious studies graduate program. His first published book, Disproving Christianity and Other Secular Writings, is a critique of biblical literalism. McAfee's newest title, Mom, Dad, I'm an Atheist, is a guide to living as an atheist in a society that's largely intolerant of disbelief.

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Very informative, very well-researched.
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This book was great in helping with ways to come out as an atheist.
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Kudos to David G. McAfee for an outstanding resource.
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23 of 26 people found the following review helpful By J. Sciple on December 19, 2012
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I was thrilled to hear that David G. McAfee was writing another book. I love his concise style and his ability to articulate his thoughts from a very non-emotional perspective about a subject that usually stirs up a tremendous amount of emotions. This books offers real advice and real stories from people from various backgrounds that many nonbelievers will be able to relate to throughout the book. It's also handled with such respect that it wouldn't be a tough book to give to a family member who may be struggling to deal with your nonbelief. It can really put things into perspective and would help people understand where many atheists are coming from. In a time where religion is slowly fading and freethought is on the rise, this is a timely book and worth a read regardless of whether you consider yourself "out" or not. As David describes in his book, in many parts of the world (even in some parts of the US), this "coming out" isn't really just a one-time thing with family members. There are situations that come up in all kinds of social and professional circles where one is faced with "coming out" again and again. Kudos to David for another great read!
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15 of 17 people found the following review helpful By colordigits on December 22, 2012
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I use David's book 'Disproving Christianity and Other Secular Writings' to help friends and family who are confused about their beliefs, and it did a great job answering some of the moral dilemmas about christianity. I was thrilled to know that David would be writing a new book about 'coming out' as an atheist!

This book does a fantastic job of analyzing non-belief and detailing the many issues that pop up when a person decides to go public about being an atheist. I was surprised to real that David even advises some times its not the best time, or the 'safest' time to come out of the closet and he is correct. I grew up 'gay' and I have to say that coming out as an atheist was much more difficult than coming out as a homosexual. I appreciated this careful advice for some one who might not understand that it could be dangerous depending on the situation.

This book also gives examples of various outcomes from people who went public with their non-belief. This shows how different the outcome can be depending on the circumstances.

There are so many great things to say about this book and I fear that I will run out of space for the review. In short, this book is exactly what I have been looking for as a guide for some one who is on the fence about coming out. There are many books out there about atheism but there don't seem to be any that specifically tackle this issue. I can't wait to share this with all of my friends and family who have asked me the question "Should I let people know that I don't believe anymore, or should I just keep quiet?"
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12 of 14 people found the following review helpful By Guy P. Harrison on December 19, 2012
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For many people, figuring out that the supernatural claims of religions don't hold up to honest analysis is relatively easy. It's the next step--sharing this conclusion with mom and dad--that often proves to be the most difficult of all. Fortunately, David McAfee has produced an invaluable contribution to all nonbelievers who find they must navigate that most treacherous minefield known as the religious family. With deep wisdom and sincere compassion, McAfee explores the challenges and suggests the best tactics, while also offering much-needed encouragement for those who may find the journey difficult. It is because he understands that the goal is freethought, self-expression, and the preservation of important relationships, that this book is a precious resource. Readers will also appreciate the solid list of resources found at the back of book.

-Guy P. Harrison, author of 50 Simple Questions for Every Christian, Race and Reality and other books
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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful By MD on May 25, 2013
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Very informative, very well-researched. The addition of real people's stories was very helpful. I definitely recommend this book to any looking at the problems of coming out.
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11 of 14 people found the following review helpful By C. A. Robey on April 15, 2013
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In my experience, if you are telling religious people about your atheism, they will just keep bringing up inane objections (the subtext of which is always your inferiority) like a game of verbal whack-a-mole, and when they run out of inane objections, they will just start repeating them as if you hadn't already addressed them; then they will "pray for you." They will never integrate anything you point out to them into their view. They will just ignore it, and only brand you as being bitter and angry (devoid of the joy of gawd as you head toward the atheist void of meaninglessness and annihilation, no doubt). I submit to you that there is no best way to do this, as long as you don't lose your temper (the worst way). No matter what you say, you will be met with willfull ignorance and vicious passive-aggression; they will mentally drag you to the center of town and stone you; you will be the subject of secret conversations and you will sense it when you enter the room; you will lose their trust; and they will "worry about you," which is their way of constantly affirming their superiority, which they must do to protect their beliefs, which aren't nearly as easy to believe in when you don't scapegoat nonbelievers (they really can't help themselves).

Religious people suck, and I'm sorry, but all any book can really offer you here, besides ready-made arguments, is the sense that you are not alone. There really is no effective "coming out" algorithm to follow, so this book fails by making a false promise in its title. It has the reader looking for a usable tool when in fact all they are holding is an invisible pat on the back and some good intentions.
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