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An Old Wife's Tale: My Seven Decades in Love and War [Hardcover]

Midge Decter (Author)
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August 21, 2001

"What has happened to me over the course of the past seven decades has in one way or another happened to many if not all present-day American women -- from the almost dizzyingly rapid ringing of changes to the discovery of that in our lives which is never changing."

One of the nation's most renowned female conservatives, Midge Decter is known for her frequently controversial stands on modern social issues. An Old Wife's Tale is her thoughtful examination of the lives of American women and men over the last sixty years, as viewed through the lens of her own life. From stories of her youth during World War II -- when Decter and her friends learned that "only the class beauty and the class tramp had no difficulty with the dating system" -- to a surprising and often hilarious picture of what the 1950s were really like to an account of her later roles as a single mother, publishing executive, happily married woman, political iconoclast, and doting grandmother, Decter paints a singular portrait of a life lived on the front lines of American culture.

By turns serious, wry, and deeply personal, An Old Wife's Tale brings us an important new perspective on twentieth-century American life.

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Under cover of a memoir, Decter, a politically conservative columnist and author (Liberal Parents, Radical Children), has a lot of fun railing at two of her favorite targets: feminists and communists. A right wing fixture in many debates with feminists (whom she refers to as "libbers") in the 1970s, she still can't figure out what possible complaint women could harbor against their position in society. Although she obviously enjoyed working in the literary field while raising children, the former executive editor of Harper's now wishes she had waited until her youngest was in high school. In addition to swipes at Betty Friedan, Gloria Steinem and lesbians at large, she also ventures the unpopular opinion that housework is "nourishing" and blames the 1960s and '70s women's movement for self-destructive trends, such as anorexia, that afflict girls today. Her hostility toward communists led Decter to form the Committee for a Free World (now disbanded), composed of conservative thinkers, to provide journalistic support for worldwide economic and political freedom. The ideological rants in this very readable and occasionally witty account will be of great interest to many conservative readers, but Decter's personal, less caustic recollections, especially those about her four children, 10 grandchildren and longtime husband, Norman Podhoretz (also a prominent conservative intellectual), have a wider appeal. Agent, Lynne Chu. (Sept.) Forecast: Sure to attract reviews, this feisty memoir is slated for a 15-city NPR campaign and author appearances in New York City.
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From Booklist

Expect no usual autobiography from Decter, who delights, she says, in being an ideologue. Hence, she speaks volumes about feminism but never drops the names of her two husbands. She is very self-disclosing about having been a divorced, working mother; about her strong desire to work outside the home; and about full-time motherhood, which she also knows from personal experience. She is convinced that the satisfactions of work and motherhood are generally incompatible and that that is in the nature of being a woman. Feminism, which she regards as just so much elitist discontent, has told many lies to persuade society that a woman can be a mother, a careerist, and also equal in all ways to a man. This is nonsense, Decter maintains, that has had baneful effects on women, men, and relations between them. She argues her position eloquently and honestly, admitting to deep emotions but refusing to be guided by them, and except in the last, hurried-sounding pages, she writes like a dream. Ray Olson
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Product Details

  • Hardcover: 256 pages
  • Publisher: William Morrow; First edition. edition (August 21, 2001)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0060394285
  • ISBN-13: 978-0060394288
  • Product Dimensions: 8.4 x 5.6 x 1.1 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1 pounds
  • Average Customer Review: 3.7 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (7 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #2,191,360 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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13 of 15 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars WHAT???, December 6, 2001
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Zach McGregor (Frisco, Colorado USA) - See all my reviews
This review is from: An Old Wife's Tale: My Seven Decades in Love and War (Hardcover)
This is a very well written book offers a chronicle of American life since the 1940s that would be hard to match in wisdom on subjects ranging from the relations between the sexes to the relations between America and the world.

Midge Decter is known for her frequently ocntroversial stands on modern social issues. An Old Wife's Tale is her thoughtful examination of the lives of American women and men over the last 60 years, as viewed through the lens ofher own life. From stories of her youth during World War II-when Dectoer and her friends learned that "only the class beauty and the class tramp had no difficulty with the dating system"-to a surprising and often hilarious picture of what the Fifties were really like, to an account of her later roles as single mother, publishing executive, happily married woman, political iconoclast, and doting grandmother, Decter paints a singular portrait of a life lived on the front lines of American culture

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4 of 5 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars Claims to be Everywoman, September 4, 2002
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I was initially put off by Decter's claim that she is a sort of Everywoman of the past 30 or so years. But I was surprised at how true it turned out to be. Her comments on most women's inner fears over the sexual revolution and the prospect of life without "a man" jived completely with my memories of the period. Her descriptions of the political climates of recent presidencies were also right on target.
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5 of 8 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Review in 12/3/01 Weekly Standard, December 6, 2001
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Apologies--this is not a review, simply a note to where to find one. There's an appreciation of Decter's life and works in the 12/3/01 Weekly Standard.
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