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Beth (Elizabeth) Taylor (Author)
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April 29, 2009
On November 16, 1965, Beth Taylor s idyllic childhood was shattered at age twelve by the suicide of her older brother Geoff. This memoir reflects on the meaning of death and loss for three generations of Taylor s family and their friends. Touching on the timely issues of bullying, child rearing, and non-conformity, she offers a rare look at growing up Quaker in the tumultuous 1960s that shows the more sober side of the decades counterculture.

Beth Taylor's memoir is one of the most tender and moving books I've read in a long time. Written with poise and grace, never falling into self-pity, The Plain Language of Love and Loss will surely touch the heart of anyone who has found the means to salvage a kind of meaning out of great tragedy. This is a book I will not forget.--Tim O'Brien, author of The Things They Carried and In the Lake of the Woods



The Plain Language of Love and Loss blesses us all with its wisdom and grace. It is a luminous, powerful, and unforgettable book that is ultimately a triumph of the human spirit and a sister's love.--Laura Palmer, author of Shrapnel in the Heart and coauthor of the New York Times bestseller Escape



This tender narrative is, on the surface, about Quakers and Quakerism in modern America. It is about one family s struggle to align its spiritual strivings with the realities of human limitations and the uncontrollability of circumstance. And it is about some of the ways that the Vietnam War era indelibly marked America. But it is also about much, much more, and anyone who has raised (or is raising) children will empathize here with the poignant collage of tragedy, vulnerability, humdrum, and triumph, as well as the bittersweet canvas of both community and isolation upon which the hues of all our lives are painted.-- Emma Jones Lapsansky-Werner, Professor of History and Curator of the Quaker Collection at Haverford College and coeditor of Quaker Aesthetics: Reflections on a Quaker Ethic in American Design and Consumption, 1720 1920


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"Beth Taylor's memoir is one of the most tender and moving books I've read in a long time.  Written with poise and grace, never falling into self-pity, The Plain Language of Love and Loss will surely touch the heart of anyone who has found the means to salvage a kind of meaning out of great tragedy. This is a book I will not forget."—Tim O'Brien, author of The Things They Carried and In the Lake of the Woods



"The Plain Language of Love and Loss blesses us all with its wisdom and grace. It is a luminous, powerful, and unforgettable book that is ultimately a triumph of the human spirit and a sister's love."—Laura Palmer, author of Shrapnel in the Heart and coauthor of the New York Times bestseller Escape



 “This tender narrative is, on the surface, about Quakers and Quakerism in modern America. It is about one family’s struggle to align its spiritual strivings with the realities of human limitations and the uncontrollability of circumstance. And it is about some of the ways that the Vietnam War era indelibly marked America. But it is also about much, much more, and anyone who has raised (or is raising) children will empathize here with the poignant collage of tragedy, vulnerability, humdrum, and triumph, as well as the bittersweet canvas of both community and isolation upon which the hues of all our lives are painted.”—Emma Jones Lapsansky-Werner, Professor of History and Curator of the Quaker Collection at Haverford College and coeditor of Quaker Aesthetics: Reflections on a Quaker Ethic in American Design and Consumption, 1720–1920

About the Author

Beth Taylor is a Senior Lecturer in the English Department s Nonfiction Writing Program at Brown University in Providence, Rhode Island.

Product Details

  • Paperback: 160 pages
  • Publisher: University of Missouri Press; 1 edition (April 29, 2009)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0826218458
  • ISBN-13: 978-0826218452
  • Product Dimensions: 8.9 x 6 x 0.5 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 8.8 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.7 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (3 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,175,410 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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5.0 out of 5 stars A touching and beautifully-told narrative, April 26, 2009
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This is a very moving story of what it was like to grow up in a Quaker family during and after the Viet Nam War. She deals forthrightly with the inevitable conflict that comes through our need to fit in with our peers while maintaining the values inculcated by our family.

She also deals with the inevitable shading or blurring of recollection that we face when we try to find out what really happened decades ago, why, and what it meant. The portraits she draws of her family members are sharp and clear.
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars excellent memoir, August 17, 2009
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I bought this book mostly because I went to George School , a quaker boarding school . I didn't expect to like the book as much as I did. I've read over 100 memoirs and this is one of the best I've ever read. It is very well written. I read it in two sittings. It is an honest account of a tragic death of a loved one and how a family copes with the loss.
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars Spiritual Autobiography, May 10, 2009
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This book starts out slowly but gathers steam and power as Beth Taylor, the inquiring journalist and self-journalist, proceeds to interrogate the tragedy of suicide. Her brother Geoff hanged himself at age 14; this book documents the mantle of mystery that always hangs over self-destruction and the legacy of depression it engenders. The last chapter is in the tradition of a Quaker spiritual autobiography, as Beth explains why we need a concept of Sin and a Christ-centered church in order to achieve forgiveness - every week.

The narrator is fearless in confronting even her powerful father and diagnosing her parents' marriage and revealing undefined stresses in her own marriage -- all to demonstrate the courage one needs to live fully and be true to one's self. This three-hankie book is much more than the usual tale of sad loss.
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