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The Parent's Handbook: Systematic Training for Effective Parenting (Step: Systematic Training for Effective Parenting)

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I taught this 7 week course a dozen years ago. I've not found anything on the subject of parenting that is more hands on in the years since. In a society of adults who are rapidly losing their ability to parent adequately, this is a must have for parents. You discover how to set reasonable boundaries, create a more cohesive and cooperative family unit. You are able to see your reactions in direct relation to your child's behavior and help both of you shift to a healthier expression.
In this system you look at the motivating behavior your child is showing. You are given clear, understandable directions for responding to your child. You learn the difference between allowing your child enough freedom to fall and learn to get back up and supporting your child to achieve what he or she wants or stay safe. I've read all of the STEP books, but this one is where I'd start. I was always amazed and humbled at the growth and change in entire family units after parents dedicated themselves to learning how to parent.

I recommend this book to any parent, whether just beginning the process or several years into the experience. I did not purchase it until my son was five, but I've learned a lot from it. Now, instead of panicking every time he challenges me, I remember what I've learned and go from there. Wish someone had recommended it to me earlier. I can see myself changing into a more positive parent, instead of a negative one. The book does take it step-by-step as the title indicates. Every page has so much information on it, I still refer back to it again and again.

A gold standard for basic parenting. I have recommended this book to my clients in my practice for over 15 years. Teaches time tested practical parenting skills for every parent....not just ones with difficult children. If readers can also take a class along with reading the book the usefulness of this "how to" parenting book is really enhanced.

If you're ever so unfortunate as to get on the wrong side of the Texas Family Court Services or Child Protective Services then this is the book for you. Literally.

This book, along with attending a class, is required to get a certificate that says you're capable of being a responsible parent.

I highly recommend this book. It is easy to read and informative. I used the information for a parent workshop I conducted and recommended this book to all the parents that attended.

The length and content are perfect. This is the real deal.

THIS BOOK IS AWESOME FOR ALL PARENTS! IT HAS RESPECTFUL WAYS TO GET CHILDREN TO LISTEN AS WELL AS GIVE THEM RESPECT. I HIGHLY RECOMMEND THIS BOOK.

Anita Biase
Book Review
The Parent's Handbook: Systematic Training for Effective Parenting

The Parent's Handbook: Systematic Training for Effective Parenting (Step)
By Don Dinkmeyer Sr., Gary D. McKay, & Don Dinkmeyer Jr.

The authors of "Systematic Training for Effective Parenting" admit that living with teenagers is at best a challenging, and often a daunting, experience. They maintain that it is necessary to appreciate, respect and love one another. The book emphasizes natural and logical consequences, encouragement, belonging, parent-child communication skills, understanding, and family meetings.

Love this book. I took a class based on STEP about 10 years ago for my niece who I spent a lot of time with. I lost my original copy and purchased a new one to help me with my own daughter who is now three years old. The techniques from this "system" are practical and relatively easy to implement. The examples provided help give parents better ideas in ways they can implement the techniques. A MUST for any parent with youn children.

This book is wonderful for the parent looking to improve their relationship with their children, communication skills, skills for raising children, and positive discipline techniques. I am a mom of two young daughters and also a preschool teacher and these techniques make since and work.