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How to Overcome Premature Ejaculation

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This is not the first book I have looked into to find out about how to overcome my problem. I'd honestly suggest this to everybody, who is in search for a book well written, full of deep care and willingness to help. I am afraid of using superlatives, not to discourage those of you who are really fed up by promises... But I can not help saying that every word in that book makes sense and it did helped me alot. Not only do I feel my problem is gone, but also my self-esteem is back and I can enjoy my renewed love and devotion. It does give hope and simple yet very reasonable techniques for revival.

When I read some of the positive reviews, I was skeptical, but this relatively short paperback was not really expensive, so I figured it was worth a shot. The bottom line is that it worked for me, and I am so grateful that I have the sexual confidence I have been missing my whole life. I didn't do the exercises with a partner. The author has exercises you can do by yourself, and they worked for me over about a month period. I find the author to really have a great handle on what "real" sex is really like, and what real sex should be like. In a world full of misconceptions and lies about sex, this book was so refreshing. I learned a ton about women, myself and sex in general. I would recommend really following the exercise steps closely and carefully, and keep at it. I am amazed. It only took 4-6 weeks of concentration and learning, and it really does work. I am amazed and relieved that I found this great book when I did. It could have been a lot more years, or a lifetime, of uncertainty and disappointment. If the author wasn't deceased, I would write her a letter to personally thank her for changing my life in an important way. I know this sounds over the top, but it's true.

I had tried a bit of the squeeze technique over the years only to find that it made me sore and it was also unpleasant to employ. Then I set out to get serious and just follow a program from start to finish to fix this thing. The book employs nothing but using a technique that is nothing but pleasurable. By the time I got to practising it about the 10th time I was doing just great. It was so difficult to believe that it could all be so simple to learn. I whole heartedly recommend this book to those who will persevere through the practise sessions until they have retrained themselves totally. Surely the little time this takes to learn will make all the difference for the rest of a lifetime.

My husband and I read this book because he had a severe case of PE. We didn't know what else to do. This book changed both of our lives. You should read this even if you are a single guy as you don't need a partner. If you do have a wife/girlfriend, she should read it if possible. That made a HUGE difference. But only if she's supportive of this (which she should be as it is her problem too). Yes, men, it DOES matter, so do something about it -- read this book!

I was disapointed to find that this book covers the same information that is available free with a little searching on the internet. Nothing new or dramatic in this book. It is good information but not worth buying the book for.

Had thought the book would be more helpful than it was. It did not really explain why some men have premature ejaculation and why others don't. The instructions seemed mechanical and I did not get the "cure" that was promised on the book cover! Found the book by Birch (Male Sexual Endurance)to be more helpful.

The only thing worse than being impotent is suffering from PE. I should know- I've experienced the horrors of both. But this book made me realize that my problems are all psychological and can be overcome with just a little confidence and control. Now I can "go" for hours, and Jodi is a very happy girl.

This is the book for you, if, like me, your endurance level is about 15 seconds from a soft-start. My partners have often been sympathetic but sexual dysfunction can put a strain on any relationship - it's all very well saying "It's all in the mind", but this does not help when you have coated your underpants by second base. Although I did not get off to a good start with the book... I found the author's compassion and knowledge extremely helpful.

In the past, doctors attempted to define Premature Ejaculation (PE) in terms of how quickly the patient ejaculates. Some treatment centers believed that if a man lasted less than one minute after vaginal entry he was premature. Other groups used one and a half minutes or two minutes as their criterion. Instead of the natural enjoy, men with this type of PE have to struggle to hold back, and can only do so with tremendous effort and with a great deal of tension, which takes all the pleasure out of the act for themselves and also spoils it for their partners. In 1980s, Helen Singer Kaplan has proposed a new definition of PE, which has been adopted by the American Psychiatric Association and by the World Health Organization. According to the new diagnostic guidelines, the essential feature of PE is that the man lacks adequate voluntary ejaculatory control with the result that the climaxes involuntarily before he wishes to.

The author affirms that PE can be cured, so today over 90 percent of cased can be cured with an average of 14 weeks of treatment. The author analyzes what causes PE, scrutinizes physical and psychological causes of PE, and present the new treatment of PE split into steps with illustrated exercises and advises for both partners. The illustrations are taken from the other author's book: "The Illustrated Manual Of Sex Therapy". I can recommend it in addition to this book, as well as the author's title "The Sexual Desire Disorders - Dysfunctional Regulation of Sexual Motivation".

I hate to read, but this was a quick and very helpful read. The information was useful and the techniques are working very well after a few weeks of practice. This was recommended by my doctor and I'll pass that recommendation along. Good luck.