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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars
Interesting look at the role of an officer's wife, May 14, 2008
Reviewed by Kam Aures for RebeccasReads (5/08)
"Mrs. Lieutenant: A Sharon Gold Novel" begins in May of 1970, right after the Kent State shootings by the National Guard. Four very different women and their husbands begin their journey down to Fort Knox, Kentucky where their husbands will be attending nine weeks of Army Officer's Basic Training.
The book alternates telling the story from each woman's point of view. First, we have Sharon, a Jewish woman from the North who is anti-war. Second, there is Kim who is a Southerner with a husband who keeps close tabs on her and has jealousy issues. Thirdly, we have Donna who is of Puerto Rican ancestry and grew up in a military family. Lastly, there is Wendy who is an African-American from the South.
The characters in this novel come from very different backgrounds and are the epitome of these differences in 1970, only six years after the passage of the Civil Rights Act, so it was very intriguing to see how they would react in certain social situations with one another. I was curious whether or not they would be able to change their way of thinking and become more accepting of those who differed from themselves. I found it interesting when the author had them experience new things and form relationships outside of their comfort zone.
The only linking factor among the four main characters is that they are all officers' wives. Take away this commonality and take into account the time period and you have four very distinctive individuals with varying belief systems. For instance, as a white Southern Baptist, Kim has issues with people of different backgrounds. In one exchange between Kim and her husband, she mentions that when she went with Sharon to the PX there was a black man who held the door for them. Sharon said it was because he was being polite but Kim thought he was gawking at them. Kim's husband perceives this happened not only because of Sharon's being Jewish, and says, "That's Northerner's thinking. They just don't know what we know, living with them the way we do."
Another thing about the book I liked was that at the beginning of each chapter there was a quote from Mary Preston Gross' 1970's "Mrs. Lieutenant" which taught proper etiquette for an officer's wife. It was interesting to read some of the standard protocol for certain situations and events.
The author, Phyllis Zimbler Miller, writes from experience as she was a former "Mrs. Lieutenant" herself during the 1970s. Even though this book is fictional it is based in fact and I felt I learned a lot about military life and, overall, about the tension among people who were of different backgrounds during this era. I recommend "Mrs. Lieutenant" for any military family or for anyone who enjoys fiction written about the Vietnam War time period.
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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars
The Best of Everything for Vietnam-Era Miltary Wives, May 27, 2008
Phyllis Miller sent me this book after seeing my name on an Internet forum. I was a little concerned because many first novels are really amateurish, almost embarrassing to read.
But I really liked Mrs. Lieutenant. Miller is a writer. She knows how to set up her story and make the characters seem real. Her pacing was good: I didn't want to stop reading. The story arc was strong.
As I read, I was reminded of Rona Jaffe's classic, The best of everything, made into a movie that captured the 50s era career woman.
What Jaffe did for the college graduate in publishing, Miller does for the Vietnam era junior officer's wife.
Those women reminded me of my college classmates who married right out of college (even though they weren't all college grads). Women were expected to marry. They had uneasy relationships with their husbands. They worried about what to wear and what to cook. And they lived in those awful apartments! I visited friends with husbands in grad school, living in student housing and eating budget meals...very similar.
Miller captures the freshness and naiveté of those women, all transplanted to an environment that forced them to deal with new challenges. They met people who were really different from themselves in religion, values, child rearing styles and of course accents. They're so nervous when summoned to tea with the commanding officer and they wear gloves...gloves!
We didn't get too much insight into the men's days at Armor School in Fort Knox. They didn't seem to have homework and they didn't talk about getting uniforms ready and other details of their world.
As a survivor of that era, not married myself, I watched my friends grow into the Women's Movement just five years later. They went back to school, finished graduate degrees and told their husbands, "It's my turn now." Some got divorced. Some just went through a rocky patch.
I just watched the PBS series, Carrier. Commentaries noted that officers' wives have their own careers now. They're doctors, lawyers, psychologists and teachers. Watching families join sailors at the end of the cruise, you could see how much the military has changed. For one thing, women are flying planes off carrier decks and running traffic control rooms.
So what I take away from Mrs. Lieutenant is a trip down memory lane. I can remember not just the hairstyles but also the tight social fabric, the awkward social situations when you had to do the right thing, the young women rushing into marriages instead of taking time to have their own lives.
Miller subtitles the book "A Sharon Gold Novel," suggesting she will write more. I hope she does.
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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars
The Women Behind the Men, January 16, 2008
"Mrs. Lieutenant" presents the vivid, personal stories of four young wives as they learn to cope with military life, against the backdrop of America at war--both in Vietnam and at home--in 1970. The four "Mrs. Lieutenants" (they are defined by their husbands' roles) embark on their individual journeys into womanhood, providing us with an intimate, detailed perspective on one of our Nation's most dynamic, unsettling and influential eras.
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