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Naked, Drunk, and Writing: Shed Your Inhibitions and Craft a Compelling Memoir or Personal Essay [Kindle Edition]

Adair Lara
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Book Description

The material is right there in front of you. You’ve known yourself for, well, a lifetime—and you finally feel ready to share your story with the world. Yet when it actually comes time to put pen to paper, you find that you’re stumped.
Enter Adair Lara: award-winning author, seasoned columnist, beloved writing coach, and the answer to all of your autobiographical quandaries. 

Naked, Drunk, and Writing is the culmination of Lara’s vast experience as a writer, editor, and teacher. It is packed with insights and advice both practical (“writing workshops you pay for are the best--it’s too easy to quit when you’ve made no investment”) and irreverent (“apply Part A [butt] to Part B [chair]”), answering such important questions as:
• How do I know where to start my piece and where to end it?
• How do I make myself write when I’m too scared or lazy or busy?
• What makes a good pitch letter, and how do I get mine noticed?
• I’m ready to publish—now where do I find an agent?
• If I show my manuscript to my mother, will I ever be invited to a family gathering again?

As thorough and instructive as a personal writing coach (and cheaper, too), Naked, Drunk, and Writing is a must-have if you are an aspiring columnist, essayist, or memoirist—or just a writer who needs a bit of help in getting your story told.

From the Trade Paperback edition.

Editorial Reviews


“Very savvy and smart and hugely entertaining.”
--ANNE LAMOTT, author of Bird by Bird

From the Trade Paperback edition.

About the Author

Adair Lara's essays have been anthologized upwards of fifty times.

Product Details

  • File Size: 412 KB
  • Print Length: 258 pages
  • Page Numbers Source ISBN: 158008480X
  • Publisher: Ten Speed Press (August 31, 2010)
  • Sold by: Random House LLC
  • Language: English
  • ASIN: B003E8AIX4
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  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #365,074 Paid in Kindle Store (See Top 100 Paid in Kindle Store)
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32 of 32 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Write Now! May 5, 2009
There is one big difference between this book and the other numberous books I own on this topic. The difference is that Adair deals with the number one problem with writers -- they will do anything they can to actually not write. As Adair says, "writing is scary. It always will be." This book shows the reader how to actually "apply butt to chair" and get started. One of her more helpful hints is the exercise to write 500 words a day. It doesn't have to be good but it does have to be 500 words and it does have to be every day. Writers write. Everyday. I love her exercises that help you get going. Each chapter has a Try This exercise -- for example:
Write about your closet. Write about the contents of your purse. Once you get started, you will be surprised that you most likely have gone over your 500 word goal. Of course Adair deals with all the elements of writing and refining essays and memoirs as well as sumbitting your work for publication.
Naked, Drunk and Writing, what more could you ask for.......
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20 of 20 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Next Best Thing to a Writing Class June 1, 2009
I have been writing for many years and have read way too many books about writing when I should have been writing. Most books give you a few pointers that may or may not be helpful. This one is like sitting in a well taught class on essay and memoir. Lara answers the burning questions of all memoirists, and she does it in a voice and tone that make you believe she is your best friend from high school. Her advice is dead on, her tone encourages without forgetting that writing is hard damn work. This book shows you how to make that hard work result in something you'll be proud to submit to an editor. It's now sitting next to "Bird by Bird" on my writing shelf.
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20 of 21 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Solid advice for any level of writer September 16, 2010
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This is definitely a book you cannot judge by its cover nor its title.
As a San Francisco Bay Area local, I enjoyed Adair Lara's columns in the Chronicle. Tuesday and Thursday started with a delicious dose of her wit and insight. So when I saw her name in my Vine list, I clicked on Send before even reading the book description.
Adair has written a guide to craft personal essays and memoirs, the relatively new literary category of creative non-fiction. She starts with clarifying what a personal essay entails. It has a goal, a struggle, an epiphany and a description of the changes that epiphany wrought. It is not about your ugly divorce but about how the ugly divorce freed you to become a divorce attorney. Do not be a victim: you will lose your readership.
She gives very practical advice that still leaves plenty of room for your own process and personality. Instead of insisting that the reader do exercises, she has little inserts entitled "Try this!" Her hints are in gray boxes for The Crafty Writer.
Among the techniques covered are the story arc and the beats of emotion through the story, expansion of sentences in the critical sections and the briefness necessary for the setup scenes.
Throughout the book, she includes quotes from her students, other writer friends, and published authors. The disadvantage of using her students is that we are left with a protagonist sitting in a wheelchair at the entrance to a hospital during a snow storm. The snow drifts up in the corners of the portico and under his feet. We never find out what happened and we don't know the author to track down the story. Adair, are you listening?
Speaking of her students, those who have taken her workshop and pushed their work in the real world have had success.
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6 of 6 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Hugely entertaining and a great motivational book September 16, 2010
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I highly recommend this book for writers ranging from old hands to aspiring, future writers.

To be honest, it was the title that caught my eye initially. I was caught in the first three pages and could not put the book down.

Adair Lara does something that is hard to do. The author deftly combined humor with extremely practical insights on how to write about personal experiences. The book is both enjoyable to read and loaded with good, useful, tactical writing information.

