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The Myth of Mars and Venus: Do Men and Women Really Speak Different Languages? [Hardcover]

Deborah Cameron (Author)
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0199214476 978-0199214471 January 6, 2008
Popular assumptions about gender and communication--famously summed up in the title of the massively influential 1992 bestseller Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus--can have unforeseen but far-reaching consequences in many spheres of life, from attitudes to the phenomenon of "date-rape" to expectations of achievement at school, and potential discrimination in the work-place.
In this wide-ranging and thoroughly readable book, Deborah Cameron, Rupert Murdoch Professor of Language and Communication at Oxford University and author of a number of leading texts in the field of language and gender studies, draws on over 30 years of scientific research to explain what we really know and to demonstrate how this is often very different from the accounts we are familiar with from recent popular writing.
Ambitious in scope and exceptionally accessible, The Myth of Mars and Venus tells it like it is: widely accepted attitudes from the past and from other cultures are at heart related to assumptions about language and the place of men and women in society; and there is as much similarity and variation within each gender as between men and women, often associated with social roles and relationships. The author goes on to consider the influence of Darwinian theories of natural selection and the notion that girls and boys are socialized during childhood into different ways of using language, before addressing problems of "miscommunication" surrounding, for example, sex and consent to sex, and women's relative lack of success in work and politics. Arguing that what linguistic differences there are between men and women are driven by the need to construct and project personal meaning and identity, Cameron concludes that we have an urgent need to think about gender in more complex ways than the prevailing myths and stereotypes allow.

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"Throughout the book, Cameron's examination of everything from childhood development to evolutionary psychology to Mars and Venus myths in the workplace is insightful, incisive, and enlightening. For those who have ever felt discomfort with stereotypes about gendered communication, this book is a breath of fresh air. The skeptic, the egalitarian, and the doubter of pseudo-science will relish this book, which is full of facts to tuck away for later use in dismantling the arguments of gender-determinists." --Aiko Ayers, The Hipster Book Club


"In this wonderfully refreshing new book, Cameron precisely reviews myths and candidly points out, that they are myths. Her work here is a brilliantly detailed review of where and when different and incompatible stories are made to fit our culture." --Feminist Review


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Deborah Cameron is Rupert Murdoch Professor of Language and Communication at the University of Oxford. An internationally known researcher in the field of language and gender studies, she is the author or editor of several academic books on the subject, as well as many articles.

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  • Hardcover: 192 pages
  • Publisher: Oxford University Press, USA (January 6, 2008)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0199214476
  • ISBN-13: 978-0199214471
  • Product Dimensions: 7.8 x 5.4 x 0.9 inches
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  • Average Customer Review: 4.7 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (3 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #521,818 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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4.0 out of 5 stars Good, but a hair short of great., May 7, 2011
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This book is certainly worth a read for anyone who's extremely tired of all the stereotypes about the "true natures" of men and women, as though we are somehow completely different species. The truth, of course, is that all that pop and evo psych bs is intended to excuse the bad behavior of men (and of course never of women). For instance, she does a brilliant take-down of the stereotype that women talk too much. However, my problem overall is that she'll start down a great take down of a stereotype, and right before she completely destroys the stereotype with awesome evidence, she backs off a bit and doesn't take it quite far enough. I also would have liked a little less focus on linguistics and a little more focus on behavior outside of speech or how it applies to the world. That said, this book is definitely worth reading. If nothing else, her chapter on how the only way rape can occur as a miscommunication is if all men are mentally disabled, is nothing short of magnificent.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Extremely Insightful!, September 12, 2010
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I loved this book - it was well researched and all the assertions were backed up by sound logic yet it was extremely "readable." As a woman who has always found that "Mars/Venus" stuff not only patently false but also somewhat insulting - this book was like finding water in a desert.

My absolute favorite passage was when the author debunked that fallacy that men don't "hear" when women are asking them for help. Paraphrasing: "Is there a man alive who upon hearing his wife ask him if he can take out the trash ACTUALLY thinks that she is asking if it is physically possible for him to do so in the most abstract of inquiries." HA!
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5.0 out of 5 stars excellent account of gender dynamics in communication, August 29, 2009
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The excerpt is an excellent critique of the Mars/Venus gendered communication styles, with an instructive discussion of an investigation of a sexual assault case at a university. Incisive and insightful analysis and writing.
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