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Pearl's Secret: A Black Man's Search for His White Family

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Neil Henry took this journey for himself and his family. That he chose to share it through 'Pearl's Secret' is a gift to us all. This work is an excellent addition to the body of literature about race relations in America. This book chronicles Henry's often exasperating research into the history of his white ancestors and their descendents. Through years of diligent, tedious searching, Henry managed to find his present-day white kin and visited with them in the hope of having his burning questions answered and sharing collective lore and memories. His writing style and candor in describing his curiosity, anger and dissapointments made for more engaging reading than I had anticiapted from a book which I had mistakenly believed was only about genealogy.
The conculsion that Henry's 20th century black family raised in Seattle was far better off than his distant white relations living in the south is a testament to the home enviornment in which he was raised by loving parents who truly understood the importance of instilling pride, self worth and confidence in their children--no matter the odds stacked against them.
Overall, I found the book to be uplifting and positive. I would recommend it highly.

I was shocked when Neil jumped up and angrily walked away from me saying that I was a racist. It was 1970 and Neil Henry and I were sitting with a group of friends in Franklin High School's library before the start of school. We often were together whether we were in math. class, playing chess, or basketball. Neil Henry is an old friend of mine who I haven't seen since high school, and reading his book brought back many memories. This one memory of him depicts the struggles that he must have felt about his own identity. "Pearl's Secret" tells an incredible and spiritually uplifting story of his victory to gain a hidden truth of his family that was his own identity. His life tells of a extremely capable young man who wanders through the world in search of something he isn't completely aware of himself. It is a story that many of us spend our lives dealing with in our own ways. Neil's strength and courage is his reward. That morning over thirty years ago when I felt I had hurt a good friend is now brought to light for me. I'm sorry Neil, and thank you.

I really enjoyed following Neil Henry on his search for "the other side" of his family tree. This book has a real suspenseful edge to it as well as profound, touching and painful aspects.There is so much here. History lesson,sociological study,detective story,love story ...it's all here, and very well done.

Hardly able to put down this book! I enjoyed the vivid imagery and the honesty used as the author brought the reader along on his journey to find clues about his ancestry. Throughout the book, he successfully blends the present, his personal past experiences, and the actual details of his search. I enjoyed learning about his more immediate family and their struggles/success although his viewpoints on race relations/prejudice got tiresome. Necessary of course, but a bit much...for example, his white wife firing off a letter to the paper about witnessing a game being played by kids & its perceived racial undertones...do we need to know this? We believe the author and his family are strong in their position against racism from the many, many examples given! Seems the author is constantly trying to prove his "blackness", maybe directly related to his being of mixed race. Also, I agree with the previous reviewer about the unnecessary spotlight given to a crude uncle at the end. I was then left wondering about the brothers, aunt Vivian and sister Sharon ( the two women never mentioned). Overall a great read for those interested in history, geneology and the ties of family ...black or white.

This is a splendid book on many levels for the historian, genealogist, or anyone who just likes a spellbinding story. For Mr. Henry tells a fascinating story of discovery. Mr. Henry
not only reveals the various paths he trod to find his other family--but reveals many insights into black/white relations and how they change, black/black relations within and outside black neighborhoods, and, in snippets, gives hints on how we all can get our act together to make this a better country for all Americans.
I was absolutely mesmerized by this book and highly recommend it.

Read this book if you want to read a true story about a seeker of truth and strange family ties. The author Neil Henry clearly utlized his journalistic skills effectively to trace his family tree. What was shocking was the fact that the story is about a black man investigating his white roots. The author clearly did an excellent job explaining the struggles and joys that he faced as a researcher/ seeker of truth. I particularly like the scene in which he requests a magnifying glass, from Rita his long lost white cousin, to varify where the photograph of his great grand mother was taken. Also, I was particularly moved by the author's emotional identification with Rita inspite of their different ethnic background and life expeeriences. However, the book could have been more successfully concluded without the author's lengthy glorification of his uncle, of whom very little was previously heard.

Fascinating story. The author, who is black, allows us with full sincerity into his heart and soul. Being middle-class white myself, I believe I know how other middle-class white people think because of our shared experiences. But blacks have lived other experiences. This book gave me a peek into the middle-class black world. For that I thank the author.
Reading how the author spent frustrating hours researching and searching for his genealogical past in different towns and states, and in archival and governmental departments was tickling. He showed me step by step how he got ever closer and closer to his goal of finding this lost branch of the family. Throwing in as a monkey wrench the fact that the branch he spotlighted was white whose patriarch disowned his child (the author's ancestor) during the slave days because she was ½-black made for a very interesting read. I recommend this book for all, esp. whites.
It's written in a simple open style except when he goes off on his black-politics tangents. But even that helped illuminate his inner workings. I have black acquaintances who hold the same hypersensitive political beliefs. But nevertheless I found that these tangents took away from the unity of the book. It could be argued that there are two books here under one cover: one is a fascinating story on finding a lost branch of the family, a black man finding his white kin; and the other is on impersonal racial politics. I skipped thru the politics. But it's OK, the first half was well worth the price. Also, I found that at times the author spent too much time on some of his immediate family who really had little to do with the book. Perhaps if he had delved more into his own experience as a black man in a white world rather then relating his parents' experiences in the Jim Crow era. But thankfully the story always got back to the struggle within the black author himself , of his anger, and of his conflicting black and (largely unknown) white heritage.
When the author finally made first contact with his contemporary (white) distant cousins, who were indeed vaguely aware of a black half-aunt from a few generations back, and after so many intervening generations of lost contact, and after so many steps of unending research, well, it was very moving. It was very deeply moving. Even a Klansman or a Black Panther would've been moved by this story of reunion of black and white in the same family. I couldn't put the book down,. What an adventure in closing the circle that spanned over a century. I hope the story didn't just end where the book did.

I greatly enjoyed reading this book. It held my interest from beginning to end. I recommend this book for anyone who has ever searched his or her own roots even if there are no secrets. "Pearl's Secret" almost made me wish I had a secret in my own family!

This was not only an interesting story, but it was eye opening for me having grown up in a small rurual town in the mid-west, I had no idea that blacks suffered such blatant racism in the 50s and 60s.

I enjoyed this book very much. Mr. Henry had a Pearl, my Mother was named Pearl. Mr. Henry had a Rita, my sister was named Rita. My Granddaughter has ancestors that were slaves and she also has ancestors that owned slaves. I am gathering "her" history for her. Junie