Adair's book is brimming with motivational information. You actually want to sit down and write about personal experiences while reading this book.

More than just from Adair's biography, the book makes it clear that Adair has "been there," and understands some of the pitfalls and hedges that prevent authors from writing deeply personal, deeply affecting material.

Adair makes the critical point throughout the book that authors, especially in today's politically correct environment, shy away from bold, personal, and often politically incorrect views, but ironically these are the type of deeply held emotional position that memorable works spring from. The writer needs to be bold and willing to take personal risk to be true to their work.

Adair is to writing what Julia Child was to cooking. In both cases, you have masters of their craft that are fearless in their execution. If Julia Child dropped a piece of chicken during her show, she picked it up and washed it off and continued. Adair offers the same kind of practical advice in writing personal stories.


This volume is a must have in any aspiring author's library.

in service,


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Published 12 days ago by J. L.
5.0 out of 5 stars Just buy it!
The best instructional book for the personal essay that I've ever read. Wish I'd found this sooner.
Published 23 days ago by PVJ
5.0 out of 5 stars Good book to help motivate
Good book to help motivate, with plenty of tips and practical ideas to get writing projects in order. She's also a very humorous writer. Good stuff.
Published 1 month ago by Coley
5.0 out of 5 stars Very readable, very useful
This book stands out among the many how-to-write-a-memoir books I have on my shelves. The tips are clear, concise and not at all condescending. Read more
Published 4 months ago by H. House
5.0 out of 5 stars great book inspiring
I highly recommend this book it is very insightful and an easy read. There were very clear guidelines that were easy to understand.
Published 5 months ago by Aubrey
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Published 7 months ago by Melanie
5.0 out of 5 stars and given great advice! Thank you for steering me toward how ...
Adair is the most audacious outspoken teacher of writing memoir! She has turned my writing world upside down, and given great advice! Read more
Published 7 months ago by Christee
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The best book on writing I've ever read! Most books on writing are a waste of time - long on preaching, short on information about what really works. Read more
Published 7 months ago by Jean Reynolds
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This is a great writing book full of very practical suggestions.
Published 9 months ago by playa
5.0 out of 5 stars Just What I Needed
What I love about this book is the conversational tone. It makes it an easy read, entertaining and motivating! And who can resist a book with this title???
Published 10 months ago by RN2012
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More About the Author

Adair Lara started her career writing for local magazines--first at San Francisco Focus, the city magazine, and then at SF, a design magazine at which she passed herself off as someone passionately interested in interior design. She wrote freelance humor pieces for the San Francisco Chronicle Sunday section, and in 1989 they invited her to join the staff and write a regular column of my own. The newspaper was famed then for its columnists, which include Pulitzer Prize winners Stanton Delaplane, Charles McCabe, and Herb Caen. She has published some ten books or so, including several collections of columns (for more information, go to Her essays have been anthologized upwards of fifty times.

She has won a wide range of awards including:
* 1990: Associated Press, Best Columnist in California.
* 1997: Humor Columns for Newspapers over 100,000, National Society of Newspaper Columnists
* 1998: First place, general interest columns, National Society of Newspaper Columnists.
* 1999: Second place, commentary, American Association of Sunday and Feature editors contest, competing against papers with circulation over 300,000.
* May 17, 2002 was declared Adair Lara Day in San Francisco by proclamation of Mayor Willie Brown

Published books include:
* Naked, Drunk, and Writing (Ten Speed Press, 2010)
* The Granny Diaries (Chronicle Books, 2008)
* The Bigger the Sign, the Worse the Garage Sale (Chronicle Books, 2007)
* You Know You're A Writer When (Chronicle Books, 2007)
* Oopise! Ouchie! (Chronicle Books, 2004) - a board book for kids
* Normal is Just a Setting on the Dryer Chronicle Books (2003)
* Hanging out the Wash (Redwheelweiser, 2002) - sold 11,043 copies
* Slowing Down in a Speeded-Up World (Redwheelweiser, 2002) - sold 18,061 copies
* Hold Me Close, Let Me Go (Broadway Books, 2001) - sold 22,000 copies in hardcover and paperback
* The Best of Adair Lara (Scottwall Associates, 1999) - sold 19,500 copies
* At Adair's House (Chronicle Books, 1995)
* Welcome to Earth, Mom (Chronicle Books, 1992)

Praise for Hold Me Close, Let Me Go
The thrilling level of honesty and discovery burned into every line of Hold Me Close, Let Me Go is something that rarely informs a memoir of any kind. In this case, Adair Lara has transcended the genre of self to achieve selflessness. Her story of her struggle, the mistakes, the triumphs, the abiding love and pure anguish to save her brilliant and self-destructive daughter is a must read for anyone who loves a child, or ever hopes to love a child. Not every child will follow Morgan's stormy passage to redemption, but many will, and for any parent, Lara's book will be a beacon.
--Jacqueline Mitchard, author of The Deep End of the Ocean

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Should you write a memoir?
Lara makes it clear in her book that anecdotes do not a memoir or an essay make. Nothing wrong with writing them down, but you need to plug them into a narrative with a voice and shape it in a way that you reveal how this changed you. I think she saved me a lot of time and effort.
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