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Party Crasher: A Gay Republican Challenges Politics as Usual [Hardcover]

Richard Tafel (Author)
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June 10, 1999

Gay Republicans?
Yes, gay Republicans -- not only do they exist, but they are proactive in both party and national politics, and as this book explains, they are intent on changing the status quo.

In Party Crasher: A Gay Republican Challenges Politics as Usual, Richard Tafel, head of the Log Cabin Republicans, issues a challenge to some of America's most sacred political institutions with an insightful analysis of the past, present, and future of gay politics in this country. Using personal anecdotes as well as the stories of other gay and lesbian Republicans, Rich Tafel succeeds in humanizing the struggle he and others have undertaken in their effort to have their party deal fairly with gays and gay issues, as well as their campaign to make gays aware of the benefits that can accrue from having political alliances with others besides traditional left-leaning Democrats.

At first glance, this gay Republican's story may seem a quixotic quest, but by book's end the reader is reminded of the power an individual can wield. In a political system in which apathy and cynicism reign, Tafel's maverick style is refreshing; in a culture filled with people in need of being liked, Tafel offers the alternative belief that being respected is more important than being liked. And through his stories it becomes clear that even his most ardent opponents on the left and on the right have to harbor a grudging respect for the integrity and depth of his beliefs.

The book is laid out in three sections: "Life," "Liberty," and "The Pursuit of Happiness." In the part entitled "Life," Tafel shows that gay political ideologies are a product of the rejection gays experience. The next section, "Liberty," shows how those ideologies play themselves out in the course of day-to-day American politics, and Tafel warns of the dangers gays face in being taken for granted by the Democratic Party while being written off by the Republicans. In the course of this discussion, he chronicles the process by which the Democratic Party became the overwhelming party of choice for gays, and he challenges the treatment of gays by the Democrats as a triumph of empathy over substance, while at the same time blasting the Republicans for pandering to the zealots of the far right.

In "The Pursuit of Happiness," Tafel argues that political strategies alone aren't enough to advance the cause of gay rights -- spiritual values and morals, he says, must be at the heart of the gay strategy. Here he challenges both those within the gay community who reject moral language and spirituality and those in organized religion -- particularly those in his own Christian faith -- who view sexuality simply as a matter of choice, and a choice to be condemned if it is not the straight and narrow.

By the book's conclusion, Rich Tafel has crashed any number of parties: the Republican establishment, the Democratic establishment, the gay establishment, and the religious establishment. What is unique in his criticism of his community, his church, and his political party is the underlying desire he has for all parties to live up to the "better angels."

More than a book about gay politics or Republican politics, Party Crasher is a reminder that a few committed people, basing their actions in integrity, can still make a difference in the jaded world that American politics has become. Certainly that is a message that Americans need to hear.


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As the executive director of the Log Cabin Republicans, a political action committee for gay conservatives, Richard Tafel is used to criticism and scorn. "I've been demonized and been called names by those on the right who have never taken the opportunity to get to know me," he says. "And I've been caricatured and demonized by those on the gay left who also would rather despise what they think I am than find out who I really am." Party Crasher reveals a fascinating individual, an ordained minister (mentored by Harvard Divinity's Peter Gomes) comfortable debating scripture with fundamentalists and a political activist unwilling to accept the common wisdom that gays and lesbians should give their allegiance to the Democratic party. While always friendly towards queer campaign contributions, Tafel notes, the Dems have failed to follow through on many of their promises. Far from allowing gays and lesbians to serve openly in the military, he reports, the Clinton administration has been responsible for expelling more homosexuals from the armed forces than any other in American history. And then there was Clinton's trumpeting to the religious right of his approval of the Defense of Marriage Act, which refused federal recognition for same-sex unions. Tafel rejects the identity politics that lead to such unproductive alliances, favoring instead an emphasis on individual rights and responsibility in which political commitment is based on a desire to personally do the right thing rather than be "accepted" or "loved." "If you want to be embraced," he warns, "get a boyfriend or a dog. But don't get involved in politics because you need a hug; you'll just get hurt."

