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New Passages [Paperback]

Gail Sheehy
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Book Description

May 28, 1996
THE #1 NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER
Millions of readers literally defined their lives through Gail Sheehy's landmark bestseller Passages. Seven years ago she set out to write a sequel, but instead she discovered a historic revolution in the adult life cycle. . .
People are taking longer to grow up and much longer to die. A fifty-year-old woman--who remains free of cancer and heart disease-- can expect to see her ninety-second birthday. Men, too, can expect a dramatically lengthened life span. The old demarcations and descriptions of adulthood--beginning at twenty-one and ending at sixty-five--are hopelessly out of date. In New Passages, Gail Sheehy discovers and maps out a completely new frontier--a Second Adulthood in middle life.
"Stop and recalculate," Sheehy writes. "Imagine the day you turn forty-five as the infancy of another life." Instead of declining, men and women who embrace a Second Adulthood are progressing through entirely new passages into lives of deeper meaning, renewed playfulness, and creativity--beyond both male and female menopause. Through hundreds of personal and group interviews, national surveys of professionals and working-class people, and fresh findings extracted from fifty years of U.S. Census reports, Sheehy vividly dramatizes these newly developing stages. Combining the scholar's ability to synthesize data with the novelist's gift for storytelling, she allows us to make sense of our own lives by understanding others like us.
New Passages tells us we have the ability to customize our own life cycle. This groundbreaking work is certain to awaken and permanently alter the way we think about ourselves.
"SHEEHY CLEARLY STATES IDEAS ABOUT LIFE THAT HAVE NEVER BEFORE BEEN AS CLEARLY STATED."
--Los Angeles Times Book Review
"AN OPTIMISTIC ANALYSIS OF ADULT DEVELOPMENT IN PESSIMISTIC TIMES. . . It is grounded in the economic and psychological realities that make adult life so complex today."
--The New York Times Book Review

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Editorial Reviews

From Library Journal

The author's previous blockbuster, Passages (LJ 5/15/76), introduced us all to the term "midlife crisis." In this sequel, Sheehy takes us beyond the midlife crisis to examine later life stages, with a short update on young adulthood in the 1990s. In a few ways, this is a better book than its predecessor. Sheehy pays closer attention to the influence of history on the life course of individuals. She also addresses the main criticism that social scientists have made of her work?that large-scale studies have shown no evidence that most people go through the life stages that she describes?by explaining that people should go through these "passages" and that everyone who doesn't is "walking dead." These improvements aside, her prose still sounds like that of a second-rate astrologer, her advice is often contradictory, and her adulation of famous personalities verges on embarrassing. Nevertheless, this is a "critic-proof" book?if you haven't already done so, order multiple copies to satisfy reader demand.
-?Mary Ann Hughes, Neill P.L., Pullman, Wash.
Copyright 1995 Reed Business Information, Inc. --This text refers to the Hardcover edition.

From Booklist

Sheehy's Passages (1976), in which she counseled thirtysomethings about the onset of midlife, went straight to the top of most best-seller lists, and her last book, The Silent Passage (1992), in which she schlepped women through menopause, did almost as well, despite the fact that females had been navigating the change of life for a millennium or so without Sheehy's help. Rapidly running out of passages, Sheehy now takes the obvious next step: edging her loyal readers, now entrenched in midlife, to the precipice and helping them face their mortality. Arguing that middle life is the "most unrevealed portion of adult life" (not once the Boomers dig in), Sheehy is here to tell you that the years from 45 to 65 are "not the stagnant, depressing downward slide we have always assumed they would be." Although she intends this book to be a "gift" to her anxious readers, it mostly fails. Before hearing about middle age's upside, we must wend our way through seemingly endless pages about women losing their spouses, men losing their jobs (to say nothing of their hair), and both men and women contracting enough diseases to make even the hardiest souls hurry in for a checkup. There is some good news. Women who make it to 65 can expect to live to 85, and if they've survived divorce or widowhood in midlife, they come to enjoy their own independence. Still, the overriding sense of this book, whether Sheehy admits it or not, is that everybody gets hit, everybody gets hurt. You don't need passage counseling to know that, and if you don't have the inner strength to endure, you might not even get to enjoy those upbeat nuggets Sheehy has gleaned from her surveys. Expect the usual demand; for whatever reason, this passage gambit sells Ilene Cooper --This text refers to the Hardcover edition.

Product Details

  • Paperback: 528 pages
  • Publisher: Ballantine Books; 1 edition (May 28, 1996)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0345404459
  • ISBN-13: 978-0345404459
  • Product Dimensions: 1.1 x 5.4 x 8.2 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1.1 pounds (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 3.7 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (20 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #40,894 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

Gail Sheehy is the world-renowned author of fifteen books, including Passages, which remained on the New York Times bestseller list for more than three years and has been reprinted in twenty-eight languages.

As a literary journalist, Sheehy was one of the original contributors to New York magazine. A contributing editor to Vanity Fair since 1984, she won the Washington Journalism Review Award for Best Magazine Writer in America for her in-depth character portraits of national and world leaders, including both President Bushes, Bill and Hillary Clinton, former speaker of the house Newt Gingrich, former British prime minister Margaret Thatcher, former Iraqi president Saddam Hussein, and Mikhail Gorbachev. Sheehy is a seven-time recipient of the New York Newswomen's Club Front Page Award for distinguished journalism. She currently resides in New York City.

