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Oxford Messed Up [Paperback]

Andrea Kayne Kaufman
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Book Description

November 17, 2011
Oxford Messed Up is a unique literary love story that transports readers on a meaningful and emotional journey where the academic world of Oxford, the music of Van Morrison, and an old claw-foot bathtub serve as a backdrop for learning, self-discovery, and transcendent love. Rhodes Scholar Gloria Zimmerman is an academic superstar who has come to Oxford University to study feminist poetry. Yet the rigors of the academy pale in comparison to her untreated Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder, fueled by her overachieving parents and manifested in a deathly aversion to germs and human contact. Her next-door neighbor (who is also, to her mortification, her loomate) is Henry Young, the appealing but underachieving musician son of an overbearing and disapproving Oxford don. Still mourning the death of his supportive mother while enduring the mockery of his disapproving and merciless father, Henry is haunted by the unexpectedly serious ramifications of a reckless and tragic youth. Gloria and Henry's relationship evolves from a shared obsession with Van Morrison's music into a desire on the part of each to fill in the gaps in the life of the other. Yet the constraints of a debilitating illness and the looming revelation of a catastrophic secret conspire to throw their worlds into upheaval and threaten the possibilities of their unlikely yet redemptive love.

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A beautifully written and compelling love story about two messed up people who help each other face and overcome their demons.... The story gives a window into the mind of a woman, Gloria, who is suffering severe obsessive-compulsive disorder. We see her internal thoughts her critical, perfectionistic, sometimes grandiose, and always germ-phobic thoughts as well as the compulsive behaviors they lead to. We come intimately to know what it must feel like to have these struggles.... Oxford Messed Up shows nothing less than the redemptive power of love. --Elyn Saks, J.D., Ph.D., 2009 winner of the MacArthur Genius Grant and author of The Center Cannot Hold: My Journey Through Madness

In her first novel, Andrea Kayne Kaufman asks whether each of us, messed up in our own way, can choose to embrace happiness.... Van Morrison's lyrics provide a backdrop for this narrative, which is more than a love story it is a study of fatalistic optimism. I couldn't put this book down because Kaufman makes you care deeply about the individual journeys of her two protagonists. --Kathleen McCartney, Ph.D., Dean of the Harvard Graduate School of Education

Finally, a story that shows how powerful Cognitive Behavior Therapy really is, and a protagonist who is so much more than her OCD. You will root for Kaufman's characters because of their beautifully realized humanity, while you gain understanding of the constant undercurrent of noise in the mind of anyone who has OCD. This book accurately and finally portrays the recovery that is possible when OCD is treated correctly. Thank you, Andrea Kayne Kaufman, on behalf of all of us who struggle with anxiety, and on behalf of all of us searching for healing, growth and a beautiful love story! --Susan Richman, Honorary Chair, Board of Directors, OCD Chicago --Susan Richman, Honorary Chair, Board of Directors, OCD Chicago

In her first novel, Andrea Kayne Kaufman asks whether each of us, messed up in our own way, can choose to embrace happiness.... Van Morrison's lyrics provide a backdrop for this narrative, which is more than a love story it is a study of fatalistic optimism. I couldn't put this book down because Kaufman makes you care deeply about the individual journeys of her two protagonists. --Kathleen McCartney, Ph.D., Dean of the Harvard Graduate School of Education

Finally, a story that shows how powerful Cognitive Behavior Therapy really is, and a protagonist who is so much more than her OCD. You will root for Kaufman's characters because of their beautifully realized humanity, while you gain understanding of the constant undercurrent of noise in the mind of anyone who has OCD. This book accurately and finally portrays the recovery that is possible when OCD is treated correctly. Thank you, Andrea Kayne Kaufman, on behalf of all of us who struggle with anxiety, and on behalf of all of us searching for healing, growth and a beautiful love story! --Susan Richman, Honorary Chair, Board of Directors, OCD Chicago

About the Author

Andrea Kayne Kaufman is chair of the Department of Leadership, Language and Curriculum at the DePaul University College of Education in Chicago. An educator and attorney, she earned a B.A. from Vassar College, an M.A. from the Harvard Graduate School of Education, and a J.D. from the University of Pennsylvania Law School. She lives in Chicago with her husband and two children.

Product Details

  • Paperback: 336 pages
  • Publisher: Grant Place Press (November 17, 2011)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0984675108
  • ISBN-13: 978-0984675104
  • Product Dimensions: 1.1 x 6.3 x 8.7 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1.2 pounds (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.5 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (92 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #115,089 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

Andrea Kayne Kaufman has guided and mentored hundreds of students as a professor at the DePaul University College of Education. A professor and attorney who earned a bachelor's degree from Vassar College, a master's degree in Education from Harvard University and her Juris Doctor from the University of Pennsylvania Law School, Andrea has students who are primarily teachers, seeking masters and doctoral degrees in Educational Leadership to serve as principals and superintendents.

Andrea is an award-winning expert in the area of school law, and has published and spoken widely about special education law, education civil rights, the No Child Left Behind Act, cyber bullying, and other legal and political issues having an impact on students and schools.

