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The Parent's Toolshop: The Universal Blueprint for Building a Healthy Family [Paperback]

Jody Johnston Pawel LSW (Author)
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March 1, 2000
EVER WISH CHILDREN CAME WITH INSTRUCTIONS? NOW THEY DO!

This winner of "The National Parenting Center's Seal of Approval" is teeming with the best of the best--more than 100 highly practical parenting skills in an easy-to-use format.

THIS ONE-STOP RESOURCE SAVES YOU TIME, MONEY AND FRUSTRATION

No longer do you need to spend hours reading dozens of resources to find the skills and solutions you seek. This author has done the research for you! She spent over ten years researching hundreds of resources to put the best parenting advice at your fingertips. There are new ideas you've never heard and techniques that have worked for generations. Gone is the inaccurate, unhelpful, confusing and contradictory advice that detours your progress. Seven years of field testing by thousands of parents from all walks of life and family-service professionals resulted in statistically significant improvements in parenting skills. From toddlers to teens and beyond--these are solutions that work, every day, at home, at day care and in the classroom--and they will work for you, too!

PARENTAL LOVE MAY COME NATURALLY,
BUT EFFECTIVE PARENTING SKILLS ARE LEARNED.

"The Parent's Toolshop" is like a self-paced workshop, taught by a parenting expert, in the comfort of your own home. Step by step, you'll learn how to build a healthy family by using the special language and action toolsets of effective parenting: ~Learn what styles of parenting you have, what it reveals about your personality--and the problems you can avoid by adopting a "balanced" approach. ~Build self-esteem without ego-esteem or creating "praise junkies." ~Get your children to cooperate--the first time you ask--using simple positive requests. ~Teach your children how to be independent AND responsible. ~Open the lines of communication and teach children how to solve their OWN problems by learning "F-A-X Listening." ~Avoid lectures and children with rolling eyes or deaf ears by setting limits or expressing concerns in one sentence, one word or no words! ~Develop individualized anger and stress management plans for you AND each child. ~Learn what is age-appropriate behavior and how to keep it from turning into intentional misbehavior. ~Understand the purpose behind deliberate misbehavior and how to break the cycles of attention-seeking behavior, power struggles and revenge. ~Use discipline to teach children how to be self-disciplined-without being "the bad guy"! ~Hold productive family meetings that teach children valuable life skills while preventing and resolving everyday conflicts. ~Boost your confidence as a parent, without feeling you need to bend and sway to the pressures of well-meaning but unhelpful advice-givers.

NOWHERE ELSE WILL YOU LEARN THE UNIQUE "UNIVERSAL BLUEPRINT" PROBLEM-SOLVING SYSTEM.

You'll learn how to ask yourself three simple questions...to find your OWN ideal solution to ANY parenting challenge, including: sibling squabbles, allowances, morning delays, homework, picky eaters, power struggles, messy rooms, dating, temper tantrums, bullies, chores, driving, bedtime hassles, lying, sassy smart-mouthed kids, curfew, friendship fallouts, A.D.H.D. ...and more!

COMPREHENSIVE YET EASY TO READ, "THE PARENT'S TOOLSHOP" ENLIGHTENS, INFORMS AND ENTERTAINS

You'll feel like the author is sitting next to you on your couch, explaining even complicated concepts in simple terms. When you need to SEE an idea, look at the simple visual graphics that crystalize concepts in your mind. Hear real-life stories from the author and other parents' lives that will make you laugh, cry . . . and think. You'll learn exactly what to say and do as the author applies the skills to the most common challenges parents face. You'll even get a chance to practice what you've learned so you remember and use it to your full potential. Once you finish reading The Parent's Toolshop, you'll find yourself referring to it again and again for quick problem solving. If you have a specific challenge, refer to the cross-referenced index of over 1,000 entries to find the hints and suggestions you need for a speedy and effective solution. When a crisis hits, simply open the back cover, where you'll find key tools from the entire book summarized ON ONE PAGE.

ANY PARENT OR FAMILY-SERVICE PROFESSIONAL WILL BENEFIT FROM THE PRACTICAL SKILLS AND PROFOUND REVELATIONS IN THE PARENT'S TOOLSHOP.



