Parenting Today's Adolescent Helping Your Child Avoid The Traps Of The Pre-teen And Early Teen Years [Hardcover]

Dennis Rainey (Author), Barbara Rainey (Author), Bruce Nygren (Author)

Book Description

Publication Date: October 13, 1998

Normally confident moms and dads grow weak-kneed when their children enter--gasp!--puberty. Barbara and Dennis Rainey, parents of six teenage or older children, map out the unfamiliar, demanding landscape of both pre-adolescence (ages 10-12), as well as the teen years that follow. "Preadolescence is when convictions are shaped; adolescence is when convictions are tested," they advise parents. In Parenting Today's Adolescent the Raineys help children and parents build a satisfying relationship while forging a vision for a productive, God-honoring life-before, during, and after adolescence.

Product Details

• Hardcover: 320 pages
• Publisher: Thomas Nelson (October 13, 1998)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 0785270841
• ISBN-13: 978-0785270843
• Product Dimensions: 9.1 x 6.5 x 1.4 inches
• Shipping Weight: 1.5 pounds
• Average Customer Review: 4.6 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (17 customer reviews)
• Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #323,872 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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27 of 27 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Indispensible Resource, February 24, 2006

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L. Fakhoury (Stratford,CT) - See all my reviews
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This review is from: Parenting Today's Adolescent Helping Your Child Avoid The Traps Of The Preteen And Teen Years (Paperback)

If ANYONE ever felt the need for a parenting "How-To", this is it!! Not for the faint of heart though - as it pulls no punches and advocates a tell-all approach to upcoming obstacles and pitfalls in a teen's life vs. leaving up to chance or peer-information or just plain ignorance. Taboo topics such as masturbation are addressed with exact advice and timing suggested. The philosophy is "Don't leave anything to chance - inform your child BEFORE it happens while encouraging serious brainstorming and promoting action plans to head off destructive events that are ultimately inevitable." Another issue addressed is virginity and the distinction between being a virgin and actually being PURE. Empowerment is key - for the child as well as the parent - in the face of a permissive society which shapes our children's perceptions of values and morals. Of course, the foundation of this book is the ultimate Rule Book of all things in life - the HOLY BIBLE. But even non-Christians who want a guide on how to teach good morals and values to their teen who is trying to make sense of: 1)where they belong and 2)what they should do in this crazy world will find this book to be a true treasure. I have recommended to it countless parents and am thankful I didn't find it too late...

29 of 31 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Worth It's Weight In Gold!, September 15, 2003

By A Customer

This review is from: Parenting Today's Adolescent Helping Your Child Avoid The Traps Of The Preteen And Teen Years (Paperback)

This book is just excellent for helping parents who don't know what to do as their children are growing into the teen years. This couple has really been there and done that! And it's wonderful that it comes from a Christian perspective, not wordly psychological garbage. This book is INDISPENSABLE. I have highlighted something on just about every page in my book. I cannot recommend this book enough. Each page contains practical things to do and watch out for. I will be reading mine over and over for years. EXCELLENT!

18 of 18 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars There is hope!, May 3, 2000

By A Customer

This review is from: Parenting Today's Adolescent Helping Your Child Avoid The Traps Of The Pre-teen And Early Teen Years (Hardcover)

If you are a parent, you need this book. Instead of wondering what hit you when your child becomes a teenager, you can see the various ages charted out...like 10-12 (age of innocence) and 13-16 (the danger zone) with lots of advice for handling countless situations that we all have to eventually face. Don't go it alone...get this amazing book.