In her personal and professional life, Andrea has been involved with issues relating to special needs, in particular Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder. Her debut novel, "Oxford Messed Up," is a literary love story that transports readers on a redemptive and emotional journey, where the academic world of Oxford University serves as a backdrop for true learning, self-discovery, and transcendent love. Andrea's professional expertise and personal experience have given her the vision to create a novel hailed by experts as one of the first to present the inner workings and treatment of Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder accurately, from the inside out. "Oxford Messed Up" was recently awarded the Best Adult Fiction E-Book Gold Medal by the Independent Publisher Book Awards.

Andrea is currently working on her next novel, "Parent Over Shoulder." In this poignant love story, Andrea brings her education background, sensitivity, insight and articulate writing style to another "hell" found in many school communities - cyber-bullying.

Andrea draws inspiration for her writing and life from poetry, Van Morrison's music and other classic vinyl, her daily walks along Lake Michigan, and her time spent with her husband and two children in their equanimity-filled Chicago home.

Read more about Andrea at www.andreakaynekaufman.com.

Customer Reviews

It's such a sweet love story and a very well written book!!! Hogan  |  29 reviewers made a similar statement
The characters are all well developed from the main protagonists to the supporting cast. Kentucky Quacker  |  26 reviewers made a similar statement
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11 of 11 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Romance made cool March 18, 2012
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This was a book club suggestion, and turned out to be a runaway hit for our group! I'm not usually a romance reader, but was intrigued and quickly hooked by the story. The writing made me feel a part of Oxford graduate student life (no small feat), and I became engrossed in these characters' lives. The romance was sweet yet realistic, and I appreciated the subtle education on OCD issues and treatments as part of the story. This was a hip romance, and I'm already looking forward to the author's next book.
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7 of 7 people found the following review helpful
Format:Paperback
Rhodes Scholar Gloria Zimmerman is extremely intelligent but held back by her Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder which is ruled by "Oliver" who delights in telling her how germy everything is. She is horrified to discover that she will be sharing a bathroom with Henry Young, an ex-junkie who is a terrible slob. Gloria and Henry do have one thing in common - their love of Van Morrison's music. This one thing in common creates an unexpected friendship between them which slowly evolves into a deeper relationship. But they have many obstacles to overcome including not only Gloria's OCD but Henry's past which will forever haunt him.

The first couple of chapters were a bit slow but once the story got going "Oxford Messed Up" pulled me into the book to the point that I still can't forget the main characters long after I've finished reading the book. Author Andrea Kayne Kaufman has done a wonderful job of creating two complex characters who somehow manage to find love despite their problems. Kaufman's portrayal of Gloria is especially sensitive. She (using the help of "Oliver") really gets into Gloria's mind and what it is like to have OCD. Readers will agonize with Gloria as she at times tries to rid herself of "Oliver" yet is too weak to do so. It is heartbreaking to read as Gloria cleans the bathroom for hours at a time; heartwarming to read the times when she manages to beat "Oliver". This is mainly Gloria's story but Henry is just as well-written and just as troubled a character. Gloria helps him just as much as he helps her. Their romance develops slowly (nicely done by Kaufman) and you are never quite certain until the end if they will stay together (Kaufman has created such believable characters that readers may want a tissue nearby as they get towards the end of the book). This is not a conventional romance novel but it is one of the most moving, well written love stories that I've ever read.

"Oxford Messed Up" is the beautiful story of two troubled people falling in love and helping each other along the way. Well done.

Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book for free. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission's 16 CFR, Part 255: "Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising."
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5 of 5 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Fun, entertaining read. April 24, 2012
By Karim
Format:Paperback
At the recmomendation of a friend, "Oxford Messed Up" became an instant hit with me. Finishing it in just two seatings, I was amazed at the amount of detail in the novel. From the Van Morrison song lyrics to the sites in England, I happily followed the intertwined lives of Gloria and Henry. The author writes well in many regards, and her ability to personify the characters and allowing them to seem real to me was incredible.

This novel speaks to issues facing this generation today and how these afflictions, like OCD, affect the lives of seemingly normal people. While pointing out the flaws in both Henry and Gloria, the novel is a feel-good, yet intense, story of love. Love, although never explicitly defined in the book, is expressed in a unique, refreshing manner.

The novel is an easy read and worth your time. A perfect book to start off the upcoming summer season.
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4.0 out of 5 stars great read - love the characters
A friend recommended this book and I bought on the Kindle. Read first twenty pages and was bored - but gave it another try and then could not put it down. Read more
Published 2 months ago by Judy Rosen
5.0 out of 5 stars quick and thoughtful read
I finished Oxford Messed Up in just one weekend...it was amazing! As a Van Morrison fan I loved all the quotes and integration of lyrics. Read more
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5.0 out of 5 stars Thoughts from a Grad Student
As a graduate student who recently moved to Yale, the characters really resonated with me. The complexity of the characters and their interactions with their environments felt... Read more
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Great book. Would recommend to anyone as young as 15 and as old as 70. A relevant and powerful read for anyone
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4.0 out of 5 stars Great characters, enthralling read
What a fantastic read. From the characters, to the setting, to the complex relationships and poetry, this book enthralled me from start to finish. Read more
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This book speaks to readers of all ages, from young adult to baby boomers. As a 24-year old graduate student, I love that I am able to share this book with my family, both my... Read more
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5.0 out of 5 stars Great Book!
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