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My Therapist's Dog: Lessons in Unconditional Love [Hardcover]

Diana Wells (Author)
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January 6, 2004
Diana Wells's intriguing exploration into the rewards of relationships--both the canine and human varieties--begins when she reluctantly starts seeing a psychologist, Beth, during a difficult time in her life. With no insurance to pay for counseling, a barter is arranged in which the client becomes part-time caretaker to the therapist's dog, Luggs, a sweet, clumsy black Labrador retriever.

As Wells examines her past--her peripatetic childhood, her eccentric family, her grief over the deaths of loved ones--Luggs provides a bridge between therapist and patient. Dog lover by nature, historian by trade, Wells finds herself curious about the connections that dogs and humans have shared for centuries--and what these bonds tell us about our own psyches.

Wells observes that training a dog has much in common with the therapeutic techniques her psychologist employs. Looking into recent experiments that have proved dogs better at interpreting human behavior than chimps or wolves, Wells explores the subtleties of her own relationship with dogs. Increasingly she finds herself agreeing with Diogenes, the original Greek cynic (the word cynic comes from the greek kuon, meaning "dog"), who said that unless we think like dogs, happiness will elude us.

Wells analyzes what we name our dogs, how we breed them, how we've explored the wilderness with them, the kinds of literature we write about them, why we love them, and, most important, what we can learn from them.

When an unexpected illness befalls Beth, Luggs comforts the two women, and his devotion helps Wells come to accept that relationships--despite the possibility of hurt and pain--are what life is all about.

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After her son and her sister die within weeks of each other, Wells (100 Flowers and How They Got Their Names) goes against her British "stiff upper lip" upbringing, which warns her therapy is only for the weak, and seeks out Beth, a psychologist. Wells cares for Beth's Labrador retriever, Luggs, in exchange for sessions she could not otherwise afford, and thus begins an unconventional, intricate dance between patient and therapist. Wells slowly opens up to Beth, comparing herself to a puppy, desperate for her therapist's love: "Sometimes I felt that I, too, frantically barked, endeavoring to attract Beth's attention and affection." She interweaves recollections of her life and her sessions with historical information about dogs. After her son's death, she quits going to Quaker meeting and comes to see walking dogs as an alternate form of spirituality her son would have liked; she uses this as an occasion to muse on the high regard many cultures have held for the dog as guardian of the afterlife. Sometimes these cultural tidbits interrupt Wells's more compelling and honest reflections about her relationship with Beth, which form the heart of this book. Beth's eventual illness confronts Wells again with loss; the way both patient and psychologist care for each other through this illness is poignant testimony to the power of healing relationships.
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Wells was a skeptic regarding psychologists and other forms of therapy and counseling; however, after losing her sister to cancer and her son to suicide within weeks of each other, she sought help from an acquaintance who was a psychologist. With no insurance to pay for her sessions, Wells volunteered to care for the therapist's dog, Luggs, a Labrador retriever. What starts as a tentative relationship between the two women blossoms as Wells incorporates Luggs into her life, along with her own dog, Nemo, a German shepherd. Wells, a historian, interweaves the history of dogs as companions, references to them in psychotherapy, and modern research on the therapeutic benefits of having a dog. She also recounts her recovery from loss and how she forged a deeper connection with her therapist after the counselor faced her own serious illness. Dog owners will love this book, but other readers will also enjoy this astonishing story of the healing that can come out of relationships between humans and canines. Vanessa Bush
Copyright © American Library Association. All rights reserved

Product Details

  • Hardcover: 160 pages
  • Publisher: Algonquin Books; First Printing edition (January 6, 2004)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1565123719
  • ISBN-13: 978-1565123717
  • Product Dimensions: 7.3 x 5.3 x 1.2 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 9.6 ounces
  • Average Customer Review: 3.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (4 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #2,173,788 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

Diana Wells is the author of 100 flowers and How They Got Their Names and contributing editor to the journal Greenprints. Born in Jerusalem, she has lived in England and Italy and holds an honors degree in history from Oxford University. She now lives with her husband, an artist, on a farm in Pennsylvania.


 

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5.0 out of 5 stars The Complexity of Mourning, August 20, 2004
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This review is from: My Therapist's Dog: Lessons in Unconditional Love (Hardcover)
Diana Wells has written a sophisticated memoir about recovery from personal loss with a dog as a kind of remarkable deus ex machina. This book works on the dog-lover's level, on the confessional level, as a memoir from a fascinating person, and altogether is a fine story extremely well written.
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1.0 out of 5 stars Lessons in Self-Absorption, March 23, 2006
This review is from: My Therapist's Dog: Lessons in Unconditional Love (Hardcover)
The author of this impossibly self-absorbed little book spent a day in the library -- compiling a list of historical and biological facts about dogs -- and uses these to pepper a story about her own life and woes. "Pepper" is exactly the right word too, because a little bit is seasoning; a lot becomes an irritant.

Even without the distracting arcana & ephemera about dogs this book is annoyingly whiney, with the author essentially asking "Why me?" everytime somebody dies in her life. It's hard to lose loved ones, 2-legged or 4-, but the author's own little disfunctional family is hardly unique in that regard.

And as to "Unconditional Love" I don't think the author has a clue -- she lets her dogs run undisciplined, and her relatives live unmoderated, and then moans when bad things happen. That isn't love, it's abandonment.
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2.0 out of 5 stars Trying to be two books at once, April 22, 2005
This review is from: My Therapist's Dog: Lessons in Unconditional Love (Hardcover)
I hate to burst the bubble here, but I was disappointed in this book. In my opinion, it's trying to be two different books: a memoir of therapy and an informal history of the relationship between dogs and people. The jumps between the two genres are awkward and disorienting, and often have the unintended effect of trivializing the very serious issues Wells is discussing. In the midst of a moving description of a session with the therapist, she will suddenly shift to discuss some particular breed of dog. It's almost as if the dog stuff is there to distract her (or us) when the material gets too heavy.

I also would seriously question the ethics of the therapist in this story, but given the way the story ends, that's a cheap shot on my part.
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