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24 of 25 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
EXCELLENT, TOUCHING, WONDERFUL BOOK!!!!!!!!!, August 13, 1999
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This was one of the best books I have ever read, EVER. Barbara Delinsky puts us right in there with the Popewells. She showed how Sam took responsibility for his actions and how one unfortunate, blurry incident changed everyone's life and brought out the good and the bad in every character. In addition, Barbara showed how mostly everyone has a skeleton in their closet. I absolutely loved the relationship Sam and Annie had - and, of course, routed for Teke and Grady to get together. JD, of course, was such an immature jerk. It angered me that although he defended Teke to his father, he so blatently, consistently, disrespected her to her face in front of the children. I thought "Coast Road" and "Together Alone" were excellent, but Barbara Delinsky outdid herself in "More Than Friends." I'll probably read it again in a few months. Barbara, please keep writing.
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24 of 26 people found the following review helpful:
1.0 out of 5 stars
I hate this book and its hollow characters., July 6, 2005
There are two things I hate reading about: misery and stupidity. This book is filled with both of these things. While it has received a great deal of positive feedback due to its "real life situations" and "realistic" portrayal of human beings, I found this book to be incredibly fake.
Real people do make mistakes. That much is true. The types of situations that occur in this book do happen in the real world. Cheating happens, but not for the reasons for which it happens in this book. A husband who cheated on his wife with her best friend, and regretted it, would not act like the husband in this book. It doesn't make sense that a husband would sleep with anybody other than his wife if his wife is the one he wanted to sleep with, and just because he thought of his wife while he was cheating does not make it okay. Sam acts like nothing happened. He feels no shame. And the wife, Annie, feels responsible because she has low self-esteem. It's bizzare. First of all, Annie's upset for the wrong reason. She thinks that she just isn't good or attractive enough for him and he has to go elsewhere, when what she should be upset about is the fact that he had sex with her best friend and then said it was okay because he was thinking of her. The fact that he can sleep with whoever without a second thought to how it effects her or their family just because he's pretending it is her is disturbing. The fact that she doesn't get angry for that reason is even more disturbing.
The same thing goes for the best friend, Teke. She sleeps with Sam and doesn't even consider how it will effect anything until her kid walks in and all hell breaks loose. Who goes to bed with her best friend's husband while thinking of a guy she hasn't even seen in 19 years? Come on!
Then there's the best friend's husband. He is soooo FAKE. He has no love for even his own children and does everything solely because he wants to be important. The author is trying so hard to make him into a flawed character, and she obviously has no idea what would motivate a person like that, so she guesses in the book. I think that that's actually true of most of the characters, but it's really noticable with J.D. He just isn't a real person. He's a lizard.
There's a quote from the book. It says: "She would have given anything to transform the events of the past two months into a work of fiction. No doubt she would shred it in the nearest machine."
This book is a work of fiction, and I agree with the author. It belongs in the nearest shredder.
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9 of 9 people found the following review helpful:
1.0 out of 5 stars
One for the discard pile..., October 17, 2009
This review is from: More Than Friends (Mass Market Paperback)
I am suprised by all the positive reviews. Seriously this book didn't make me feel anything but anger and disgust. Yes people make mistakes but the reason behind the affair was rediculous and the characters were shallow and unsympathetic.
Annie and Teke were college roommates, their respecive spouces Sam and J.D. have been friends since childhood and work together at a law firm. One day Teke and J.D.'s son Michael witnesses Teke and Sam getting intimate and feeling betrayed runs into the street and gets struck by a car putting him in a coma.
I find it difficult to find any sympathy for Sam or Teke. Sam cheats on his wife with her best friend even though she is the one he wants to sleep with? That doesn't make any sense. He rationalizes his behavior by saying that he was thinking of Annie while with Teke. And his "reason" behind the affair? Everytime he wins a case him and his wife have sex. His wife is busy so he sleeps with his wife's best friend who is conveniently available. It is this stupidity that makes Sam a character I cannot have any sympathy for. And I am supposed to believe he loves his wife.
Teke is even worse. While sleeping with her best friend's husband she is thinking of her ex-boyfriend. Sure her husband is a waste of space but that gives her the right to damage her best friend's marriage as well? Instead of changing what makes her unhappy she takes others down with her. With friends like her who needs enemies.
And poor Annie believes she caused the affair by having low self esteem. She doesn't think she is attractive enough so her husband went elsewhere. The husband says it's because she wasn't there when he needed her. But he was thinking of her so it's alright. I don't think so! That just makes it that much worse.
And then it is all tied up with a big happily ever after ribbon. Michael wakes up, Teke gets back together with the ex she was thinking about while sleeping with her best friend's husband, and Annie forgives Sam. So what happens the next time he wins another case and his wife is busy? If it didn't take any urging the first time there's not much stopping a repeat.
The characters made it hard to even like them much less find any sympathy for. Sam was stupid, selfish, and arrogant. Teke was shallow and heartless. J.D. was just awful. Annie was the victim for NO reason. This is a book I'll never read again.
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