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“This is not a romance, or even just a heart-warmer. It’s a real love story, frank and particular. If you don’t like it, you don’t like love.” —Roy Blount, Jr.


“This is a story that should be read by all parents, both for what it teaches about the limits of love and the power of hope, and for the way it lets us see what it means to let our children go and lovingly watch and guard over them from a distance we cannot violate. . . . You will not soon forget Next Stop.” —Robert Bausch, author of A Hole in the Earth and The Gypsy Man
 


“A manual on what makes us human. Illuminating, inspiring, and at times heartbreaking. Brilliant.” —Jack McDevitt, Nebula Award–winning author of Firebird


“Remarkable.” —David Rowell, author of The Train of Small Mercies

About the Author

Glen Finland lives in the Washington, D.C., area with her husband, Bruce, and the youngest of their three adult sons, David. A former reporter and a freelance writer, she received her MFA from American University, where she has taught writing.
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Product Details

  • Hardcover: 304 pages
  • Publisher: Putnam Adult; First Edition edition (March 29, 2012)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 039915860X
  • ISBN-13: 978-0399158605
  • Product Dimensions: 5.9 x 1.2 x 8.5 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 6.4 ounces
  • Average Customer Review: 4.8 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (25 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,556,008 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

Glen is the author of Next Stop: A Son With Autism Grows Up, based on her May 2009 Washington Post Magazine feature story about parenting an autistic child to adulthood and then learning to let go(AmyEinhornBooks/Putnam). Next Stop is a Summer 2012 Barnes&Noble Discover Great New Writers Pick and Penguin's 2012 pick for National Disability Employment Awareness Month. Glen received the 2012 Dean's Medal for Leadership Excellence in Communication from the University of Georgia's College of Journalism.
A former TV news reporter, Glen's freelance work has appeared in the Washington Post, Family Circle, Parenting, Autism Speaks, Babble, American Magazine, Revolution, A Cup of Comfort, Special Needs Magazine,and Wired.

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8 of 8 people found the following review helpful By Smart Cookie on April 3, 2012
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Next Stop is a memoir that opened my heart and then broke it a little. The author pulls no punches and I was touched by the honesty in this book. The family's strengths and flaws are richly illuminated in stories that made me wonder how I could do better. I stayed up late to finish it and have been thinking about it ever since.
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6 of 6 people found the following review helpful By Jayne on April 1, 2012
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I could not put this moving, beautifully written memoir down. It's the story of a devoted mom's efforts to let her autistic son "go" in his late teens and early 20s. But it is really every mother's story of the trials and tribulations of parenting - the judgmental stares in public, the tense conversations with teachers, the slighted siblings and the struggle to let children find their own way. It's just that the author's experiences make many of ours seem so trivial by comparison. I cried and I laughed, but most of all I worried what will become of all the Davids out there. Here's to hoping our government and society help them find their own Next Stops.
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5 of 5 people found the following review helpful By Viviane Crystal VINE VOICE on April 2, 2013
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David Finland and his mother, Glen, spend a whole summer traveling the Washington D.C. trains. Whereas it was a constant surprise for David when he was a child, now the goal is for him to learn how to navigate traveling on his own. In fact, that is the goal of this entire account. While it is easy to parent an autistic child forever, assuming responsibility in all aspects, it's not healthy or beneficial to David. The unspoken question remains if he can maintain independence without always checking in with Mom and Dad, a serious question with no easy answers.
The first thing one realizes on reading is that every disabled child, particularly autistic children/adults, is unique. There's no cookie cutter pattern to follow but David Finland is able to show what works and what doesn't. His biggest problem is that he gets so distracted and focused on one thing that everything else is off his radar or thinking.
Glen describes the frantic search initially for what caused David's problems and is not shy about discussing people's kind but more often cruel or thoughtless comments about David's autism, including mainstream children in school who can be the most heartless and the most lacking in understanding and compassion. But the story of Glen and her husband's journey with David is the most inspiring part of this story. No, they don't learn it in classes, although they get some clues here and there from other programs. They learn by trial and error, by not condemning and always encouraging, while realistically setting limits, not an easy task at all.
David is off the radar as far as others' emotional needs but that doesn't mean he doesn't have his own way of showing care and love.
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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful By Stepherzfeld on May 10, 2012
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My autistic son is 15. Reading Next Stop is like sitting down with the author for a cup of coffee. It is a personal, intimate and honest portrayal of raising a special needs son who has aged out of services but still needs protection and guidance. I highly recommend this book!
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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful By Amazon Customer on June 13, 2012
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Glen Finland's memoir is about family. Some would say it's about parenting a special needs child, but this book is so much more. It is the searingly honest, painful story of love; how to give it; how to receive it and all the sacrifices love demands along the way. I appreciate the way Finland moves around in time, including her parents' lives, as well as her husband's parents, knitting these threads of family together by returning to the present action of teaching their autistic son, David, how to ride the Metro, so he can achieve greater independence. It's all here: the frustration of dealing with a battalion of doctors and their various diagnoses; the difficulties David's brothers experience as members of a family in crisis; "the blame game," trying to discover a genetic link between David and other family members. All this is told in the most gorgeous writing that "stumbles out of the dark" at you and leaves you stunned and blessed for having read it.
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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful By Timothy J. Bazzett on April 17, 2012
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If you have a family member who is autistic, then Glen Finland's memoir, NEXT STOP, is a must read. If you don't have an autistic relative, well, it's still a must read, because I'll bet you know someone who fits somewhere on that long sliding scale of autism, whether you knew it or not. And if you do, you're gonna recognize him/her as you read Finland's description of her "differently abled" son, David. Hell, if you appreciate good writing, then NEXT STOP is an abolulutely must read.

I've read a few books on Asperger's recently - Robison's LOOK ME IN THE EYE, and Tim Page's PARALLEL PLAY, both excellent - but compared to David Finland, those guys seem nearly normal. Because David's already rather acute autism was accompanied by what Finland called "a mean mix of ADHD, obsessive-compulsive disorder, and Tourette's syndrome ... The tics include eye-blinking, head or shoulder jerking, facial grimacing, and, in David's case, snorting sounds often combined with an upper body twist, a hop, and a punch to his own mouth ..."

The twist that makes Finland's story different from those told by other parents of autistic children is that she begins in the year David turns 21, and details the year she spent riding the DC subway systems with her son, hoping that if he could learn the underground system, he could perhaps find a job and gain some measure of independence. Fortunately, David has a fascination with maps. Along the way she tells the story of David's life up to that point. But it's not just about David, it's about the whole family: her husband Bruce, and her two older (normal) sons and the toll David's afflictions had taken on the whole family.
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