Oral Sex Is the New Goodnight Kiss: The Sexual Bullying of Girls [Paperback]

Sharlene Azam (Author)

Book Description

Publication Date: April 3, 2009

This book is about the recent emergence of teenage prostitution rings in affluent Canadian suburbs. Attractive, white, high school girls - 13, 14 and 15 years old - are having sex with up to 7 men a night, several times a week, so they can go shopping. Other girls are selling their virginity for $1000. These are not street prostitutes. "They are the prettiest girls from the most successful families," explains one expert. "Your daughter's best friend is recruiting her right out of your house, right under your nose," says Detective Randy Wickins of the Edmonton Vice Unit. Oral Sex Is The New Goodnight Kiss is a wake up call for parents, showing them girls who have been recruited, their mothers, their "friends" who recruited them (the new pimps), and the vice cops and experts who are trying to make sense of this new middle-class phenomenon.

Product Details

• Paperback: 136 pages
• Publisher: Bollywood Filmed Entertainment Inc; Original edition (April 3, 2009)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 0973971118
• ISBN-13: 978-0973971118
• Product Dimensions: 8.8 x 5.9 x 0.5 inches
• Shipping Weight: 8 ounces
• Average Customer Review: 5.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (6 customer reviews)
• Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #901,445 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

Customer Reviews

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19 of 22 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars compelling stories into girls mindset about oral sex, June 1, 2009

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Hadeel Reda - See all my reviews
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This review is from: Oral Sex Is the New Goodnight Kiss: The Sexual Bullying of Girls (Paperback)

I read this book in one sitting. It's non-fiction, but reads like a thriller with two versions of every story: one by the girls and one by their mothers. The young girls stories are emotionless and in clear graphic detail. While the mothers account of the same story shows how little they actually know about what's really going on it's shocking. I found that to be a very clever way to demonstrate how in the dark parents can be - it could be any parent talking about a kid that parties a little too much but the signs are there. These girls experience unspeakable situtions and the whole time you want to save them, to stop them from making it worse or more dangerous. You're hoping 14 year old Jessica, who is stranded in the rain on the highway at 4 in the morning, doesn't get into the car that pulls over. You want to save 12 year old Sara from what happens to her on the school bus.You are heartbroken when a 15 year old has sex for $60 because she wants to go shopping and then does it again and again night after night. The tipping point from partying into prostitution almost seems inevitable in their stories, and it really makes you wonder how we got here. This book is brave and disturbing because it paints a clear picture of what can happen to a girl growing up in a society that encourages girls to identify themselves through their sexuality at such an early age. Even Dora the Explorer is starting to wear mini shirts! What messages are we sending our kids. This book really makes you think about that.

10 of 12 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Must have for any parent, October 11, 2009

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Matthew C. Gilbert "Investment Guru" (Palm Beach, FL) - See all my reviews
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This review is from: Oral Sex Is the New Goodnight Kiss: The Sexual Bullying of Girls (Paperback)

Have you any idea how important trendy labels, carrying around money etc. is to young (and I mean young) women? Combine that with the sexploitation clubbing them in the head via women's magazines, popular tv shows etc., and you have a recipe for...well...this. I see this as abject failure of the mainstream women's movement to set any sort of acceptable boundaries. Great, albeit gut-wrenching read.

6 of 8 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Chilling and Compelling - Parents take note, June 30, 2009

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DB "DB" (Toronto, ON) - See all my reviews

This review is from: Oral Sex Is the New Goodnight Kiss: The Sexual Bullying of Girls (Paperback)

This is an excellent piece of research journalism that is worth being read by parents, educators, and others that work with kids. There is a real range of stories starting with the tween who is used by the high school jocks to middle class girls who trade sex for drugs. This is a wake up call to those of us with daughters, one that we can ignore at our own risk.