Party Crasher is filled with anecdotes of Tafel's encounters with people at all sorts of points on the political spectrum, such as the time that the radical group Queer Nation invited him to a college campus to criticize homophobic activities by members of the college's Young Republican chapter, or his perspective on the controversy surrounding the 1996 Dole presidential campaign's rejection of a Log Cabin contribution. And there are several profiles of other gay Republicans (heavily skewed towards men, it's true, but as Tafel says, openly Republican lesbians are even more rare than their gay male counterparts). There's something in this book to upset just about everyone's preconceptions, but what comes through most is Richard Tafel's passion and commitment for social justice and genuine acceptance of everybody's differences. --Ron Hogan

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Tafel, executive director of the Log Cabin Republicans, gets ragged by gays for being Republican, by Republicans for being gay. But he comes from a long line of clergy (in fact, he is ordained), and the Christian virtues of forgiveness and patience have stood him in good stead as he has tirelessly explained that gay Republican is not an oxymoron. Politically, gays are usually sorted into assimilationist and liberationist camps, which differ on tactics but share seeking greater government clout for gay issues and allying with the Democrats. Tafel defines a third major faction, the libertarians, whose beliefs in individual rights and responsibilities, limited government, and free markets are better represented by the Republicans. Devotion to the Democrats, he argues, has led to being milked for cash and given lip or no service on such equal-access issues as gay marriage and military service. Further, he presents evidence that sympathetic lobbying of Republicans works for gays, which makes his advocacy of bipartisanship credible. Cogent enough to be the gay political book of the year. Ray Olson

Product Details

  • Hardcover: 256 pages
  • Publisher: Simon & Schuster; First Edition edition (June 10, 1999)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0684837641
  • ISBN-13: 978-0684837642
  • Product Dimensions: 9.3 x 6.1 x 1.1 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1.2 pounds
  • Average Customer Review: 4.5 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (25 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,715,959 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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12 of 12 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars A must read for all Republicans, August 4, 1999
This review is from: Party Crasher: A Gay Republican Challenges Politics as Usual (Hardcover)
I found the book fascinating and true. As a gay Republican I found myself identifying with and agreeing with Richard's experiences and opinions. I, of course, will be calling my local Log Cabin chapter. Perhaps the most important aspect of the book for gay readers are the comments about how we need to take the moral high ground. There is a lot of work to be done because as a community we are not particularly concerned with morals and standards. Hopefully, more role models like Mr. Tafel will step forward. As our community grows and as we feel better about ourselves, time-honored principles will become more acceptable for us.
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6 of 6 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Well-written, provocative defense of gay Republicanism., August 2, 1999
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This review is from: Party Crasher: A Gay Republican Challenges Politics as Usual (Hardcover)
Rich Tafel has done a marvelous job of explaining why "gay Republican" isn't an oxymoron (or shouldn't be). This is a fast-read (I read it in one sitting) and provocative book that effectively skewers both the gay Democratic left and the homophobic Republican right. This book is a must-read especially for fellow Republicans who would be well served by heeding Tafel's libertarian ideals which served the basis for the rise of the Republican party in the first place.
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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Provocative: A fresh look at the gay past and future., June 1, 1999
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This review is from: Party Crasher: A Gay Republican Challenges Politics as Usual (Hardcover)
Finally, we have a fresh look at the gay political movement -- past, present and future. Tafel traces developments over the past several decades and refreshingly reveals the conservative/libertarian roots of the struggle for gay civil rights. He convincingly illuminates and rejects the blatant Leftist revisionism that has played such a large role in many gay peoples' perceptions of their own history and the lessons to be drawn from it. Dispensing with this ideologically driven mythology, permits a fresh perspective on where to turn now; on how to affect positive change; and on which arguments, tactics and strategies have hope of success; and which decidely do not. This book will anger many in the gay political establishment from "center" to far Left. A more discerning eye will notice that Tafel consistently spreads as much praise as criticism for other activists and organizations. Yet this likely will be lost in the hysteria that inevitably results from a strong and principled challenge to the common wisdom. Put most simply, if read widely, this book truly has the potential to shake things up politically in the gay community in a much needed way. It also has great potential cross over appeal to non-gay readers. Here's hoping that it reaches the widest possible audience!
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