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Mothers-in-Law and Daughters-in-Law: Love, Hate, Rivalry and Reconciliation [Paperback]

Susan Shapiro Barash (Author)
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May 1, 2001
Susan Shapiro Barash, acclaimed author of Second Wives and Sisters, turns her penetrating powers of observation to the oldest of triangles, exploring the uncharted dimensions of mother-in-law, daughter-in-law, and son/husband roles.  Women whose mother/daughter-in-law status is fast approaching, newly acquired, or well established will benefit from this book, as will the son/husband stuck in the middle.  Barash leads readers through this complex relationship to a better understanding of the dynamics of insecurity, generational jealousies, child rearing dilemmas and power struggles. Utilizing an extensive survey of hundreds of women, their mothers-in-law and the men they share, Barash presents the real voices of those affected, the mixed feelings and problems faced as well as the ways in which they learned to cope and solutions devised. Interspersed with these first-hand accounts are the insights and recommendations of noted psychologists and relationship counselors.

From Mothers-in-law and Daughters-in-law, readers will learn how to create a mutually independent and rewarding relationship that allows mother-in-law, daughter-in-law, and son/husband to grow.

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Product Details

  • Paperback: 224 pages
  • Publisher: New Horizon Press (May 1, 2001)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0882822063
  • ISBN-13: 978-0882822068
  • Product Dimensions: 9.1 x 6.1 x 0.5 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 11.5 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 3.3 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (10 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #281,427 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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2.0 out of 5 stars Lots of examples, but not many helpful solutions, October 20, 2005
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This review is from: Mothers-in-Law and Daughters-in-Law: Love, Hate, Rivalry and Reconciliation (Paperback)
I was looking for some help witha troublesome mother-in-law relationship, and this one had some good reviews. I was fairly disappointed by it though.

First, the book offered a number of real-life examples, but the arrangement of these stories into seprate chapters seemed a little unclear to me--I found it hard to locate the sections that might be most helpful for my specific situation.

The second problem I had with the book is that the author apparently has no training in psychology or family therapy--according to the author bio she teaches screenwriting. So, she presents a lot of examples, but the "solutions" are not really solutions, but rather just statements of what the results of a particular situation are likely to be. I was looking for more concrete solutions.
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20 of 23 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars It was good., December 20, 2001
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I think that the book was VERY neutral. I don't think that she took either side. I am the Daughter-in-Law and I saw myself in many of the examples. Some things were hard for me to read, like I do have to accept that this woman is part of my life whether I like it or not and.... I do have to try to avoid conflicts with her for my husband's sake. Other things were great to read like "A mother-in-law has to give you her idealized vision of a daughter-in-law", and that her fear of losing her son comes from her being insecure and unhappy in life (or so I understood). I think that the book is good. It did give me a sense that my mother-in-law will never change and she will never apologize to me for being intrusive. I bought the book b/c I recently finally confronted her and I was looking for something to validate my feelings. This book certainly has.
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25 of 32 people found the following review helpful:
1.0 out of 5 stars Typical one-sided book, June 11, 2001
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i really thought I would give this book the benefit of the doubt. I thought the author would be subjective, but once again, she takes the mothers-in-law side. I happened to read a newspaper article in which she stated something like daughters-in-law usually have problems with their mothers-in-law in their twenties and then learn to appreicate their mothers-in-law later in life. That is so untrue. Unfortulately, the author found an interesting subject to write about, but it does not feel like she really knows what it feels like to be a daghter-in-law in distress. Good try,but I will keep searching.
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