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Not That Kind of Girl: A Memoir [Hardcover]

Carlene Bauer (Author)
4.5 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (13 customer reviews)


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July 28, 2009

Raised in evangelical churches that preach apocalypse now, Carlene Bauer grows up happy to oblige the God who presides over her New Jersey girlhood. But in high school and in college, her intellectual and spiritual horizons widen, though still she finds it hard to let go of her ingrained ideals and to rebel as she knows she should. She loves rock 'n' roll but politely declines offers of sex and drugs, and hovers between a hunger for the world and a suspicion of it. In her twenties, however, determined to make up for lost time, Bauer undertakes a belated and often comic coming-of-age in New York City—ultimately falling in love and losing her religion, and left wondering just what it means to be good.

Sharply written, hilarious, and touching, Not That Kind of Girl is the story of one young woman's efforts to define worldliness, ambition, and love on her own terms.

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“The tension between the sacred and the secular permeates every page of this heartfelt memoir. . . . Poignantly describe[s] the grace and beauty of ordinary moments.” (Publishers Weekly )

About the Author

Carlene Bauer has written for Salon, Elle, the New York Times Magazine, and n + 1. She lives in Brooklyn, New York.

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Product Details

  • Hardcover: 288 pages
  • Publisher: Harper; 1 edition (July 28, 2009)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0060840544
  • ISBN-13: 978-0060840549
  • Product Dimensions: 8.3 x 5.8 x 1.2 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 12.8 ounces
  • Average Customer Review: 4.5 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (13 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,160,780 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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7 of 9 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Gorgeously written, a stunner of a memoir, August 7, 2009
This review is from: Not That Kind of Girl: A Memoir (Hardcover)
I love memoirs, especially ones about addiction, my motto being, "the more debauched the better." But Carlene Bauer has written quite a different sort of memoir. Her story is of a good girl who is both equally baffled by and attracted to the misbehaviors of her peers. Not one to go unreflectively forth, Bauer ponders her way through to her 30's. Luckily for us, all of her introspection is written in precise and evocative prose, laced with humor, wit, self-deprecation and honest admissions of pain and humiliation. If you have a functioning brain, if you think about your place in the world, if you've ever felt awkward, disappointed by reality, or wanted more than what made the rest of the people around you happy-you will love this book.
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6 of 8 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars deeply beautiful, thoughtful, unsensational, August 1, 2009
This review is from: Not That Kind of Girl: A Memoir (Hardcover)
A story about weighing pleasure against goodness, god against sex and boys, modest middle-class values against vaulting ambition, etc. To all the thoughtful girls and once-girls out there, I recommend it wholeheartedly
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful:
3.0 out of 5 stars Engaging, but falls flat, December 31, 2009
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This review is from: Not That Kind of Girl: A Memoir (Hardcover)
I picked this book up after reading a review/excerpt on [...]. As an avid reader of memoirs, I was excited to find one that tackled the subject of spirituality from a Christian experience. Ms. Bauer's writing is engaging, and I had no problem going along for the ride. I enjoyed her lyrical turns of phrase and creative metaphors but found, like a prior reviewer, that some of her references were obscure (or perhaps, over my history major head). I also found myself stumbling every now and then on over-worked phrasing that took me out of the rhythm of reading.

The work itself is honest, open, detailed and entertaining. . . for the first 75% of the book. It seemed like so much care and detail was given to the first part of the book that I was disappointed at the rushed turn things took once she decided to convert to Catholicism. It seemed from that point on, things were combined, edited down, rushed and passed over. Additionally, it's hard to feel satisfied with the trajectory of the story when something as crucial as the author losing her faith is given all of a few paragraphs of development (it was unclear, was it 9/11 solely? The book seemed to imply that after 9/11 she just stopped going to church and walked away from God, but it was so under-explored for something so huge.). Likewise, her two real adult relationships feel tacked on at the end. I can't decide if the odd way those relationships are handled (referring to her boyfriend as "her friend", no name, no pseudonym) is due to real life legal issues (no releases) or rush to publication? Regardless, the overall effect feels unbalanced when the themes threaded throughout the book are her relationship with God and how it grows and changes as she does, and her decision to remain a virgin as a facet of that relationship, that when the loss of both of those is treated with such brevity and without refection, it felt like a letdown.

If not for the rushed last 25% of the book and the flat ending, I would have happily given this 4-5 stars.
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