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Mr. Jefferson's Women [Hardcover]

Jon Kukla (Author)
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October 9, 2007
A pioneering study of Thomas Jefferson’s relationships with women in his personal life and in American society and politics.

The author of the Declaration of Independence, who wrote the words “all men are created equal,” was surprisingly hostile toward women. In eight chapters based on fresh research in little-used sources, Jon Kukla offers the first comprehensive study of Jefferson and women since the controversies of his presidency.

Educated with other boys at a neighborhood boarding school, young Jefferson learned early that homemaking was the realm of his mother and six sisters. From adolescence through maturity, his views about domesticity scarcely wavered, while his discomfort around women brought a succession of embarrassments as he sought to control his emotions. After Rebecca Burwell declined his awkward proposal of marriage, Jefferson reacted first with despondence, then with predatory misogyny, and finally with the attempted seduction of Elizabeth Moore Walker, the wife of a boyhood friend. His marriage at twenty-nine to Martha Wayles Skelton brought a decade of genuine happiness, but ended in despair with her death from complications of childbirth. In Paris a few years later, Maria Cosway rekindled his capacity for romantic friendship but ultimately disappointed his hopes. Against the background of these relationships, Kukla offers a fresh and cogent account of Jefferson’s liaison with Sally Hemings.

Jefferson’s individual relationships with these women are examined in depth in five chapters. Abigail Adams, the women of Paris, and the wife of a British ambassador figure in the first of two closing chapters that examine Jefferson’s attitudes toward women in public life. In the last chapter, Kukla draws connections between Jefferson’s life experiences and his role in defining the subordination of women in law, culture, and education during and after the American Revolution.


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This highly insightful study by Kukla (A Wilderness So Immense), director of the Patrick Henry Memorial Foundation, investigates Thomas Jefferson's relationships with women, from Elizabeth Moore Walker, the married neighbor with whom Jefferson may have had an affair, to Sally Hemings, the slave whose children he purportedly fathered. One of the most fascinating chapters examines the young Jefferson's failed attempts to woo a classmate's sister, Rebecca Burwell, whose rejection of his marriage proposal may have incited the misogyny found throughout his writings. Perhaps the least satisfying section studies Jefferson's relationship with his wife, Martha: since Jefferson destroyed their private correspondence after she died, Kukla's re-creation of their relationship is necessarily sketchy. The conclusion moves to a larger argument concerning Jefferson's thinking about women as citizens. Kukla shows that Jefferson was much less open to women's political participation and education than were contemporary Enlightenment thinkers, and his definition of America as a white male polity was rooted in his personal discomfort with women. This is one of the most discerning and provocative studies of Jefferson in years. B&w illus., map. (Oct. 12)
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The enigmatic aspects of Thomas Jefferson's character have frustrated both his contemporaries and historians. John Adams, his on-again-off-again friend, referred to him as a "shadow man." Kukla probes Jefferson's relations with and attitudes toward women. Although the broad outlines of Jefferson's relations with specific women are well known, Kukla has used some obscure sources to provide interesting and even titillating information. He does not present a flattering portrait of Jefferson. In his youthful and futile courtship of a teenage Virginia girl, Jefferson appears understandably clumsy and disturbingly bitter after she rejects him. When he makes "improper advances" toward the wife of a friend, he seems downright obnoxious. Kukla also casts a critical eye on Jefferson's marriage, his apparently intense attachment to Maria Cosway in Paris, and, of course, his supposed affair with his slave Sally Hemings. Kukla concludes that Jefferson's sentiments regarding women were a mixture of suspicion, contempt, and possessiveness. Still, this is a useful, if flawed, contribution to our knowledge of, perhaps, our most fascinating Founding Father. Freeman, Jay

Product Details

  • Hardcover: 279 pages
  • Publisher: Alfred A. Knopf; 1st edition (October 9, 2007)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1400043247
  • ISBN-13: 978-1400043248
  • Product Dimensions: 9.2 x 6.5 x 1.2 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1.4 pounds
  • Average Customer Review: 3.6 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (11 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #938,837 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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5.0 out of 5 stars another perspective on jefferson, November 26, 2007
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Just when you thought you had read everything...Jon Kukla presents a very readable portrait of Jefferson's "relationships" with women--which leads to new insights about this great man--and, more interestingly, his attitudes towards women in general. The final chapters about his broader view of women as a threat to republican government place Jefferson in the context of his time. There is a remarkable discussion of Jefferson and Abigail Adams' letters. The book is eminently fair about Sally Hemings and gives a new meaning to the notion that "all men are created equal". Thank you, Jon Kukla, for beginning a lively conversation that is well worth your engagement.
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6 of 7 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars An insightful exploration of Jefferson's sexual attitudes, June 4, 2008
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Thomas Jefferson is one of the most troubling characters among America's founding fathers. He penned the immortal ideals of freedom and equality in the Declaration of Independence. We, from our modern perspective, also like the fact that he was an intellectual and that he brought refreshing informality to the White House. In recent years, his reputation has been tarnished by re-examination of his disturbing political tendencies. (See for example, John Adams and Negro President: Jefferson and the Slave Power). This book provides additional insights into Jefferson's character by examining his relation to the women in his life, and the insights add more tarnish to Jefferson's reputation that go beyond the understandably archaic attitudes that might belong to a man of his time. As clearly documented here, "all men created equal" applied no more to women than to blacks in Jefferson's mind. Each woman discussed here provides additional perspective. As to the Sally Hemings controversy, Kukla carefully lays out enough circumstantial details to undermine the most strident doubter.

A fine book, worthy of a wider audience.
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4 of 5 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars An informative and enjoyable book, May 1, 2008
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I really enjoyed reading this book. The author wrote it in a way that both educates and compells you to read more. I found it hard to put down. My favorite parts were very personal, real-life events that made Mr. Jefferson even more real to me. My favorite is, during his presidency, an account of his chosen attire while welcoming a Rep. of the British King. He was wearing well worn slippers that he tossed around on his toes (priceless!). I also found the additional quotes and excerpts of letters from people such as Abigail Adams and others a welcome addition. Kudos to the author for such an insighful, wonderful, well thought out book about Jefferson and the various forms of relationships with women during his life.
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Maria Cosway, Sally Hemings, Rebecca Burwell, Abigail Adams, Thomas Jefferson, John Walker, Elizabeth Moore Walker, Martha Wayles Skelton Jefferson, Martha Jefferson, White House, Richard Cosway, Elizabeth Walker, John Adams, Albemarle County, John Page, All Men Are Created Equal, Lucy Burwell, American Revolution, Madison Hemings, John Wayles, Poplar Forest, Martha Wayles Jefferson, Elizabeth Merry, Jack Ambler, Bernard Moore
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