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Product Details

  • Hardcover: 56 pages
  • Publisher: Little Five Star; 1 edition (August 29, 2011)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1589850815
  • ISBN-13: 978-1589850811
  • Product Dimensions: 8.1 x 8 x 0.3 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 10.4 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.9 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (21 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #381,266 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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Tami has thoughtfully and directly dealt with a topic generally associated with negative stereotypes in our society. While her words should be recommended reading to children involved in stepfamily situations, they are of equal importance to the adults involved as well. This book shows a combined family is not about making a choice of one or the other, rather it is an opportunity filled with endless positive possibilities. The best interests of the children is a frequent phrase in the world of divorce and stepfamilies. Tami successfully provides a road map with potential positive long-term effects for a child and family. ----Tim Mead, V.P. LA Angels of Anaheim

This book beautifully captures the step-parent and how he/she can be a wonderful added gift to a family. It is a great way to dispel the evil stepmother label that has been drilled into our society by old fairy tales. Happily ever after and Step Parents CAN go hand in hand. ----Bill and Gail Engvall, Comedian, Televison Star of The Bill Engvall

This is an excellent way to show children, through the eyes of the author, Tami s, experience, that they can have a great relationship with a new stepmother, without being disloyal to Mom, and that divorces are not the fault of the children. --Tom Horne, Arizona State Attorney General

This book beautifully captures the step-parent and how he/she can be a wonderful added gift to a family. It is a great way to dispel the evil stepmother label that has been drilled into our society by old fairy tales. Happily ever after and Step Parents CAN go hand in hand. ----Bill and Gail Engvall, Comedian, Televison Star of The Bill Engvall

This is an excellent way to show children, through the eyes of the author, Tami s, experience, that they can have a great relationship with a new stepmother, without being disloyal to Mom, and that divorces are not the fault of the children. --Tom Horne, Arizona State Attorney General

About the Author

An Arizona girl whose roots grow deep in the state her grandmother graduated from Phoenix Union High School in 1935 Tami Butcher has seen the Valley grow into the metropolis it is today. She graduated from the University of Arizona with a degree in business communications and later earned a teaching degree from Grand Canyon University. It was while teaching seventh-graders at Phoenix Prep Academy, that she made it her goal to write a children's book. But first, she married the love of her life, Mike, and started a family. She currently has three children ages 6, 9 and 13. As a child, Butcher grew up with what she lovingly refers to as her bonus mom, a nurturing, caring woman many in society would refer to as a stepmother. Butcher's parents amicably divorced when she was 11, and for the sake of Butcher and her three sisters, decided to keep each other fully involved in their children's lives despite the divorce. Eventually both her parents remarried, but they continued to share birthdays, holidays and special times together with their children, as well as with their new spouses. Because of her parents' efforts, Butcher and her sisters grew up feeling blessed for having two moms and dads instead of stepparents. Reflecting on her own family dynamics, Butcher realized that if she could plant a seed in children's minds that having a stepmother or stepfather can be a bonus, then their minds and hearts might grow to accept their parents' new spouses instead of automatically thinking of them as evil as many childhood fairytales portray them. The product of that revelation was My Bonus Mom! Always a philanthropic person, Butcher dedicates her time to helping others in need. She is currently a member of the East Valley Women s League, a nonprofit 501(c)(3) that raises funds for more than 13 projects for women and children in the Valley, and is slated to be president for 2011-12. Tami gives time to New Hope Church, an inner-city church located in the most impoverished ZIP code in Arizona, and she teaches Art Masterpiece to kindergarten and third-grade classes in Chandler, which lacks the funds for regular Art classes. Currently, Butcher resides in Chandler, Ariz. with her husband and three children, where she helps with the family restaurant business. Her mother and "bonus dad" own two popular restaurants in Phoenix, Rustler's Rooste Steakhouse and Aunt Chilada's. Tami and her three children love to travel to Southern California during baseball season as her husband, Mike, is the pitching coach for the LA Angels of Anaheim. He has been with the Angels for 21 years as both a player and a coach.

