The Path to Purpose: How Young People Find Their Calling in Life (Paperback)

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"As a leading authority on meaning and moral development, Damon writes a timely and important book on one of our most pressing social issues -- how to instill a sense of purpose in the lives of children. Damon gives us a fresh and useful way to look at both education and character development." -- Dr. Mary Pipher, author of Reviving Ophelia and Writing to Change the Worlds --This text refers to the Kindle Edition edition.

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The Path to Purpose is a beautiful and important book. William Damon takes on one of the most hidden and yet important elements of child development today and provides warm insight and clear advice." -- Michael Gurian, author of The Wonder of Boys and The Wonder of Girls

"If you are a parent, a teacher, or a policy maker, this is the book to read. Damon socks the crucial problem of our youth -- purposelessness -- right in the jaw and offers us a way out." -- Martin Seligman, author of Authentic Happiness

"As a leading authority on meaning and moral development, Damon writes a timely and important book on one of our most pressing social issues -- how to instill a sense of purpose in the lives of children. Damon gives us a fresh and useful way to look at both education and character development." -- Dr. Mary Pipher, author of Reviving Ophelia and Writing to Change the Worlds

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Product Details

• Paperback: 240 pages
• Publisher: Free Press; Reprint edition (April 7, 2009)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 1416537244
• ISBN-13: 978-1416537243
• Product Dimensions: 8.2 x 5.4 x 0.7 inches
• Shipping Weight: 8 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
• Average Customer Review: 4.6 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (5 customer reviews)
• Amazon.com Sales Rank: #318,155 in Books (See Bestsellers in Books)

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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful:

4.0 out of 5 stars Practical and insightful but nothing out of the ordinary., May 3, 2009

By	Tu Anh (Las Vegas, NV) - See all my reviews

I happened to read an article by Professor Damon while I was doing a research paper for one of my classes. He introduced this book "The path to purpose" in the article and I was intrigued by this topic so I bought the book to check it out. When I was growing up, I was completely lost in the world, and without the help of parents or HS guidance counselor, I wish I was able to get a hold of this book. Not only it is insightful if you are a parent, but for many young people who want to find that something meaningful in life, to find a major for them to study in college, and to pursue a career that they love, I highly recommend reading this book.

In the book, he listed many examples to support his points. I find these examples very effective; perhaps they are the best part of the book for me. I honestly expected something very profound coming out of this book and I was a bit disappointed. This book would be great for inexperienced parents, but if you are already a rational person, you won't get much out of it.

1 of 1 people found the following review helpful:

4.0 out of 5 stars The Things We Don't Teach, July 23, 2009

By	Kevin Currie-Knight "Education Grad Student" (Newark, Delaware) - See all my reviews (TOP 500 REVIEWER)

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There are many things we teach in school. We teach students about the world at large, how to remember useful facts, how to think. But one thing we often miss is the importance of teaching kids to find and cultivate a purpose. Helping students to find their goal in life, their reason for doing the things they do, and their "end in itself" is just as important. The main thesis of this well-written and -argued book is that kids who have a purpose generally tend to do a whole lot better in a whole lot of areas than kids who are "drifters" or "dabblers," who may have short-term goals but lack a long-term unifying goal.

The Path to Purpose is based on some studies that Damon and his students have done about kids and purposes. What they found is alarming: "In our interviews and surveys, only about one in five young people in the 12-22-year age range express a clear vision of where they want to go,what they want to accomplish in life, and why." (kindle location 234) Some are "drifters" who don't have much direction to their lives, while most are "dabblers" who have toyed around with a few ideas as to what they want to do and why, but haven't found any clear direction yet.

The first part of the book focuses on the problem and why it matters. Why a purpose? Because cultivating a sense of purpose gives kids (and adults) a reason to try hard, a passion about which to learn, and a reason to endure both good and bad. Just like working a meaningful job versus a meaningless one, students tend to excel when they are working towards a goal and feel that goal to have meaning.

The second part will be the most interest to those already convinced that a problem exists. Here, Damon gives advice on how parents and teachers (with focus on parents) can help kids find purpose. Some answers are obvious: be there for your kids, listen when they talk, expose them to ideas, support them even when you may not agree with their chosen purpose (within reason, of course). Other answers are less obvious: tell your kids why you do what you do, expose them to outside influences, talk ideas through with them Socratically rather than solving problems for them, let them know the importance of persistence.

The one thing I will deduct a star for, however, is that Damon doesn't focus nearly as much as he should have on the data showing that having a purpose tends to lead to success in most areas (academic, social, etc.) He tells us this repeatedly and there is no reason to doubt him, but I was curious as to what the data show: how much more successful are those with purpose versus those without?

Also, I really wish Damon would have addressed a question many of us (especially teachers) have about how we can talk about purpose in a way value-neutral enough to be appropriate and not preachy. How can we guide kids towards purposeful lives without imposing certain values on them (when a child, say, chooses a purpose we may feel is maladaptive)? This would have been a helpful discussion to have and his book suffers for lack of it.

But all in all, this is a very important book to read for teachers and parents. As a teacher, I would like its message to inform my future teaching, and to take time whenever possible to allow kids to reflect on what their purpose is or what they'd like it to be.

8 of 12 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Great Resource!, May 28, 2008

By	BookBargainsandPreviews.com "www.bookbargains... (New York) - See all my reviews

This review is from: The Path to Purpose: Helping Our Children Find Their Calling in Life (Hardcover)

The message of The Path to Purpose is relevant in today's culture...and the book is a much needed resource for parents and youth workers. Author William Damon deals with the social issue of children growing into maturity and leaving the nest. Besides presenting the latest research, the author provides parents with tools to help their young adult children launch out onto their own. If you are a parent or if you work with youth in any capacity, you will want to read this book and share it with others.