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July 1, 2002

Discusses the Buddhist meaning of true love and how to attain it in the modern world.

• Interweaves Tantric Buddhist teachings with modern concerns such as monogamy and contraception.

• Gives a holistic view of a healthy relationship, from physical pleasure to emotional connections and spiritual transformation.

• Discusses love in the broader Buddhist concepts of karma and reincarnation.

Beginning his book with the ringing question "what are you waiting for?" Robert Sachs goes on to interweave traditional Buddhist thought with the concerns of the modern couple. Using clear, playful language, Sachs describes the different aspects of healthy relationships within a Buddhist context. However, rather than just setting an ideal, he clarifies how Buddhist practices not only can be integrated into a modern lifestyle but also can be powerful tools for the many changes that occur in any loving relationship. 

Sachs also considers the role of each individual in a relationship, showing that a couple may develop or possess qualities of being an indivisible unit, but that where the real work lies is when two people are committed to grow and change with one another. He offers techniques for finding oneself both in and out of a relationship and ideas on how to deal with anger and other emotions that arise in the course of life, emotions that occur most intensely over the course of an intimate relationship. The Passionate Buddha acts as a guide for all of those "fumbling toward ecstasy" in today's confusing world of relationships.


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"The Passionate Buddha is a wonderful book on the proper handling of the magnetics of the heart--its irrepressible attraction as well as its unremitting opposition. It is about the great work that only the heart is great enough to handle. Robert has written an anniversary gift to last a lifetime or three."
(Stephen Levine, author of Embracing the Beloved and A Year to Live: How to Live This Year as if It Were Your Last )

"The Passionate Buddha is a must for anyone seeking to practice the profound path of intimate relationship, as it contains meditations and practical tools for joining deep awareness with passionate intensity."
(Tsultrim Allione, author of Women of Wisdom and founder of Tara Mandala Retreat Center )

"Robert Sachs is himself a passionate Buddha, as well as a longtime Buddhist practitioner, husband and father, healer and teacher. I find a lot here in this book that helps us to further sacred relationships by learning to open the spiritual heart, deal with anger and inner conflict, love and accept ourselves and others, and live a more enlightened life.

Wisdom and love are the essence of spirit and represent the innate qualities of awakened mind and heart; practices of meditation and self-inquiry such as those found here are the tools to unfold the marvelous natural resources within us. I heartily recommend The Passionate Buddha to all on the spiritual path." (Surya Das, author of Awakening the Buddha Within and founder of Dzogchen Foundation )

"An intelligent and moving book about the nature of love as seen through the filter of Buddhist ideals."
(Mike Richman, Magical Blend, Issue 84 )

"The book is a wonderful first step for those seeking to learn different dynamics from which to understand relationships."
(April Davis, Shy Librarian, Spring 2003
)

"This book had a profound effect on my thinking. May you fare as well."
(John Gilbert, TarotInstitute.com, 7/17/2003 )

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RELATIONSHIPS / SELF-HELP

The Passionate Buddha is a wonderful book on the proper handling of the magnetics of the heart--its irrepressible attraction as well as its unremitting opposition. It is about the great work that only the heart is great enough to handle.”
--Stephen Levine, author of Who Dies?: An Investigation of Conscious Living and Conscious Dying

The Passionate Buddha is a must for anyone seeking to practice the profound path of intimate relationship, as it contains meditations and practical tools for joining deep awareness with passionate intensity.”
--Tsultrim Allione, author of Women of Wisdom and founder of Tara Mandala Retreat Center

Beginning his book with the question “what are you waiting for?” Robert Sachs goes on to discuss the meaning of true love and how to attain it in the modern world. Interweaving traditional Buddhist thought with the concerns of the modern couple, Sachs uses clear and playful language to describe the different aspects of healthy relationships--from physical pleasure to emotional connections and spiritual transformation--all within a Buddhist context. However, rather than just setting an ideal, he considers the role of each individual in a relationship, showing that a couple may develop or possess qualities of being an indivisible unit, but that where the real work lies is when two people are committed to grow and change with one another. He shows how to deal with anger and other emotions that occur most intensely over the course of an intimate relationship. The Passionate Buddha acts as a powerful guide for all of those “fumbling toward ecstasy” in the challenging world of relationships.

ROBERT SACHS has spent the last twenty-five years studying with some of today’s most noted Tibetan spiritual leaders and Ayurvedic physicians. A Licensed Clinical Social Worker, he is also the author of Tibetan Ayurveda and Perfect Endings. He lives with his wife and children in San Luis Obispo, California.

Product Details

  • Paperback: 224 pages
  • Publisher: Inner Traditions; 1st edition (July 1, 2002)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0892819146
  • ISBN-13: 978-0892819140
  • Product Dimensions: 8.9 x 6 x 0.6 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 12 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 5.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (3 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,002,738 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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5.0 out of 5 stars Couples who meditate together . . ., February 19, 2003
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Relationship issues are nothing new, and as this book shows, ancient Buddhist teachings on intimacy and relationship offer plenty of guidance on contemporary matters of the heart. Drawing from "the eclectic blend" of his twenty-seven-year marriage and Tibetan Buddhist practice with teachers including Chogyam Trungpa Rinpoche, among others, Sachs offers readers insights into relationship issues like anger, finding the right partner, sex, abortion, contraception, and infidelity. We are living in a time when divorce rates are high, unprotected sex can result in disease or even death, single-parent families are the norm, cyber-sex is the dominant attraction along the information superhighway, and people medicate their feelings of loneliness and despair, he observes. "In these conditions, it seems imperative to offer a book that addresses how we can come to trust our loving nature, break the habits that alienate us from ourselves and others, and develop healthy, fulfilling, lasting relationships" (p. 4). In his book, Sachs successfully shows how intimate relationships are actually a type of spiritual practice that can teach us flexibility, loving detachment, mutual respect, compassion and enduring love.

G. Merritt

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5.0 out of 5 stars Relationships for Grown-Ups, January 31, 2009
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I read this book after the dissolution of a ten-year relationship. I realized that I had a part in the marriage's problems, and I was determined to do it better the next time around. The book was suggested to me by a therapist friend. I was skeptical at first, but the information it contained changed the way I experience and am present in relationship.

It is well-written in a down-to-earth style, full of very helpful information that, when APPLIED, makes a significant difference not only in a loving relationship, but in all relationships.

The author points out that our relationship difficulties aren't the other person's fault or inadequacies. Nor do we have problems because we're not worthy or unloveable. Additionally, we are not required to "take on" our partners' issues, but instead, we meet them with compassion and understanding. We generally operate from old wounds and beliefs that hamper our ability to be in the moment and trigger unconscious responses to some things our partner says or does. We lash out at our Beloved, instead of owning up to our own trauma. Sachs provides very usable suggestions to help the reader to be more present in the moment, and to allow peace and harmony to prevail in times of fear, anger, and anxiety.

The book also explains the importance of true intimacy in relationship. We cannot be whole, nor can we be the loving embrace in which our partners can be whole, unless we are willing to see and to be seen.

I recommend this book to anyone who wants to change the way he or she experiences and participates in relationship. Loving relationships don't just "happen" to us. We create them. The quality of our own self awareness and the willingness to give our partner a break make all the difference between a relationship that is harmonious, and one that doesn't serve anyone's highest and best purpose.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Buddhism made simple, September 12, 2005
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A good book for Western beginners who don't know much about Buddism and the teachings of the Buddha.
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