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Not Guilty: The Good News About Working Mothers [Hardcover]

Betty Holcomb (Author)
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July 2, 1998

Can women have rewarding careers and still be good mothers? Do children benefit from Mom's career? Does Dad? In this provocative new book, a distinguished journalist and editor at Working Mother magazine answers with a resounding Yes! -- and tells you why.

Women's current level of fatigue, stress, and guilt is not, as popular media reports would have it, the natural outgrowth of juggling a job and family. Nor do children necessarily suffer when both parents work.

Women are subject to stress, lower pay, and sub-standard child care bacause of stereotypes, hostile workplaces, and policies that have yet to catch up with real life. Worse, women face a growing societal pressure toward becoming full-time mothers and unfounded fears about child care.

This book offers a fresh and thoughtful analysis of the real costs and benefits of women working outside the home. Holcomb takes a hard look at decades of research on these working mothers and the forces conspiring to convince women that they still belong in the nursery. Along the way, she punctures the popular myths that fuel women's doubts about having careers away from the home.

Reassuringly, Holcomb argues that with the right kind of support, the revolution of the working mother holds promise for women, men, and their children to lead richer and more satisfying lives.


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"Men pride themselves on their ability to earn a good living in order to take care of their families. Why is it that women must be made to feel guilty about doing the same thing?" Author Betty Holcomb points to this quote from a working mother as the central premise for Not Guilty! The Good News About Working Mothers. Historically--and in a recent backlash as well--women have been criticized for working outside the home. In Not Guilty! Holcomb, a senior editor at Working Mother magazine, states definitively that mothers do not injure their children by working outside the home, and that, in fact, with the right support, children can actually benefit from having a working mother.

Holcomb lays bare the conservative myth that children are damaged by mothers who work, carefully and methodically dissecting biased research and media stories. She is also attuned to the fact that working outside the home is not always a choice in today's economic climate. "It is not some feminist plot or liberal ideology that inspires men and women to reinvent their family life. Rather it is the day-to-day realities of home life today, transformed by women's new earning power, that drive couples to alter the terms of marriage and parenthood."

In this comprehensive examination, Holcomb also discusses the dilemmas faced by women who have left the work force to raise their children, only to return later and find they are no longer able to garner their departing salaries. She also exposes the crisis and lack of support from the public-policy sector for child-care options and family leave. Placing these questions within a historical and cross-cultural context, Holcomb offers a clear, compelling look at the current devaluing of working mothers and makes a strong case for why mothers who work are actually doing a world of good. --Ericka Lutz

From Publishers Weekly

About the only good news that Holcomb, a consulting editor at Working Mother magazine, has to offer here is that children are not harmed when their mothers work outside the home, according to her extensive research. She contends, however, that a combination of rigid employer policies, lack of affordable quality day care and the persistent cultural myth that children are better off when raised by a working father and a stay-at-home mother combine to make mothers who work feel stressed and anxious. Holcomb draws on studies supporting her argument that women profit emotionally as well as economically from working outside the home, and their children benefit socially from good day care. The author traces a backlash against working mothers that was launched in the 1980s by groups such as Focus on the Family and the Institute of American Values, which continue to lobby against adequate funding for child care. According to Holcomb's thought-provoking analysis, the conservative media have published many articles based on outdated and unsupported evidence that attack working mothers and heighten their guilt.
Copyright 1998 Reed Business Information, Inc.

Product Details

  • Hardcover: 384 pages
  • Publisher: Scribner (July 2, 1998)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0684822334
  • ISBN-13: 978-0684822334
  • Product Dimensions: 9.1 x 6.1 x 1.3 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1.2 pounds
  • Average Customer Review: 2.9 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (8 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #4,557,339 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars Women have it rough., August 22, 1998
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This review is from: Not Guilty: The Good News About Working Mothers (Hardcover)
I am a man with a capital M and I liked the book. Holcomb has balls for laying it all on the table. In this day of Lewinskis and Wonder Bras, it is good to know that feminists aren't hiding.
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8 of 10 people found the following review helpful:
2.0 out of 5 stars Author's chance to vent her outrage and little else, July 19, 2000
This review is from: Not Guilty: The Good News About Working Mothers (Hardcover)
I am a working mom, and had to put this down after struggling through 100 pages or so. I was looking for a careful, respectful, reasonable analysis of the effects, if any, of working moms on children. What I got was an angry book of the author's outrage at various messages sent to working moms and college age women about "sacrifices". She does have a point that the debate about whether or not two income families hurt kids has been mostly conducted without real research and facts. Unfortunately, she just seems to add to this. I bought this because one editorial review said that she did include research results. If she did, I couldn't find them in the first 100 pages, and lost the ability to wade through her anger to get to any later ones.
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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful:
1.0 out of 5 stars Make the choice that works for you and your family, November 29, 2002
By A Customer
This review is from: Not Guilty: The Good News About Working Mothers (Hardcover)
I have read many books about parenting. Some are in support of the stay at home mom and others support the working mom. The fact that many of us need to read
books like this to feel good about the choices we make seems to say that this is a controversial issue with no easy right answer. Not Guilty, is a book
written to make to income families feel good about their choice. Other books are written to make stay at home moms feel good about their choice. People will
believe what they want to believe about this debatable issue. Make the choice for yourself. Do what is correct for your children and family. If that means working, by
all means work. If that means staying home with your young children, be all means stay home with your children (at least while they are young and not school age). I
am in support of all loving parents that really make an effort to create good lives for their children. While keeping your children and family in mind, make the right
choice for your circumstances. I think books like this are for the most part pointless. They are written to make the authors feel good about their choices whatever
they may be. It is also written to justify the choices that author has made. However if you are reading this book to support the choices you have made, that is fine
too. We all need to feel supported especially when confronting difficult decisions like this one regarding our families and lifestyle.
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