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My Nepenthe: Bohemian Tales of Food, Family, and Big Sur [Hardcover]

Romney Steele (Author)
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November 17, 2009
"A very special book about a very special place." --Michael Pollan, author of The Omnivore's Dilemma and In Defense of Food

"What a world Romney Steele has given us in My Nepenthe! This personal tale is as tender and bright as a bite of Nepenthe Cheese Pie and will transport me--and you--to Big Sur and the days and nights of this magical place. My Nepenthe serves a big, gorgeous slice of American culture that I loved visiting through words and memory." --Deborah Madison, author of What We Eat When We Eat Alone and Vegetarian Cooking for Everyone

"Romney Steele grew up in the lively bohemian milieu of Nepenthe on the Big Sur coast and knows all the stories worth telling. In My Nepenthe, an intimate, richly illustrated memoir with recipes culled from the restaurant's 60 years, she writes marvelously about her "crazy stew of a family" and especially her beloved grandmother, whose kindness and hospitality were legendary. --Caroline Bates, contributing editor, Gourmet magazine

My Nepenthe weaves together stories and tales about the famous California restaurant perched on the majestic cliffs of Big Sur. It celebrates the magic and history of place through food and the Fassett family who started Nepenthe.

A lyrical feast written by the owners' granddaughter, Romney Steele, who grew up at the restaurant, My Nepenthe is as much about a family enterprise as it is about the Fassett family and their legacy. It recounts stories about the family's more than sixty-year history on the coast, the arts and architecture, and the colorful people who were the genesis of this legendary restaurant.

My Nepenthe marks the restaurant's vibrant past as a gathering place and noted bohemian haunt, and its foray into the film industry during the shooting of The Sandpiper, featuring Elizabeth Taylor and Richard Burton. It also explores the lively scene that played out into the '70s, and onward through the current decade where it showcases Nepenthe's unique relationship with Pisoni Vineyards, owned by the renowned winemaker family. My Nepenthe includes more than seventy-five special recipes from the Fassetts, the restaurant, and the cafe, along with spectacular photography that completes the tale.

Ultimately, My Nepenthe is a story about food, family, and the culture of place, and how it all unfolds around the table and why that matters.

About Nepenthe

Located on the Big Sur cliffs 808 feet above the Pacific Ocean, Nepenthe Restaurant boasts sweeping views of the rugged Santa Lucia Mountains and the wild south coast of Monterey County. Angular mountains plunge into the crashing surf below, and on a clear day there is no limit to the scenery, unspoiled and immense in nature. Opened in 1949 by the Fassett family, the restaurant is nestled among native oak trees and a historic log cabin (now faced by brick) that was once owned by Orson Welles and Rita Hayworth.


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"Romney Steele's book tells the story of her family's long history and involvement in Big Sur's development from a small, rural coastal area to a burgeoning bohemian enclave and popular tourist destination." --Epicurious, naming My Nepenthe among the Best Cookbooks of 2009

""My Nepenthe" makes me want to get in my car and drive south. Until I can, the book is the next best thing. " --Santa Rosa Press Democrat

"My Nepenthe weaves together stories and tales about the famous California restaurant perched on the majestic cliffs of Big Sur. It celebrates the magic and history of place through food and the Fassett family who started Nepenthe. ... Ultimately, My Nepenthe is a story about food, family, and the culture of place, and how it all unfolds around the table and why that matters." --Jessica's Biscuit

About the Author

Romney Steele is a writer, cook, and food stylist, and the granddaughter of Bill and Lolly Fassett, creators of Nepenthe Restaurant. Nani, as she is known to family and friends, grew up at the family restaurant and opened Cafe Kevah, an outdoor cafe on the Nepenthe grounds, when she was twenty-six years old. She later served as a pastry chef at Sierra Mar Restaurant at neighboring Post Ranch Inn. Her writing has appeared in various print magazines, including Gourmet, and online at MSNBC. She currently lives in Oakland, California, with her two children.

