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The Nice Guys' Guide to Getting Girls: You CAN be a Nice Guy & STILL Attract Women!

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Tread carefully when reading any book from a "Nice Guy" perspective. I can tell you from much experience, ranging from higher prize women in bars, or shy, sweet educators that prefer coffee houses, women reject men that are nice guys. Do not show your feelings; do not share anything negative regarding yourself, your parents. This holds true even a few months into a relationship. Listening to women, begin caring, being considerate, being honest in every situation is self-destructive to your relationship. I have been dump[ed so much for being a nice guy, "you're nice, but I feel no chemistry." (translation: you're the opposite of sexy). You will continue to be loved and respected by your grandmother, mother, aunt and so on. -but never by a woman that will love you.
You should instead buy the books of Rom Wills. He is not negative or disrespectful toward women; but he is realistic. He teaches what all fathers should have taught their sons. His advice is especially valuable in our society in which fathers have been absent from our lives and males' negative traits have been emphasized.

While I haven't read it yet, their first book, "Make Every Girl Want You" is supposed to be pretty good. "The Nice Guy's Guide. . . " however is mostly a money making scam. I read it in a couple of hours, and got some useful pointers, but lots and lots of references back to the first book. Also lots of suggestions that I should check their web site to buy more stuff online. Additionally, no where on the cover material does it say anything like "this is the 3rd book in the series on how to get girls, and you should check out the other two first". Pretty misleading.

If you are interested in the subject read "Make Every Girl Want You" TM from the same authors. The other books were clearly written to make more money with hundreds of annoying references to "Make Every Girl Want You" TM and "The Nice Guys' Guide" TM of which you should buy all books CD's and DVD's if you truly want to learn something (?are they nuts?). Ironically, the authors never forgets to add the TM to every title of their "product range". This book is their profit and your loss since it really doesn't tell you anything new.

It should not have repeated the same stuff as they did in they're other books. Changing the title doesn't make it a different book.

I like this book for the most part. The shameless plugs for the authors' other books get really annoying after a while and some of the info is common sense and/or 7th grade knowledge, but in general, it's good stuff, keeping in mind I haven't officially practiced any of it in earnest yet. I especially liked the online dating chapter. It contained pretty basic but extensive knowledge.

Starting out reading this book, it seemed like the authors were merely setting out to tell jerks how to "pretend" to be nice to get women, but you get a little further into it, and they basically shift to just dispensing information for the jerks and true nice guys alike to use at your own risk (refreshingly, they even give a disclaimer to that nature at the beginning).

This book is filthy trash. The people who wrote this are money making A@# holes. I wasted my money and I hope you don't. They even try to lie to you by saying there are already 50 thousand copies in print. Truthfully, if you don't want to have any dates, relationships, friends, and one night stands then by this book.

If you read this book with a open mind, it will help you not only with women, but with any relationship. I think this book was influenced by Dale Carnige's classic "Win Friends and Influence People." If you have read books on leadership and management, you will definately see some similarities.

I was surprised that this book got so many negative responses. I think thats because of the cover photo. Many people probably bought this book thinking that it was a guide to getting quick and easy sex from women. It is not. It is a book that helps men build healthy relationships with women, which NATURALLY leads to an active sex life. You don't need to act cool, brag about your exspensive new car, or show off your body. By taking a sincere interest in people and having a confident, positive attitude about life, you will always get further with people in the long run.

I would recommend this book to men over the age of 21. I think this book is geared towards a slightly more mature audience than most other books about success with women. If you are intrested in one-night stands and picking up women in clubs, then this book is probably not for you. I would suggest that you buy one of Neil Straus' books or Mysteries "Mystery Method."

I am in the midst of reading this book and i must say that I am very impressed. This stuff really works and is more than the typical book that is centered on getting a girl solely into bed. I think these guys have done a great job and made great successes. So far, from everything I've ready in here, I've been amazed!! Congratulations to the nice guys on their book success. I read numerous online articles about dating and women but this was the first to mention the real truth of where to meet women. Great stuff.

