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My Mother's Island: A Novel [Hardcover]

Marnie Mueller (Author)
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March 2, 2002

In Marnie Mueller's My Mother's Island, Sarah Ellis must tend to her dying mother, Reba. This moving story of subterranean conflict between a mother and her only child explores the tension between duty and commitment-how to honor one's parents even when one feels damaged by them. With sorrow, rage, empathy, and touches of humor, the story reaches its irrevocable conclusion in a death scene where Sarah is shocked to find a simple truth that has always evaded her.

This novel is played out against the lush ambiance of the Caribbean and the embracing involvement of the people of the working class Puerto Rican community where Sarah's parents settled twenty years earlier. Sarah, who has always taken care of her mother's needs, has steeled herself to single-handedly provide support to her dying mother, but gradually allows other to help her-Lydia Rentas, the girlfriend of a local heroin user and the foster mother of a child whose own mother has AIDS; Estela, a neighbor across the street, whose carport is overflowing with orchids; Inez, whose four-year-old daughter has become the granddaughter Sarah has never provided her mother; Pearl, a former sports writer who is Reba's bridge partner; and Dr. Gold, a New Yorker who thirty years earlier married a Puerto Rican and has taken on Latino attitudes toward the process of dying. With their support, Sarah comes to terms with her mother and with her own past.

"My Mother's Island is a daughter's death watch: loving, angry, remorseful, and profoundly revealing of our lives as adult children. Marnie Mueller's honest and unsentimental novel helped me fathom the meaning of my own mother's recent death and should similarly serve other readers in negotiating the strong currents and unpredictable eddies of this milestone of primary loss."-Wally Lamb, author of She's Come Undone.


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A woman returns to Puerto Rico to help her terminally ill mother through her final days in Mueller's third novel, a gritty yet graceful book that unflinchingly looks at the reality of losing a parent. The story opens with Sarah Ellis leaving her job and husband in New York to join her mother, Reba, as abdominal cancer begins its final march through Reba's battered body. But Sarah is hardly an angel of mercy in a series of flashbacks, Mueller reveals both Reba's deep-seated cruelty toward her daughter and Sarah's hatred for her mother, a revulsion offset to some extent by Sarah's respect for the devotion to social activism that Reba shared with her late husband, Scott. Some of the passages describing the family history are a bit mawkish and pedestrian, but the second half of this book turns absolutely riveting as Mueller delves into Sarah's fear, love and loathing while Reba stubbornly tries to hang onto her dignity as she awaits a final visit from her son-in-law, Roberto, a psychologist who is all too aware of the manipulation dominating the mother-daughter relationship. The account of the final days is especially gut-wrenching, as Sarah is finally forced to call in a nurse and a family friend to help her through her mother's brutal last hours. As a novel, this is a lovely but painful account of a difficult journey two women must take together to bring their problematic relationship to a close. On a deeper level, Mueller has crafted an exceptional book about the spirituality of death and dying that gets inside the reality of losing a parent with an intimacy and depth that no self-help treatise can hope to match. Agent, Liza Dawson. (Mar.)Forecast: Readers searching for texts on death and dying will find this novel especially compelling, but general readers will also appreciate Mueller's craftsmanship and insight. A blurb from Wally Lamb should help draw browsers. Five-city author tour.

Copyright 2002 Cahners Business Information, Inc.

From Library Journal

Sarah Ellis's mother has many islands: Puerto Rico, her retirement home; the inner space she retreats to at unexpected moments; and her self-imposed emotional isolation. As her mother approaches death, Sarah makes a literal and figurative journey to reach those islands. Over the course of 27 days as her mother succumbs to cancer, Sarah struggles with her hatred of her mother and her own need to be needed. As she revisits childhood horrors and learns to let go of some of the past and to embrace, albeit cautiously, her mother's efforts to reach out, Sarah moves toward forgiveness and peace. Using elements of her own life, Mueller (Climate of the Country) has ably captured the conflicts and ambiguities of emotional relationships with both gentleness and honesty. Recommended for public libraries and women's collections. Jan Blodgett, Davidson Coll. Lib., NC
Copyright 2001 Reed Business Information, Inc.