Product Details

  • Hardcover: 352 pages
  • Publisher: Andrews McMeel Publishing (November 17, 2009)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0740779141
  • ISBN-13: 978-0740779145
  • Product Dimensions: 9.9 x 7.8 x 1.3 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 2.4 pounds (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.4 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (65 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #73,377 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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Romney Steele is a writer, cook, and food stylist, and the granddaughter of Bill and Lolly Fassett, creators of Nepenthe Restaurant. Nani, as she is known to family and friends, grew up at the family restaurant and opened Cafe Kevah, an outdoor cafe on the Nepenthe grounds, when she was twenty-six years old. She later served as a pastry chef at Sierra Mar Restaurant at neighboring Post Ranch Inn. Her writing has appeared in various print magazines, including Gourmet, and online at MSNBC. She currently lives in Oakland, California, with her two children.

 

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26 of 31 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars The Kingdom of Nepenthe and its Queen, November 2, 2009
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I have just finished feasting, and am still savoring tasteful images and recipes from the most breathtakingly beautiful "cook book" I've ever read. Perhaps it is because it is so much more than food that is displayed here. Romney Steele has preserved the unique legacy of precious photos, of long forgotten places and faces, of people I have known and loved personally, all bound together in an elegant treasure chest she calls, "My Nepenthe".

Romney (known as Nani) Steel has crafted a lovely monument of history, rendered in the simple language of reverie, that explores her family's roots, and how visionary people brought the gift of Nepenthe to Big Sur and the world. Nepenthe (no sorrow) is an architectural wonder of a restaurant with an unrivaled view of the coast that has become a world-class tourist must-see place during its 60 year history. People still come to look, to wonder, to drink deeply of the beauty, to dine and to dance on its moon-washed balcony overlooking the ocean. Visitors in the past might have been treated to a fashion parade from the Phoenix Boutique, or to an impromptu folk dance. There are those who would line the stone bleachers festooned with pillows, sipping martinis,watching from a distance the fire dancing in the huge fire pit, or the Fire dancers, and belly dancers who often came to grace the gleaming red-stained dance floor. In the sparkling summer days brightly colored umbrellas shade the diners as they enjoy a classic house specialty called "ambrosia" burgers served with homemade french fries, a bean salad, and fine local wines, creating a French Riviera atmosphere.
Last year Nepenthe withstood the most devastating fire ever to sweep through the Ventana wilderness area. Nani's cousin Kirk, Nepenthe's manager, and staff had to beat back the burning embers from the roof and outlying timbers for one whole night, as the blaze threatened to destroy the inheritance of his beloved grandparents. It remains a place deeply loved and revered by local residents, famed for the overarching hospitality of the owners, Bill and Lolly Fassett, Nani's grandparents. Their original home, called the "log cabin" still sits above the restaurant,and is now home to Erin Gafill and her husband Tom Birmingham.
Nani's book strikingly displays well-photographed food dishes, and their storied recipes right from her grandmother Lolly's table. She has learned one of the great secrets of any kitchen, that the presentation of food is as important as its flavor, and has skillfully woven the food, the fame and the fable that is Nepenthe into an artistic fabric. It is as complex and colorful as any of her Uncle Kaffe Fassett's tapestries, and as hauntingly beautiful as any of her cousin Erin's paintings. Nani's family have each contributed works of art to create a lovely window display, featuring her book, at the Phoenix Gift Shop just below Nepenthe.
She has lovingly traced her family's history and drawn a fascinating story of how these early bohemian, avante-garde pioneers in the art world helped to nurture Lolly's vision, and shape the dream of Nepenthe into a reality.
Nani has called this Kingdom, where she grew up under the loving eyes and smile of Lolly her grandmother, MY NEPENTHE. In a sense she has laid claim to it like no other descendant has, but not selfishly. She has put it on display, like the work of art that it is, for the delight of all her family and friends. Now we may all marvel and partake of its unique beauty.
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6 of 6 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Intimate Portrait of Amazing Fassett Family and Big Sur's Bohemian Culture, January 26, 2010
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This exceptionally entertaining and absorbing family biography is almost a time machine. It takes you back to the glory years of Nepenthe--the world-famous restaurant perched on the ocean cliffs off Highway 1 in California's rugged Big Sur region--and makes you feel as if you were actually there in the 50's, 60's, 70's, and all the decades up to the present day.

