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Navigating Differences: Friendships Between Gay and Straight Men (Haworth Gay & Lesbian Studies)
 
 
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Navigating Differences: Friendships Between Gay and Straight Men (Haworth Gay & Lesbian Studies) [Hardcover]

John Dececco Phd (Author)
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0789006197 978-0789006196 December 14, 1998 1
Navigating Differences: Friendships Between Gay and Straight Men is a one-of-a-kind cross-sexual study that shows you how today’s gay and straight men build, maintain, and foster true friendships. In this activist, participatory study, you’ll get a day-in-the-life look at 44 pairs of cross-sexual men’s friendships and see what helps them negotiate the terrain of their emotional, sexual, psychological, and social differences in today’s climate of often publicly defended homophobia and heterosexism.

Navigating Differences succeeds in bringing the true picture of cross-sexual men’s relationships to you, regardless of your personal orientation or political affiliation. You’ll find information--straight from the lives of the study’s participants--that shows you how different sexual orientations impact the way men spend time together, maintain friendships, cope with sexual struggles, and open good communication channels. Most importantly, you’ll get detailed facts and feedback concerning:
  • hegemonic masculinity
  • embracing, struggling with, and ignoring differences
  • group demographic characteristics
  • embeddedness and emotional communication
  • outness
  • in-groups, out-groups, and reference groups

    Hearsay and prejudice might claim to know what gay and straight men think of each other, but Navigating Differences replaces rumors with research and shows you what really keeps gay and straight men in lasting friendships in all arenas of life. You’ll learn firsthand what it takes to overcome differences and what it means to turn difference into meaningful relationships.

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Product Details

  • Hardcover: 172 pages
  • Publisher: Routledge; 1 edition (December 14, 1998)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0789006197
  • ISBN-13: 978-0789006196
  • Product Dimensions: 8.8 x 6.3 x 0.8 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1.1 pounds (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.5 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (2 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #3,166,108 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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5.0 out of 5 stars An excellent and unique resource, March 13, 2000
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This is an excellent and unique resource. It's written in a kind of silted, academic style--but that's no matter. Understanding how gay and straight male friends relate to each other, both in good and bad ways, is a topic you won't find treated much anywhere else. If you have a good friend who's gay, or a good friend who's straight, you'll come to appreciate him *much* *much* more from reading this. I think it makes a great gift, too, after you come out to someone.
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4.0 out of 5 stars An important book, March 5, 2011
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As an out gay man with quite a few straight male friends, I found this book to be an engaging and informative look into these types of relationships. The author has done many interviews and has come up with a system that describes the unique strengths, weaknesses and challenges of the various permutations of straight/gay male friendships. Essentially, these parings fall into (roughly) three categories, based on level of comfort, support, and tolerance of the straight male. As I read the book, I found myself being able to place various friends in one category or another and I can honestly say it helped to to understand each of them a bit more. For instance, there have been times I have been frustrated with certain straight friends for their lack of emotional depth but this book helped me realize that many straight men simply do not have the same tools of communication that gay men (and straight women) have. There are many more subtle revelations I had while reading the book that helped to give me further insight into my own circle of friends.

In light of how fast gay-rights have been moving in the last 15 years, some of the information seems a bit dated and I would love for the author to do an update, but overall I would highly recommend this book to anyone wanting to explore this dynamic of friendships between gay and straight men. There isn't a lot of work out there on the subject, and the author has done an admirable job with her research and presentation.
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