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Paws and Reflect: Exploring the Bond Between Gay Men and Their Dogs [Hardcover]

Neil S. Plakcy (Author), Sharon Sakson (Author)
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November 1, 2006

"For most dog owners, our dogs are not possessions, they are family. Gay men in particular have found joy in bringing dogs into their nuclear circles. Their dogs love them unconditionally, without judgment or regard to sexual orientation; comfort them when they are in pain; and because most men outlive their dogs, teach them extraordinary lessons in how to cope with loss. . . Paws and Reflect is a celebration of all the dogs we have loved in the past, the dogs we love now, and the dogs of our future, who are only waiting for the right moment for us to invite them to join in our lives." -- From the Introduction

Through interviews and with original contributions, Paws and Reflect explores and celebrates the special and powerful bond between twenty-five gay men and their dogs. Interviewees included Pulitzer Prize-winning playwright Edward Albee, Cannes award-winning director Jonathon Caouette, Academy Award-nominated writer Ron Nyswaner, actor and playwright Charles Busch and Animal Planet's David Mizejewski, with contributions from authors Jay Quinn, Alistair McCartney and seventeen others.

Praise for Paws and Reflect:

"A guy I dated didn't like my Dachshund. One of them is gone, and it isn't the Dashed. As it happens there are two terrific Dashed essays in this book. Both made me cry and one of them has the best punch line I've come across in a long time. Dink in these real-life stories of dog love and devotion." -- Craig Lucas, Playwright, The Light in the Piazza, Filmmaker, The Dying Gaul.

"Dogs don't care about race, age, appearance, financial standing, employment, sexual orientation or any of those other things that people use -- too often -- to judge one another. Paws and Reflect is an eloquent, moving testament that this unconditional love has helped forma a great emotional and spiritual connection between dogs and their humans that just simply makes our lives healthier and more complete." -- David Frei, Co-host, "The Westminster Kennel Club Dog Show," USA Network.

"If you don't enjoy reading about the white Shepherd who protected Charles Busch, or the canine friends who kept the home fires burning for Ron Nyswaner, you are not a real dog lover. I was stunned by the emotions this book shook out of me."-- Sue Simmons, WNBC News Anchor

"Paws and Reflect is filled with surprises that sometimes made me weep and often made me laugh in delight. I adore this book. If you love dogs, don't miss it!" -- Susan Conant, author of Gaits of Heaven, and other novels in the Holly Winter series of Dog Lovers' Mysteries.



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From Publishers Weekly

For those whom society ostracizes, the companionship and unconditional love a dog provides can be of especially great comfort. So it is with gay men, who, according to the editors, "seem to have a gift for the special details of dog parenting," perhaps "because it's difficult for gay men to create a family that includes human children." Bringing together conversations with more than two dozen notable gay men, including playwrights Edward Albee and Charles Busch, film director Jonathan Caouette and writers Victor J. Banis, Ron Nyswaner and Jay Quinn, this anecdotal anthology shows how dogs have given gay men love, confidence and support. Fiction author Plakcy and dog breeder Sakson relate their interviews through first-person narratives, stringing together stories ranging from comic to tragic to sappy. The familiar joys and trials of sharing life with a dog are all here, including stories of comfort and "extraordinary lessons in how to cope with loss." The sincerity and warmth that comes through in each of these stories is infectious, and the inter-species relationships they describe provide unique perspective on the interview subjects as human beings.
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About the Author

Neil S. Plakcy is the author of the gay detective murder mystery series "Mahu" and has been a contributor to several Alyson anthologies. His fiction and nonfiction have appeared widely in the gay and lesbian press. He has taught various English and writing courses as an Adjunct Professor at Florida International University, Nova University and the University of Miami.

Product Details

  • Hardcover: 304 pages
  • Publisher: Alyson Books (November 1, 2006)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1555839576
  • ISBN-13: 978-1555839574
  • Product Dimensions: 9.1 x 6.3 x 1.1 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1.1 pounds
  • Average Customer Review: 4.8 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (16 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,390,221 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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10 of 10 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars If you're interested in people OR dogs, you'll love this, December 14, 2006
This review is from: Paws and Reflect: Exploring the Bond Between Gay Men and Their Dogs (Hardcover)
Although I'm a "dog" person, I don't like or read "doggy" fiction for the most part because, in general, I find that real life is almost always much more interesting than anything anybody could make up. So when a great entertaining book of NON-fiction dog-related stories comes out, it's cause for celebration.

The things that happen to people and the lives they live, both in the grand sweep and the little detail, are fascinating -- especially in the hands of a master storyteller and a top-notch reporter like Plakcy and Sakson. The fact that this book is also about dogs is just the icing on the cake for dog lovers.

Alternately funny and touching (in the sense of touching the emotions -- not in the sense of sad or weepy) each story is like opening a little present. Read this book and you won't think about people OR dogs in exactly the same way again!
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9 of 9 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Don't miss this one!!!, January 18, 2007
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I am a dog person, so maybe I'm biased, but this is a fantastic read. I didn't stop until I had read the whole book from the first page to the last. This book made me laugh, it made me cry, it made me miss my dogs that are long gone, and appreciate my current fur-people family even more. I was so moved that I bought more copies to give as gifts, and they were very well recieved. If you like dogs, or just enjoy reading about real people situations, you will enjoy it too!
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5.0 out of 5 stars Absolutely wonderful, January 11, 2007
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If you love dogs and appreciate the unique relationship they have with people (men or women) you will enjoy this book. It's warm, funny and lovingly written. I especially loved "Puppy Whipped," by Donald Hardy. Just wonderful!! I highly recommend this book.
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