The restaurant, founded in 1949 and still operated by the amazing Fassett family, was an early center of coastal California Bohemian culture, visited by Henry Miller, Jack Kerouac, Richard Brautigan, Man Ray, Anais Nin, Dylan Thomas, Steve McQueen, Kim Novak, Clint Eastwood, and many other actors, authors, artists, and photographers. The book, presented as an annotated family scrapbook and recipe book, is copiously illustrated with photos of "ordinary" family life in Big Sur; of family weddings, fashion shows, art shows, and other events celebrated at Nepenthe; and of daily dining and dancing at the restaurant and its smaller cousin, Cafe Kevah.

One photo of Holly Fassett in a long Bill Gibb dress (on page 102) has been reprinted so often--in chronicles of the hippie culture, if memory serves me--that I was amazed to learn that the identity of the lovely young woman was actually known. The book also includes special sections devoted to the movie THE SANDPIPERS, which was filmed at Big Sur and Nepenthe.

There are many, many wonderful Nepenthe recipes included. They seem almost too simple to have come from such an expensive restaurant, but their very simplicity makes them practical and accessible to anyone who cooks. My favorite recipe is for a thick sandwich--one synonymous with California, in my mind--that is put together of black bread, a generous amount of cream cheese, raisins, and a layer of walnuts, with chopped dates tossed in if you happen to have some on hand. The food photos accompanying the recipes make your mouth water.

Knitters will enjoy this book because of the photos of adolescent Kaffe Fassett, who is the son of Nepenthe founders Bill and Lolly Fassett, and who grew up in Big Sur. Included are a few photos of Kaffe's knitting as displayed at Nepenthe; and there are scattered bits of inside family information on "Uncle Kaffe", as recalled by author/niece Romney Steele. The book reveals that it was Alice Russell, the manager of Nepenthe's Phoenix Shop, who actually taught Kaffe to knit on his historic train ride home from a Scottish woolen mill. Handknits from selected Kaffe Fassett designs are still sold at the Phoenix Shop today.

This is a sumptuous book, in every respect. It is beautiful to look at, and it succeeds in providing a truly intimate view of the Fassett family, Nepenthe, Big Sur, and the California coastal culture that existed in the second half of the last century.
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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars Warm and fuzzy portrait of a legend, June 24, 2010
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The book is aptly titled. My Nepenthe is no balanced biography or institutional history. Rather, Romney Steele pulls together her considerable talents as a designer and a chef to compile what is mostly a tribute to her grandmother. Always using her own story of as a frame of reference, Steele does not pretend to make it anything else. I can see the book selling wildly at the Nepenthe gift store, but aside from that, its appeal is limited.

I was lucky enough to have visited Nepenthe in the 50s, in Lolly's glory days. My family, fresh from the Midwest, was awestruck as we drove up the road to the restaurant. We enjoyed the stunning views of the Big Sur coast as we sat on the deck freezing, and eating our hamburgers. And folk dancing! What a wild Bohemian life! Even in my twelve year old consciousness, I was captivated, and the Nepenthe myth has stayed with me all these 50+ years.

Subsequent visits have been disappointing, and now I know that everything changed when Lolly passed away, though Steele discretely left too, too many questions unanswered about Nepenthe today.

That said, the book was a delight and I read it through in two sittings. I know a little bit more about the Nepenthe story now, but this only whetted my appetite. I hope to see a more in depth biography of the Fossetts and the Big Sur scene.
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