"It was a privilege to read this book. Loya’s character, uncommon self-knowledge, insight, and boundless capacity to smile shine through the pages. He is someone to admire and emulate."
Edes Powell Gilbert, Former Head of The Spence School and Strategic Consultant for Resource Group 175
"I was reminded more than once of Tennyson's Ulysses—'To strive, to seek, to find, and not to yield.' Touching, funny, authentic, and inspiring, it's the ultimate 'no regrets' collection of vignettes and stories."
Susan Nelson, Head of School at The Webb Schools of California
"A primer on the alchemy of adventure. The magic all occurs in the spirit and imagination of one human being...who could be you."
Gary Smith, Senior Writer for Sports Illustrated and Four-Time National Magazine Award Winner
"A master storyteller shares his journey of fun, continual growth and global citizenship. There is an awesome smile on each page."
Peter Briggs, Director of the Office for International Students and Scholars at Michigan State University
"These pages will provide inspiration to all high school and college seniors to undertake their own fun, meaningful journeys...The clock is ticking—make it count."
Stephen H. Spahn, Chancellor of The Dwight Schools and Board Member of the International Baccalaureate Organization
"If the purpose in life is to live it with full gusto to take advantage of all it has to offer, then Kari Loya has found his purpose in life...and then some."
Dan Ginsberg, Former CEO of Red Bull, North America
"Loya's tales sparkle with the enthusiasm of a man who enjoys life, embraces adventure, and relishes sharing a good story."
Eric Greitens, The New York Times Bestselling Author of The Heart and the Fist
"Football is about winning the day. Loya shows us how to apply that to life. Great read!!"
Chip Kelly, Head Coach of the Philadelphia Eagles
From the Author
This book is my answer to the question, "How should I celebrate my fortieth birthday?" I wanted something fun and meaningful. I wanted something I could share with family and friends. And I wanted something that ultimately could smother the negativity of aging by offering an approach that says, "Bring it on!" What better way to celebrate a birthday than to collect favorite stories of your own adventures and share them with others? Six ideas underlie this belief: Everyone loves a story.
I once heard the Chilean novelist, Isabel Allende, recount her first year of teaching with a difficult class whose students had either severe learning disabilities or behavioral issues. With the sarcastic blessings of her colleagues still ringing in her ears, she entered the classroom and uttered these four magic words: "Once upon a time..." The room became silent--and she began her career not only as a great teacher, but as a gifted storyteller. The stories in this collection are the same ones I've told over campfires, late-night beers, and long road trips. We write our own script.
My favorite story of all-time is William Goldman's book The Princess Bride
with its non-stop action and adventure from beginning to end. But why leave this for the imagination? Why not live
it? We all have the chance to write THE SCRIPT
--the script of our lives. As the old adage says, "Will you have enough stories to tell your grandchildren?" Get it on paper.
Bill Clinton once remarked that every American should write their memoirs. But "memoirs" can sound incredibly daunting, even a little boring, like an A-to-Z chronicle of every detail of our lives. But "stories" are the best of
, the highlights, manageable nuggets which everyone can pen. Why wait until your nineties? Do it...NOW!
Randy Komisar's The Monk and the Riddle
tells us that the traditional model of working hard for forty years in hopes of one day being able to do what we really
want to do sets us up for disappointment. First, we might not even make it to old age, but second, when we finally do have that magical time--or money--we still might not know what we really want. You may have to do a lot of soul-searching and make some not-so-easy adjustments, but at least you will be headed in the right direction. Age brings life lessons.
When we turn forty--or any age--nothing is magically different. We've simply added another layer to our lives. Sandra Cisneros writes about this notion in her short story, "Eleven," where she compares aging to rings on a tree. Our outer layer may be different, but we are fundamentally the same person and can still have that giggle, that curiosity, that spark of the six-year-old. Wouldn't you, too, like to be the mighty redwood with fifteen hundred rings of experience and wisdom? Enjoy life more year by year.
I once heard the president of a prestigious college tell his graduates, "If you look back on these four years as the best four years of your life, we will have failed you." Brilliant. Every day is an opportunity to learn so that in each successive year--despite all that comes with growing older--we enjoy life even more. It's not about beauty, brawn, or assets. It's about cultivating character, fostering relationships, and developing the right mindset. I hope these stories show I'm on the right path.
Some may choose to read this book from cover to cover. Others may jump directly to stories with themes, places, or events of personal interest. Regardless, may something in this collection motivate you to run faster, think harder, explore further, reflect longer, dig deeper, or laugh louder. But most importantly, whether you're approaching forty, fifty, or any other milestone, I encourage you, too, to bear-hug
your next birthday with your favorite stories.