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No: Why Kids--of All Ages--Need to Hear It and Ways Parents Can Say It [Paperback]

David Walsh (Author)
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September 4, 2007
Join the movement to say Yes to No. An unprecedented coalition of parents and educators across Minnesota have adopted No as a statewide read.

Although saying No to your child is obviously important, many parents still have a hard time following through -- even when they know they should -- especially when other parents and the culture around them are being permissive.

Now, successful psychologist, bestselling author, and nationally known parenting expert Dr. David Walsh provides you with an arsenal of tactics, explanations, and examples for using No the right way with your kids. His memorable, affecting, and sometimes humorous anecdotes help you regain confidence in your own judgment and ability to say No as they remind you that you're not alone in your parenting struggles. With Dr. Walsh's down-to-earth advice, you can immediately assess and improve your relationship with your kids, set and enforce limits that make sense for different ages (from toddlers to teens), and otherwise make No a positive influence on kids' behavior and in your overall family life.

The first look at the psychological importance of No in a child's development, No offers the lively voice, warm wisdom, science made simple, and breadth of knowledge that readers have come to expect from Dr. Walsh.


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Psychologist Walsh (Why Do They Act That Way?), president and founder of the National Institute on Media and the Family, tackles a tough subject in this book on how parents can say "no" to their kids and why they should. Walsh argues that we are raising our children in a "Yes" culture that gives kids the message that they can and should have whatever they want whenever they want it. But scientific research, the author contends, reveals that children's brains are primed to learn the concept of "no" early on; in fact, Walsh points out, instant gratification is not the path to resiliency or success. On the contrary, our "yes" culture leads to disappointment and failure when kids later learn that they can't always have their way. Walsh's approach fosters such qualities as perseverance, patience and commitment, emphasizing a balanced parenting style that is neither predominantly negative nor permissive. In age-by-age chapters, he chronicles the developmentally appropriate use of the word, revealing how it helps children grow into self-disciplined, well-adjusted adults. Peppered with anecdotes of other parents' struggles as well as examples from raising his own three kids, Walsh's reassuring voice will give parents the courage to just say "No"—and mean it. (Jan.)
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"Dr. Walsh's new book arrives in the Land of Immediate Gratification just in time. In it, he discusses discipline and self-restraint from neurological, developmental, familial, and cultural points of view. Walsh is an excellent scientist and cultural observer who gives sage, sensitive, and practical advice. No should be required reading for every parent who walks out of a hospital with a newborn." -- Mary Pipher, PhD, author of Reviving Ophelia

"A comprehensive guide, it is not just about how to say No, but gives sound, practical advice that will help parents raise considerate, motivated children who will succeed in school, job, and life. The chapter on self-esteem alone is worth the price of the book. No will help today's parents avoid raising the next Generation Me." -- Jean Twenge, PhD, professor of psychology, San Diego State University, and author of Generation Me

Product Details

  • Paperback: 336 pages
  • Publisher: Free Press; 1 edition (September 4, 2007)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 074328920X
  • ISBN-13: 978-0743289207
  • Product Dimensions: 8.4 x 5.8 x 0.8 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 11.2 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.9 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (21 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #145,304 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

David Walsh, Ph.D. is an award-winning psychologist and in-demand international speaker. He is one of the world's most trusted authorities on children, teens, parenting, family life, the impact of technology, and translating brain science for everyday practice.  He founded the renowned National Institute on Media and the Family, which he led till 2009. In 2010 he launched "Mind Positive Parenting." Dr. Walsh is on the faculty of the University of Minnesota, is a senior advisor at Search Institute and has published many articles in the professional and general press. Dr. Walsh is the author of nine books, including two national best sellers. His books have been translated into eight languages. Dr. Walsh presents to parents, educators, and professional audiences throughout the world. His workshops blend humor, warmth, scientific substance, and practical advice. He and his wife Monica live in Minneapolis and have three adult children and two grand children.


 

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5.0 out of 5 stars Brilliant and Lucid, January 8, 2007
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Dr. Walsh has nailed it. We parents have got to wake up and heed his call. What a wonderful book, full of suggestions and ideas that I imagine has our ancestors nodding in approval. As Dr Walsh points out, self discipline is not optional for happiness and success in life. I have heard Dr Walsh give one of his brilliant workshops and hope that I may be able to gather the time and resources to attend again when he presents the ideas from this timely and inspiring book.
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27 of 29 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars common sense it's always so common, February 20, 2007
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What a great book. It's an easy read and will reinforce to most parents that they are doing the right thing. Parents tend to have excuses for spoiling their kids (you can't give them too much love, it helps their self esteem, I don't want them to not like me, etc.). This book addresses all those "theories." Bottom line: Kids need direction and their minds are not developed like adults. They literally do not have the capacity to think like adults and our role as parents is to help shape that competency in a healthy way.
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31 of 36 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Bravo!, January 10, 2007
Finally, a book on 'realistic' parenting. I'm so weary of hearing that we are too strict on our child because we don't allow him to do whatever he wants, talk nasty to us or other adults, etc. I've seen kids who never heard the word 'no', (or their parents didn't stick with it). When these children finally get into the job force and have to deal with all sorts of limits, behave themselves, and show respect, they become even more unhappy. I've not seen a single example of a child who was a happy, well-adjusted adult because he or she got their own way all the time. This book is on my top ten list of parenting guides and I have to say 'Bravo' to David Walsh for saving us from one of our biggest mistakes as parents, 'over-indulgence'.

Chrissy K. McVay
Author of 'Souls of the North Wind'
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