Customer Reviews

At least that's the tone I got from the chapter. S. Lipton  |  1 reviewer made a similar statement
The content is not bad, it just takes so damn long to get to the point. Floccinaucinihilipilification  |  1 reviewer made a similar statement
This is definitely age-related, but may start at 30, or not be evident after 70. D. P. Birkett  |  1 reviewer made a similar statement
Most Helpful Customer Reviews
40 of 43 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars Our beliefs shape our future.... May 7, 2000
By A Customer
Format:Paperback
"New Passages" gave me added enthusiasm as well as an explanation for what I, a woman at age 50, am feeling and experiencing. How wonderful that I am metamorphosing into a "second adulthood!" That the last few years of culling out what I don't want to do are leading towards a powerful purpose: living the rest of my life with ever-greater meaning and enjoyment. As with "The Silent Passage," which has given so many men and women a healthier perspective of menopause, "New Passages" has helped define a brighter and more exciting future for all of us who are growing into our 50'and beyond. Even my 86 year old mother understands better where she has been in her "2nd adulthood," enabling her to define the significance of her continuing life....to just live in integrity and serve as an example for all those around her. Sheehy quoted research which shows that our genetic heritage profoundly affects us until 60-65....but, after that, what we think and beleve is what most profoundly affects how well we live. As in golf, "the game" is controlled by the 6" between our ears....
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33 of 35 people found the following review helpful
2.0 out of 5 stars a disappointing contribution to life-stage theory August 23, 1998
By A Customer
Format:Hardcover
Sheehy offers an interesting categorization of life stages in the context of American life as she has known it and lived it. She uses excerpts from the hundreds of interviews she conducted throughout the United States while preparing this book to prove her theory. Her stages have catchy labels: Tryout Twenties, Turbulent Thirties, Flourishing Forties, Flaming Fifties, Serene Sixties. Sheehy's attempt to make meaning of the mature years is most likely to become an artifact of its era, unable to cross cultures or time. Her passages depend too heavily on life as it is being lived in the 1990s in the United States of America. With the work of Erikson and Jung on developmental aging already on the book shelf and thoughtful contributions by such as Friedan, Schacter-Shalomi and Miller, and others, Sheehy's contribution is disappointing.
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34 of 40 people found the following review helpful
2.0 out of 5 stars Mapping this book against time October 20, 2003
Format:Paperback
Conceptually excellent, but a dismally dreary read.

Ever been at a cocktail party where you meet someone who tells an interesting story, but takes half an hour to do it, because of all the needless peripheral information. Sheehy personified. She fails to hold my attention with tediously drawn-out examples which lack pith and focus. An good editor would halve the length and double the value. The content is not bad, it just takes so damn long to get to the point.

Very Ameri-centric.

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Most Recent Customer Reviews
3.0 out of 5 stars Passages
Off to a boring start but continuing to read it in hopes it will get better. Seems to repeat the same things over and over
Published 28 days ago by C. Rose
5.0 out of 5 stars eye opening
Sheehy helps to understand that you are not alone. There are predictable phases in life. This updated version sheds more light on how the culture has changed and certain life... Read more
Published 1 month ago by Jeff Cauthen
5.0 out of 5 stars A must read for all women approaching late 40's-
Such a fantastic book. So validating and refreshing in world that is so lost and so overly concerned with pretense and image. Read more
Published 3 months ago by Penelope :)
4.0 out of 5 stars I like it
The book was a required reading for a class.
It's content was a little outdated, but the
book showed up in a mannerly fashion,
and was listed as "used" so, I... Read more
Published 3 months ago by Becky Schleiger
5.0 out of 5 stars Great for those reaching 50!
I am in my late 70's and enjoyed this sequel of Sheehy's original Passages. This was an superb update and wish she would write a sequel to this book! Read more
Published 5 months ago by Hawaii Bound
4.0 out of 5 stars Great book at a great price!
This book gives very good insight into the predictable stages of human life. It helps you understand what you might be going through and you might find that you are very much of... Read more
Published 9 months ago by Sadie
2.0 out of 5 stars Advertised as optimistic...be warned it's a downer
I read this book for a couple of reasons. Firstly, my mother had raved about Passages. Secondly, as a woman in her thirties, I wanted to optimistically prepare for the 'Flourishing... Read more
Published 11 months ago by S. Lipton
1.0 out of 5 stars Hack across the board
Only an entrenched and embittered "feminist/ageist/deluded windbag could take this claptrap seriously. Amen. Pass the crack pipe, please. Read more
Published 13 months ago by Perko
4.0 out of 5 stars New Passages & counseling
The collective works of Gail Sheehy are a must for anyone venturing into the counseling and/or Reading markets...

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Published on November 10, 2010 by Phillip C. Browning
4.0 out of 5 stars Its a good book with some solid advice.
Its a good book for any person who is going through life changes. It doesnt answer every single question a person may have on why they are going through what they are, but it has... Read more
Published on October 18, 2010 by BBurns
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