Editorial Reviews

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"The Parent's Toolshop is my parenting Bible!" -- Cynthia White, mother of three children

"This book is dynamite! It is packed with tons of practical ideas." -- Dr. Dennis O'Grady, founder of New Insights Consulting Services and author of "Taking the Fear out of Changing"

An innovative way to choose helpful responses to almost any problem, including those in adult relationships! Most important, Pawel's advice is positive and trustworthy. I highly recommend it. -- Jane Nelsen, Ed.D., author of Positive Discipline

This book is dynamite! It is packed with tons of practical ideas. As a parent, I keep it by my bedside and also recommend it to the parents with whom I work. -- Dr. Dennis O'Grady, founder of New Insights Consulting Services and author of Taking the Fear out of Changing

Wow! This book is packed with wise and practical ideas for almost every parenting challenge you could imagine. And through it all runs Pawel's warm message of love and respect for parents and children alike. -- Martha Farrell Erickson, Ph.D. Director of the Children, Youth & Family Consortium University of Minnesota

From the Publisher

We, at Ambris Publishing, are proud of the superior quality of The Parent's Toolshop. This author has spent over fifteen years researching hundreds of parenting resources, talking with thousands of parents and family-service professionals, and field testing the teachings for almost ten years. It is rare to find authors so committed to excellence that they will make that kind of time investment.

Jody Johnston Pawel is a woman of integrity and a professional who truly excels in her field. Her rare background as the child of two parent educators, a parent educator for over twenty years, a mother, and a regular fixture in the media ideally suits Jody as a credible parenting expert. Most important, however, is Jody's commitment to parents and her a down-to-earth approach to giving advice. She is always looking for practical solutions parents can put into action immediately that will also reap positive benefits in the long-run.

We are excited about the potential The Parent's Toolshop has as a universal resource for parents - - one that is sure to last for generations. This book breaks the mold of traditional parenting books that only address one age, one topic or are just theoretical. This book truly is a one-stop resource that equals dozens of books combined. The field test results show statistically significant skill improvement from reading the book - - and follow-up studies show these results are long lasting. Pawel's "Universal Blueprint" problem-solving system is truly a ground-breaking technique that can revolutionize the field of parent education. The biggest surprise was how easily people successfully adapted this system to improve their adult relationships!

Ambris Publishing has big plans for The Parent's Toolshop; this book is just the first step. Parents are already asking for quick reference guides, audiotapes, videotapes, interactive CDs, follow up books, and special editions that apply the Universal Blueprint to non-parenting relationships, such as couples, teaching, and business.

Jody Johnston Pawel has made a heart-felt investment in the parents who will read The Parent's Toolshop. We are making a significant investment in this book and author because we see the potential for improving the lives of parents and children throughout the world and throughout the life cycle. We hope you make an investment in The Parent's Toolshop by purchasing the book, considering its profound revelations and using the practical solutions it teaches.


Product Details

  • Paperback: 456 pages
  • Publisher: Ambris Pub; 2 edition (March 1, 2000)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1929643349
  • ISBN-13: 978-1929643349
  • Product Dimensions: 11 x 8.6 x 1.2 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 2.8 pounds
  • Average Customer Review: 5.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (2 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,012,142 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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5 of 5 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars The Parent's Toolshop, the Universal Blueprint for Building, July 16, 2000
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Nancy Ordonia (Niceville, Florida USA) - See all my reviews
This review is from: The Parent's Toolshop: The Universal Blueprint for Building a Healthy Family (Paperback)
This book is a must for every parent to read and own! The information is not only valuable to use with children, but also in everyday adult relationships. I highly recommend reading this comprehensive and valuable resource, which is filled with practical ideas for every parenting challenge possible.
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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Confident parent now, September 9, 2008
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Maria Midkiff (Austin, TX United States) - See all my reviews
This review is from: The Parent's Toolshop: The Universal Blueprint for Building a Healthy Family (Paperback)
I purchased this book and went through Jody Pawel's self-paced class. It has worked wonders for my parenting skills. What you get is a framework to use to help you with children and adults - that is what I like about it. Same rules for everyone, not different ones according to age. The skills taught show respect for the individual as well as yourself.

As you are reading through the book, you'll find many "lightbulb" moments. The chapters take you through the steps needed to address whatever problem you have. This is a great tool to use to make you a calm and cool parent, instead of screaming all the time. The only problem with this book is that once you have the skills, you see other parents and can easily see their ineffectiveness. But it can be fun if you test yourself and say, "What would I do?" using Pawel's tools.

One other thing to know is that this is a working book. In other words, this book requires you to learn and practice a new skill. If you just read the book and don't practice the skills (and refer to it again in the future) you will not benefit from the book. You will get out of it what you put in. If you put in the effort, you will see a difference in your parenting.
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