Product Details

  • Hardcover: 240 pages
  • Publisher: Curbstone Press; 1 edition (March 2, 2002)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1880684829
  • ISBN-13: 978-1880684825
  • Product Dimensions: 8.6 x 5.8 x 1 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 15.2 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.2 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (5 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #2,030,534 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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5.0 out of 5 stars A Story of Human Depths, Beautifully Told, June 7, 2002
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I have just finished reading My Mother's Island, by Marnie Mueller, and I am still rocked by the experience. The mother-daughter relationship is, as we all know, layered with emotions of all kinds, feelings that persist throughout our lives whether or not we feel we were well-mothered, indeed, even if we had no mother growing up, as I did not. As a mother (and recent grandmother) myself, who has written books about being a mother, I was brought back in this beautifully written and profoundly felt novel to my own daughterhood. It is a novel about two women and their love/hate relationship, about a mother dying and a daughter surviving,about an abusive mother whose daughter nevertheless attends her dying with dedication, friendship if never a sentimental kind of love. But this is not a depressing or upsetting novel - except in the sense that we are upset in our ordinary vision of things by stories that part the veil of what Virginia Woolf called "the cotton wool of daily life," enabling us to experience "moments of being," when we become conscious of the reality of things behind appearances. Reading Mueller's story of a mother's dying, a daughter's need to relive and once again reconcile with her past, and in the end experience a kind of rebirth - I was jolted and riveted, turning pages to find out how it would all end, yet at the same time wanting to go slowly in order to savor the language and the insights. The descriptions of the present - a small house in Puerto Rico - and the past - the narrator's childhood - (a chilling scene remains in my mind of the daughter as a little girl hiding from her mother in a haystack) - as well as the daughter's home in New York City, a kind of beacon of peace and sanity in her mind from where her psychoanalyst husband talks to her by phone, - all are lush, detailed and vivid. I have already had two dreams about the novel as it opens up my own memories. It is one of those books that sinks down into you. I have always loved Marnie Mueller's work, but this novel brings her capacities for observation of the human soul to an even deeper level than in part work.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Grace and Courage, June 7, 2002
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Coming to terms with the death of a parent is difficult enough, but when that parent--Sarah's mother, in this case--is the source of profound psychological trauma and pain, the road to understanding must be both rocky and rewarding for a daughter.
The story that unfolds here is rich with secrets that are revealed in a fascinating mix of present-day events in Puerto Rico (the island of the title, where Sarah goes to care for her dying mother) and flashbacks to Sarah's complicated childhood with her unconventional parents. The combination is riveting, and we come to admire and love this young woman for her courage and insight. Even her deep fears and anger don't keep her from doing what she ultimately decides is the right thing to do. Sarah's journey of reconciliation and healing is the reader's journey, too, and we're with her every step of the way.
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5.0 out of 5 stars This is an amazing novel!, April 8, 2002
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"My Mother's Island" is a powerful exploration of the mother-daughter dynamic. Marnie Mueller's prose is beautiful, her characters unforgettable and her story riveting. I could not put this book down as I followed Sarah unraveling the mystery of her relationship with her mother while in the process of losing her. This book is a gem.
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MY MOTHER SITS on the couch, waiting for me, done up like a little doll in one of her brightly colored cotton dresses; this one is pink and tangerine. Read the first page
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Puerto Rico, New York, San Juan, Puerto Rican, Ira Rosenblatt, Calle Maruja, Levittown Lakes, Bill Anderson, Long Island, Intensive Care Unit, Jane Smythe, Jean Devereaux, Leah Goldberg, Lower East Side, Auntie Reba, Billy Kingsley, New Philadelphia, Reba Ellis
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