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This book is a fantastic present for any family who has a stepmom.
Misty Richter
To this very day, you can see and feel that from everyone in her clan.
Chris States
My step daughters have a Bonus Mom and I have three Bonus Daughters!
Diana

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18 of 19 people found the following review helpful By Nicole Nelles on January 7, 2012
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As an almost-stepmom to a four-year-old, I was really excited to get this book in our home to help explain this new relationship and term to him. Unfortunately, the book isn't what we were expecting. The book highlights dad's anger at the divorce (red face; lots of anger in the words and illustrations) and portrays the children's mother as a frumpy lonely woman, with dad's new wife as the stereotypical younger, spunkier woman. While I get the intent ("New stepmoms are a positive thing! Fun!"), it just fed into stereotypical situations, and didn't at all send the message we were hoping. Sorry, we returned this book and never read it to our boy.
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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful By Kristi Bernard on September 11, 2011
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Divorce is difficult for parents and especially the kids. The children involved don't always understand and will put the blame on themselves. The best solution for this problem is to sit down with your kids and talk to them. Help them understand that they are not the problem. If you need a little visual help, introduce your young children to "My Bonus Mom".

Not all stepparents are bad. Tami Butcher helps parents and children communicate their feelings with this wonderfully illustrated book. The core of this story comes from her own personal experiences as a young girl. Young readers can identify with the children in this book and will enjoy reading it over and over again.

The story Butcher shares is about three sisters who are experiencing divorce. Both parents are upset but they are assured it is not at them. Soon they are spending certain days with mom and every other weekend with dad. As they get the hang of the new schedule they find that birthdays and Christmas are double the fun with double the gifts. Even the dog has adapted. All seems well until dad brings along a new friend to meet them. The girls find that they enjoy her very much and would like to get to know her.

Butcher does a great job of showing readers that a new stepparent is a bonus. Readers will find through the rhythmic verse that stepparents are just people they will learn to love and in return they will be loved twice as much. This is a great story to share with children aged 5 to 8.
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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful By Kathleen A. Cabrera on October 16, 2011
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This book is written for an 8-yr-old and younger reading audience. YET it has so much wisdom in it - that I think adults can learn JUST as much as the kids for whom it is written. As a stepmom myself, paging through this book - I thought "I AM a BONUS mom" and thought of ways that I could view the circumstance of me joining my step-daughter's life from her perspective. And, by doing that - better position myself as a bonus parent - and "an extra" in her life. The "step" should be removed from 'step-family' and I applaud this author for using her own life experience in a bonus family to help inspire others to do the same.
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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful By Sharon A. Warren on September 18, 2011
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My Bonus Mom, Taking the Step Out of Step Mom, is a much needed and important contribution on this subject in today's world. It's an easy read with a very positive message and colorful, fun illustrations. It changes the whole 'step parent' issue into what can potentially be a happy dynamic and very healthy approach for any blended family.

Tami's caring biological parents are to be congratulated in their mutual love and nurturing of their three daughters during difficult family times. The eventual bonus Mom and Dad are also to be celebrated for their love in embracing them all (his, hers and theirs). It is inspiring to see how this enriched everyone's lives in the process. This true story is heartwarming and reflects that what we role model, instill and teach our children about love and acceptance becomes a joyous living reality both now and in future generations.

Children, parents and grandparents, who have the good fortune to read this book together will be blessed with the real understanding of the power of love in action. Thank you, Tami! Shine on!
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3 of 4 people found the following review helpful By Chris States on September 18, 2011
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I must confess up front, I do know the author. As a matter of fact, I have known the author Tami and her entire family for quite a long time. So you may count this review as biased if you must. I can bear witness to how Tami's family turned a divorce and remarriages into a wonderful, positive thing for her entire big, beautiful blended family! To this very day, you can see and feel that from everyone in her clan. This book so wonderfully hits head on how a real life, confusing, unsettling, and scary divorce can be turned into a healthy, loving environment for all. I applaud all four of her parents for the great work they did. They all can be credited with helping to raise four pretty amazing kids that I am lucky enough to know. However, simply living the experience, does not automatically write the book. Tami has done a tremendous job molding her own story into an inspiring and touching, perfectly written guide for all those faced with this situation. I was not a child of divorce, but my daughter unfortunately was . When my daughter was young, her mother remarried and it was a struggle. I wish I would have had this book available during that time. Mostly for my daughter, but for myself as well. I have come to very much like my daughter's Bonus Dad and am thankful he is a part of my daughter's life. If your children or anyone you care about, is faced with this situation...this amazing book can be a helpful tool to help the kids (and parents) through the rough waters of a split up or a new person coming into their lives! Bravo Tami!
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