I loved Make Every Girl Want You, and found this to be another excellent read by the nice guys. The message is one that can be related to by anyone and to make even a skeptical nice guy realize he too can attract women. As the title says, the book has a lot to do with the importance of being who you are, and not being afraid to be a nice guy. If you get too caught up in worrying about all of the jerks who get women, you might miss the point.

Yes, I read this intelligent book one enchanted month a couple years ago, and ever since, I've developed a daily mind-progamming to believe there are tons of girls out there who actually like nice guys as opposed to all of the arrogant and abusive jerks they are mysteriously always drawn to, because it really makes me FEEL BETTER TO BELIEVE AN OUTRIGHT LIE THAN THE ACTUAL TRUTH!! I'll believe that pigs can fly, too, if it means I can feel better in doing so. I really don't have ANY past social experiences of my own (or even a functioning brain for that matter) to prove this new, time-stopping revelation wrong, anyway. Ofcourse, pretty women still act like they'd rather swim in a sewer or jump into a bottomless pit for all eternity than to actually give me the time of day, show me a little respect, fight the urge to vomit once they see me, or heaven forbid, be even remotely attracted to me. But I don't care, because after reading this wonderful, delightful, and happy life-changing fantasy book written by Mr. Rogers himself, now I know that they actually DO like me despite their cruel, heartless, and superficial ways of showing it. Heck, they're women! We weren't supposed to understand them anyway, since they are so special and dramatically delightful creatures due to thier insane complexities that baffle even the brightest "Einsteins" of today. Maybe, just maybe, since they obviously like me so much, in 30 or 40 years from now, one will actually grow a heart and give me a chance. Yeah... that's what I want to believe. It feels so good to believe it and it makes me such a confident and successful chic-magnet in the process. Well, ok... they're ugly chics ofcourse, but atleast they actually treat me like a human being and help me feel worthy of even ANY female companionship for the next 30 or 40 years. That way, maybe, just maybe, I'll have enough training and confidence in myself in 30 or 40 years to believe that that beautiful blonde sitting across from me at the club is actually being civil and responsive to me and is NOT answering to a "dare" or performing some kind of sick joke on me. No, I'll be able to believe that she actually finally got the hint that most gorgeous guys and "bad boys" have nothing to offer her but physical and emotional abuse, besides just looks and attitude. And at that long-awaited time, I will be in total awe of her earth-shattering intelligence... I mean, hey, it only took her about 30 or 40 years to figure out that intensely complicated, concept of the century! I think then, I'll realize that she's actually bright enough to tie her own shoes AS WELL as putting on loads and loads of make-up every self-absorbed day for the rest of her fulfilling life. Folks, STOP TRAFFIC for this AMAZING MASTERPIECE of a book! It will help you realize all those painful cold shoulder's, complete lack of interest and respect, attitudes, agonizing laughs directed towards you, and soul-searing glares and looks of total disgust, are merely just their "friendly" way of letting you know they do actually LIKE you. Just wait a few decades for them to REALLY show it like normal people. WHAT AN UNBELIEVABLE MIND-BLOWING JOKE TO END ALL JOKES EVER CONCIEVED BY THE HUMAN RACE!!!! FELLOW NERDS, UGLY MEN, SHY MEN, LOW-SELF-ESTEEMED MEN (gee, I WONDER why), AND COMPLETELY BEYOND A SHADOW OF DOUBT "JINXED" MEN, ONLY READ THIS IF YOU WANT A LONG, HARD, GUT-BUSTING, AND LIFE-THREATENING (due to a LACK OF OXYGEN) LAUGH!! AND ABOVE ALL, DON'T INSULT YOUR OWN INTELLIGENCE BY BUYING INTO THIS CRAP!!THEY ONLY WANT TO PROVE YOU'RE NOT ONLY A LOSER, BUT THAT YOU'RE A DUMB LOSER!! I KNOW WOMEN HAVE FOREVER DESTROYED YOUR SOUL, BUT ALWAYS STRIVE TO HAVE A BIT MORE SELF-RESPECT AND DO NOT BELIEVE THIS INCREDIBLY FALSE LIE!