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Passive Aggressive Notes: Painfully Polite and Hilariously Hostile Writings Paperback – November 4, 2008
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Part voyeuristic entertainment, part group therapy, Passive Aggressive Notes offers a fascinating look at the all-too-familiar frustrations of embattled office drones, apartment dwellers, parents, and pet owners everywhere.
This curated collection combines dozens of outrageous, never-before-seen notes as well as favorites from Passiveaggressivenotes.com a 2008 Webby Award Winner and the official "Best Blog" of the South by Southwest Interactive festival.
A Note from the Author
It all began with a first date...and not a particularly good date, either. Apparently, things between this guy and his roommate had gotten so bad that they now communicated almost exclusively via Post-it note. Ah, yes, I said, I know those notes well--my current apartment (where I lived with three other roommates) had seen its share, most of them about the presence of unwashed dishes in the sink. They were usually signed with love; they were never addressed directly. I should start collecting them, I joked--put them on the Internet or something. Now that would be passive-aggressive.
Later that night--after it became clear that our relationship wasn't going to progress beyond standard small talk--I decided to do just that. And unlike my roommates' approach to dish-washing, the response to passiveaggressivenotes.com was enthusiastic, immediate, and overwhelming. Within weeks of the site's launch, thousands of notes poured in from shared bathrooms, kitchens, cubicles, and parking lots. (Wrote one reader: "Instead of a single note, can I submit an entire person? Like my mother?") This book represents the funniest and most outrageous of those submissions.
Despite the book's title, some of these notes are really more aggressive in tone, and some of them are more passive--polite, even. What they all share a common sense of frustration that's been channeled into written form rather than a direct confrontation. It's barbed criticism disguised as something else--helpful advice, friendly concern, light-hearted humor. But as Dr. Scott Wetzler, a clinical psychologist and author of Living with the Passive-Aggressive Man, observed: "A joke can be the most skillful passive-aggressive act there is."
A Look Inside Passive Aggressive Notes
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“From what I’ve seen this book is very, very funy and very charming. But you never know?” (Eugene Mirman, comedian)
“We dare you not to laugh out loud.” (Redbook Magazine)
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Top Customer Reviews
This is a great collection of notes ranging from the creative to the ridiculous that will have you laughing with each turn of the page(I personally love the flow-chart for office coffee mug cleaning and the pad-locked microwave). I would strongly recommend this for anyone with a sense of humor, or as a gift for anyone you think might have one!
I honestly was expecting this book to contain a bit more... substance. It was a quick read, there weren't too many notes that made me laugh or wince or feel anything at all. I would recommend it to you, but I'd suggest that you borrow it from a friend before buying it... if you even buy it at all.
Most Recent Customer Reviews
i had seen this book i think at a friends house. and thought it was pretty funny. so i went out and got it. i love it, each page has something new to laugh about. Read morePublished 3 months ago by AROSAN
Interesting, guess I don't particularly want to read someone else's anger.Published 4 months ago by V S
Too passive, not enough aggressive for me. If they deserve the remark, they are already too stupid to catch the subtle.Published 4 months ago by Jan
Terrible book that starts out saying the author was unable to find a good definition of the term passive aggressive. Read morePublished 5 months ago by Eileen McHenry
I was disappointed in this book. Wasn't all that funny, Some of them (A couple) were cute.Published 9 months ago by Dora Kelsey
This book is badly made! The glue holding the cover is no longer holding it together so when I opened it the cover came right off!Published 10 months ago by Melissa Knight-Fitzgerald