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Product Details

  • Hardcover: 224 pages
  • Publisher: Harry N. Abrams; First Edition edition (March 1, 2012)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1419702165
  • ISBN-13: 978-1419702167
  • Product Dimensions: 9.6 x 6.5 x 1.3 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1.7 pounds (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.4 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (105 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #371,244 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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About the Author

Derf Backderf has been nominated for two Eisner Awards and has received a host of honors, including the prestigious Robert F. Kennedy Journalism Award for political cartooning. His weekly comic strip, The City, has appeared in more than 100 newspapers over the past 22 years. Backderf lives in Cleveland, Ohio.

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A wonderful graphic novel.
Author Derf Backderf knew Jeff Dahmer in high school and this book is a narrative of his recollections.
I could not put the book down and read it at one sitting.

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37 of 41 people found the following review helpful By Amazon Customer on February 14, 2012
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I didn't intend to read this all in one sitting. I put it down once, because I was deeply, deeply perturbed and needed a minute to collect my thoughts. Then I picked it back up and read for a couple more hours. It's not just Dahmer that's upsetting. In fact, he becomes a consequence of an inattentive, uncaring system. Seeing authority figures fail to execute their duties, and the consequent existence of the Dahmer who became infamous, was the truly upsetting part for me. Memoir, horror, tragedy, true-crime, perverse coming-of-age,My Friend Dahmer is chilling.

I'm very careful recommending comics works to those that don't read many comics. This is an obvious pick. And if you do read comics regularly...why haven't you purchased this yet?
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21 of 23 people found the following review helpful By Geoff Hoyer on February 20, 2012
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This is an amazing, very personal memoir of a high-school nobody who is now remembered as a monster. It in no way absolves Dahmer, but it humanizes him to the extent where we can see him as a person. Not that we can see what went on in his head, but the context in which he lost it. This is a very personal story, but Derf has filled it in with outside research (without stepping out of the personal story) and the (text) timeline at the end fills in the horror story for those who don't know any or all the story.
I've been reading Derf for ages, and he's one of my favorites. I love his comix. His other book Punk Rock and Trailer Parks is a boisterous remembering of the punk era in the 80s. My Friend Dahmer is not happy or uplifting. But it's a gripping story of alienation, neglect and everyday inattention.
All the characters you remember from high school are in this book. And also a serial killer.
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19 of 21 people found the following review helpful By Harrison Koehli on March 30, 2012
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First off, let me just say that I couldn't put this book down. It was both fascinating and disturbing and fulfilled that strange curiosity that comes up whenever you read an account of someone so disturbed that they engage in the most heinous acts imaginable. How could they be that way? What must go wrong inside of them to allow them to do such things? And what were they like as teenagers? Well, that last question may not be typical, and it was only after reading the premise of the book that I really thought about it. Would there be signs at that age? What is the reaction of people close to such psychopaths to learn about the reality that lies behind the mask of sanity?

Well, in that department, My Friend Dahmer delivers. There's plenty an anecdote to inspire nervous laughter, wide-eyed disbelief, and stunned disappointment at all the missed opportunities that might have prevented such a despicable spree of murder. Dahmer's antics in high school were odd, to say the least, and betrayed very early on a remarkable lack of empathy and capacity for manipulation, as well as the growth of the necrophiliac desires that would prompt his many murders.

But I think it's in Dahmer's capacity for manipulation that the book suffers. It seems to me that even with the benefit of hindsight, Backderf might be buy into Dahmer's story of himself a tad too much. Backderf (but he's not the only one) presents what he believes to be the motivation and psychological history that led to the man Dahmer became: a broken home, absent parents, strange and shameful desires. It's a story that inspires pity (but not necessarily compassion, as Backderf himself writes). But is it the truth? After all the reading I've done on psychopathy and character disorders, I highly doubt it.
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5 of 5 people found the following review helpful By Reckless Reader on December 23, 2012
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This book is exactly why I keep picking up random graphic works to see what is going on out there in the land of people who draw books, instead of writing them -- every so often, I hit one that is completely brilliant, one that does what no number of words could do, one that simply captures the weird that exists in everyday scenes.....the artist here is not trying to do the definitive work on what makes a serial killer what he is - he's simply trying to recount what he saw of this strange tragic creature as he was growing up with him....the book ends up being brilliantly ambiguous precisely because it depicts in considerable detail what formed J Dahmer, and how all that specificity still does not "explain" Dahmer...that degree of ambiguity is left for the reader to bring to the story, the artist simply tells his story and leaves it for the reader to glean what he/she may. The critique of this book, that it does not answer all the questions about Dahmer, is precisely what makes it so great -- it is not trying to be definitive. And the less I say about the drawing, the better, because I understand so little of what Scott McCloud has taught us about "cartooning" -- but like Potter Stewart's comment on pornography, I can't define great drawing, but I know it when I see it, and this is IT. Get it, read it, in one sitting, and come away profoundly disturbed - it won't leave you untouched, which is perhaps the point of "art"....
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7 of 9 people found the following review helpful By Robvs on April 28, 2013
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This book is not memorable.

I finished it in an hour, with a solid attempt at appreciating the lackluster artwork. The pages are extremely thick, leading one to think that it contains much more content than it actually does. It's short. Strangely enough, it's also redundant.

I expected the author to present some insight into Dahmer's childhood/teenage years. However, his childhood was exactly what you would have guessed, and the author provides little about Dahmer's life. Just the repetitious "We all ostracized him. He killed some animals in the woods (which is never really shown). He almost killed people (and stops the story as soon as he actually does). He drank a lot. His parents ostracized him." But it was the same thing over and over. May as well have reused the tiles. And it was presented in such a boring manner. You're not supposed to get bored in less than 200 pages of a comic book about a serial killer, easily read in an hour. I was left with many questions, including: "Did the author even know anything about him?" and "Is this the best person to have written this book?"

I didn't learn anything from this book, I wasn't entertained by this book, I wasn't appreciative of the art or form of this book, and nothing stands out in my mind. Every time I've read a book, I've felt inclined to turn to a friend and say, "Hey did you know..." But this book does not leave me with that inclination. You will learn zip about the Dahmer case, the Dahmer psyche, the Dahmer childhood, other than what you may have assumed. The first paragraph of the Jeffrey Dahmer Wikipedia page can certainly provide more info and entertainment.
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