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OverSuccess: Healing the American Obsession With Wealth, Fame, Power, and Perfection [Hardcover]

Jim Rubens (Author)
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October 1, 2008
Why are one in three American adults pervasively dissatisfied with their lives? Why is major depression seven times more likely among those born after 1970 than their grandparents? Why are one in four of us addicted to at least one substance or behavior? Why is America drowning in record personal and public debt? Why did over 100,000 people humiliate themselves this year auditioning for Fox's American Idol? Why are 80 percent of women unhappy with their bodies? What is it about contemporary America that connects the swelling incidence of depression, behavioral addictions, eating disorders, debt, materialism, sleep deprivation, family breakdown, rudeness, fame fixation, ethical collapse, mistrust, and monstrous acts of personal violence?

Drawing from emerging science in several fields and insights about our transformed social lives, Rubens explains how genes, commercial culture, and global hyper-competition have locked tens of millions of Americans into an unwinnable success benchmarks race and unleashed an epidemic of status defeat. OverSuccess shows how and why the resulting social and psychological pathologies are different for baby boomers, men, and women.

Offering hope for our future, Rubens outlines 20 ways that individuals, businesses, and voluntary organizations can satisfy the American drive for recognition and personal achievement without the toxic burdens of OverSuccess. These cures range from holding the door for strangers and somatic cell gene therapy, to responsible displays of wealth and building village-scale social and business organizations.

Praise for OverSuccess:

'This book can . . . help all of us focus on what matters instead of what glitters. Everyone should read it.' --John de Graaf, co-author, Affluenza: The All-Consuming Epidemic and producer of the PBS series Affluenza and Escape from Affluenza

'Jim Rubens is right--we need many more niches, many more villages, in which to play out the human drama--and to play it out more responsibly, and with a much stronger sense of community. We'll be far happier for it.' --Bill McKibben, author, Deep Economy


Product Details

  • Hardcover: 432 pages
  • Publisher: Greenleaf Book Group; 1 edition (October 1, 2008)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1929774761
  • ISBN-13: 978-1929774760
  • Product Dimensions: 8.7 x 6.6 x 1.5 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1.6 pounds (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.3 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (10 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #270,073 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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7 of 7 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars At first glance..., November 12, 2008
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This review is from: OverSuccess: Healing the American Obsession With Wealth, Fame, Power, and Perfection (Hardcover)
At first glance I was expecting a read chalked full of opinion on the downturn of society and how we have all failed our children and forefathers. Instead, what I found was cohesive concept broken down into well researched science, sociology, psychology and anthropology laid out in a way that is fun to read. Important to note is how Rubens does a nice job of separating his opinions from the stated facts.

As a parent, this book makes me think a bit more about the world we live in and the world I want to send my kids out into, without making me feel depressed about it all. In fact is gives some positive ideas on how to do little things daily to promote well adjusted self esteem and a more caring community while still achieving success.

I found this to be a great read both when I was interested in piecing together the causes and affects of fixation on "OverSuccess", and when I really just wanted to read through interesting facts after a long day. In short, buy it, you won't regret it.
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6 of 6 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars A Mission from God., October 31, 2008
This review is from: OverSuccess: Healing the American Obsession With Wealth, Fame, Power, and Perfection (Hardcover)
What are we all doing here is the question raised and answered by Jim Rubins. Someone will always be richer, more famous, more something, so we are playing a game with no winners.

How about a different game? How about different rules? How about a different reason for getting up in the morning?

Your reason for being is unique. Why accept a standard that is not yours?

Define quality of life in the context of who you are, not who others are.

Calling to question questionable values is the mission Jim Rubins is on.

He does it well. Mission accomplished. A good read worth investing a portion of your time on earth to consider.
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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars A Masterpiece, December 7, 2008
This review is from: OverSuccess: Healing the American Obsession With Wealth, Fame, Power, and Perfection (Hardcover)
This book is a masterpiece, one of the best books I have read in years. Jim Rubens draws on almost every field of study, blending in his own life history, to produce a convincing explanation of where we are today and how we got there. What I find ironic is that his own life included many periods of oversuccess but, hey, that may be what allowed him to write this.
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Key Phrases - Statistically Improbable Phrases (SIPs): (learn more)
mediated reality, hit man, benchmark escalation, chronic social defeat, status defeat, male burden, success obsession, culture merchants, status contests, extended cooperation, success benchmarks, human enhancement, costly punishment, enhancement technology
Key Phrases - Capitalized Phrases (CAPs): (learn more)
America's Obsession, Healing the Obsession, Supernatural Benchmarks, The Price of Commercial Culture, United States, The Economic Costs, The Incubation of My Obsession, New Hampshire, New York City, World War, National Institutes of Health, New England, First Amendment, Bill O'Reilly, American Psychological Association, Time Warner, Wall Street, New Orleans, Las Vegas, Powder Ridge, General Social Survey, Great Depression, Lance Armstrong, Long Island, President Bush
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