The Nice Girl's Guide to Talking Dirty: Ignite Your Sex Life with Naughty Whispers, Hot Desires, and Screams of Passion [Paperback]

Ruth Neustifter (Author)

Book Description

Publication Date: July 12, 2011

IGNITE YOUR LOVER’S PASSION WITH EXCITING, ENTICING AND EROTIC TALK
Talking dirty doesn’t need to make you feel dirty. This sexy and fun guide shows how to wildly enhance your sexual experience without making you or your lover feel uncomfortable. The Nice Girl’s Guide to Talking Dirty provides everything you need to spice up your sex life, including:
•Tips for overcoming shyness
•Tricks to becoming more confident
•Sample scripts and spicy vocabulary
•Arousing games for exploring fantasies
•Exciting exercises for building intimacy
Master the three levels of dirty talk and go from shy girl to verbal seductress:
1. Heighten desire with sensual descriptions
2. Seduce with expressions of lust
3. Explore fantasies with trust and openness

Editorial Reviews

About the Author

Dr. Ruth Neustifter holds a Ph.D. in family development and specializes in intimacy and sexuality. She is a university professor, relationship coach and respected sex educator.

She has taught workshops on relationships and sexuality in venues ranging from independent sexuality boutiques to university classrooms and international conferences in the United States, Canada, Mexico and Europe.

She is an exclusive product video-reviewer for Babeland.com and is producing a series of brief educational videos for Funwares.com, another major vendor of sexuality products. She is a “faculty member” at KinkAcademy.com and has blogged at ExploringIntimacy.com for over two year years. Recently she launched a second blog dedicated to talking dirty. Her Twitter following is under a year old and already has over 1,000 followers.

Product Details

• Paperback: 224 pages
• Publisher: Amorata Press; 1 edition (July 12, 2011)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 9781569759387
• ISBN-13: 978-1569759387
• ASIN: 1569759383
• Product Dimensions: 5.6 x 8.5 inches
• Shipping Weight: 6.4 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
• Average Customer Review: 4.1 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (23 customer reviews)
• Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #28,406 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

Our sexuality is the most intimate form of body language in our relationships with others, and with ourselves. Dr. Ruthie is dedicated to spreading sex-positive information, advocacy and community building to all adults. No matter where you live or the nature of your sexual experiences, Dr. Ruthie knows that you truly deserve pleasure and intimacy.

Dr. Ruth Neustifter is a recognized relationship expert specializing in sexual communication and education as well as recovery from intimate partner violence. She works with a diverse range of individuals and relationships, conducts original research, offers workshops, and is available for professional consultation.

University instructor, published author, respected presenter and dedicated activist, Ruth Neustifter holds a doctoral degree in Child & Family Development with specializations in Couples and Family Therapy and Qualitative Research.

She began her training, research and work in the areas of relationships, sexuality and recovery from intimate partner violence in 2000. During that time she has taught and presented in venues ranging from independent sexuality boutiques to university classrooms and international conferences. Her writing can be found throughout the internet and in publications including the Journal of Feminist Family Therapy and The Electronic Journal of Human Sexuality.

Affectionately known by her clients and co-workers as Dr. Ruthie, she makes her home in the DC area with her partner and pets. She offers private appointments and professional consultation services internationally, with appointments in-person, by phone, and online.

Most Helpful Customer Reviews

14 of 14 people found the following review helpful

5.0 out of 5 stars A Ruth's Review of Dr. Ruthie's Book July 19, 2011

By Ruth

Format:Paperback

This is the first instructional relationship book I have read and I simply loved it. Not only did it reinforce the dirty talker within me, but it also allowed me to think about WHY I talk dirty the way I do as well as WHY it gets my man and me going. This book is not only about flirting, but rather about every aspect from which the practice of dirty, intimate talking derives. If a person is shy, then Dr Ruthie suggests approaches. If a person is insecure, she suggests other approaches. There are various issues at hand in this book that are clearly analyzed and improved upon.

The book flowed really well. The writing was gentle and yet detailed enough to educate the novices and the experts at the same time. Every page left me inspired and pushed me to want to try out new things that Dr. Ruthie suggests. This book is for every lady (and man) who wants her relationship and sex life to be as fulfilling as it can be. Her focus is on relationships and how communication is key- especially in the bedroom!

I adore this book. I have dog-eared pages and highlighted empowering quotes throughout it. I think I will start passing it out to some of my girlfriends- but not before I read it again!

5 of 5 people found the following review helpful

5.0 out of 5 stars "Talking Dirty" delivers! August 24, 2011

By Japonski

Format:Paperback

As a nice girl who blushes at the thought of talking dirty, I approached the book with a tiny bit of trepidation. But Dr. Ruth's writing style and her emphasis on love, sex-positivity and FUN drew me in. I never thought that sexy talk could be original, creative, and personalized in the way that this book teaches.

6 of 7 people found the following review helpful

5.0 out of 5 stars A Marriage Enhancement book! November 10, 2011

By Elizabeth D. Thomas

Format:Paperback

I "met" Dr. Ruthie on Twitter and was immediately impressed with her online educational videos and knowledge. This is a fantastic book for so many reasons, but the book title does a great job trying to summarize that IF YOU ARE a GOOD GIRL, a "normal", not "overly sexed" woman, who perhaps finds some sex books a bit over the top or not quite where you're at, then this is the book for you.

This book could very well be a relationship saver. I'm not saying that for those extremely troubled relationships, but for the vast majority of relationships in America struggling with a busy life and not enough time together. I hope more couples heat up their cell phones and email inboxes with this book!

If you're a little nervous ordering this book that is a GREAT SIGN you are an ideal reader. I promise you won't be disappointed (nor will your significant other!)

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