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The Pleasure Was Mine [Hardcover]

Tommy Hays (Author)
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February 10, 2005
Prate Marshbanks proposed to his future wife on a muggy July night at Pete's Drive-in back in '52. "She said yes to me between bites of a slaw burger all-the-way." A college graduate and daughter of a prominent lawyer, Irene was an unlikely match for Prate, a high school dropout. He lived his married life aware of the question on people's minds: How in the world did a tall, thin, fair-skinned beauty and one of the most respected high school English teachers in all of Greenville County, in all of South Carolina for that matter, wind up married to a short, dark, fat-faced, jug-eared house painter? That their marriage not only survived for fifty years, but flourished, is a source of constant wonder to Prate. Now he faces a new challenge with Irene.

From the author of In The Family Way, a novel the Atlanta Constitution called "an instant classic" and the Charlotte Observer praised as "a lovely, moving book," comes a powerful story of hard-earned hope. The Pleasure Was Mine takes place during a critical summer in the life of Prate Marshbanks, when he retires to care for his wife, who is gradually slipping away. To complicate things, Prate's son, Newell, a recently widowed single father, asks Prate to keep nine-year-old Jackson for the summer. Though Prate is irritated by the presence of his moody grandson, during the summer Jackson helps tend his grandmother, and grandfather and grandson form a bond. As Irene's memory fades, Prate, a hardworking man who has kept to himself most of his life, has little choice but to get to know his family.

With elegance and skillful economy of language, Tommy Hays renders an unforgettable character in Prate Marshbanks. The Pleasure Was Mine is at once a quietly wrenching portrayal of grief, a magical and romantic story about the power of love, and an unexpectedly moving take on the resilience of family.


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Starred Review. "My wife has gone. I can't say that I blame her. ... She had probably had enough of my temper, my dark moods, my foul mouth, my all-around disagreeable self. ... She had probably had enough of what most everybody wondered and some, over the years, were rude enough to ask: How in the world did a tall, thin, fair-skinned beauty and one of the most respected high school English teachers ... in all of South Carolina ... wind up married to a short, dark, fat-faced, jug-eared house painter?" That pithy summary sounds like the prelude to a typical novel about divorce and infidelity, but for Hays it serves as a setup for the transformation of a family in which an older man cares for his wife during her descent into Alzheimer's. The transformation begins when Prate Marshbanks, the remarkable, curmudgeonly protagonist, gets a visitor for the summer: his nine-year-old grandson, Jackson, whose mother died in a car accident several years before. But, despite Jackson's grieving presence, Marshbanks remains preoccupied with his own battle to ensure compassionate care for his wife, whom he has had to place in a nursing home. Hays's elegiac, penetrating description of Prate's marriage frames the landscape of this brilliant novel about love, loss, marriage and family. He offers a grim but hopeful treatment of a difficult subject, and his elegant writing and sharp, tender portraits of the Marshbanks make a potent combination.
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"...Hays beautifully captures a husband's grief as he watches his beloved wife slip into Alzheimer's. ...Colloquial in tone, braced by its narrator's stoic, plainspoken candor, Hays's latest outing feels timely and true. ...An intimate, loving portrait of a dreaded disease's devastating effects."
- Kirkus Reviews (starred review)

Product Details

  • Hardcover: 272 pages
  • Publisher: St. Martin's Press; First Edition edition (February 10, 2005)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0312339321
  • ISBN-13: 978-0312339326
  • Product Dimensions: 8.2 x 5.5 x 1 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 14.4 ounces
  • Average Customer Review: 5.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (25 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #304,193 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

 

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5.0 out of 5 stars The power of memory, March 9, 2005
This review is from: The Pleasure Was Mine (Hardcover)
Because my mother has suffered from Alzheimer's for the past ten years, I usually avoid anything related to the disease (fact or fiction) like the plague, but because I'm familiar with Tommy Hays's sweetly haunting writing from his first two novels, Sam's Crossing and In the Family Way, I knew it would be worth the pain.
In his new novel, The Pleasure Was Mine, Mr. Hays is able to reveal the heartbreaking and often inhuman realities of Alzheimer's, while at the same time exposing the kernel of youth and love at the heart of those we often see as aged and that many in our new culture of eternal youth, have written off.
This book tells a story, like a small well painted picture, of Irene's, but more importantly Prate, her husband's, frightening descent into the world of Alzheimer's. It exposes the often-heartless reality of long term care and the system and culture that surround it, but really it is about much more.
The story speaks clearly and hopefully to a generation of Baby Boomers faced with their own ageing parents, impending mortality, and genetic weaknesses. It has a lot to teach about growing old with grace. It puts forward the idea that love only seems to be real to us, when we are in the memory of someone we love. It reminds us to be aware and place a great value on that love while we are able.
Mr. Hays explores the experience of loneliness that can a occur at any age through the characters of Jackson and Newell, the grieving young son and father, and Prate, the grandfather, father, and husband of the afflicted Irene Generational lines become blurred when traits as diverse as, curmudgeonly temper, large ears, and artistic ability appear in new but familiar forms in each of these three men. And Jackson, the young boy, has a slightly unearthly, intuitive, and vulnerable quality that propels the story and endears him to the reader.
Tommy Hays grounds this story in the very made-real rural and urban Upstate of South Carolina and mountainous Western North Carolina. And he writes it all in a smooth and effortless flow of upright language, not unlike partnering someone in a dance, which also has its place in this story.
As I read I often heard the voices of my own father and mother speak the words that were printed on the page, and as I laughed out loud at the sweet and funny moments this family passes through, the voice I heard sounded exactly like my mother's.
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7 of 7 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars the pleasure was mine, too, May 9, 2005
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David G. Sutliff (Park City, UT United States) - See all my reviews
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this is an absolutely fine book, a wonderful read, and so uplifting. i don't know why more authors and publishers don't wirte and print books like this. it is so nice to read a story about ordinary folks and how real character carries them through the twists in their lives. you feel that you are right there with the folks, and you learn a few things about life.

it is a supurbly written story and so nicely crafted so that you can drift along with this family easily. also, he has touched on many difficult issues and poingnant themes without pulling too hard on the heart strings with mushy wording. a real trick, that.

a truly enjoyable read. get a copy for yourself, and send one to a good friend. dgs
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8 of 9 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars A Wonderful Story of Undying Love, June 22, 2006
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Timothy Kearney (Haverhill, MA United States) - See all my reviews
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This review is from: The Pleasure Was Mine (Paperback)
We all probably know a Prate Marshbanks. He's a good person who thinks he's as tough as can be, but in reality he's a softie. Family comes first, not afraid of a day's work, intelligent but his greatest asset is common sense. We all know the type, and if by chance you don't, Tommy Hays creates this exact character in his book THE PLEASURE WAS MINE.

THE PLEASURE WAS MINE tells the story of Prate, who in his senior years has to take care of his wife Irene. Irene was once the most beautiful girl in the town, a lawyer's daughter, and English teacher, someone who in Prate's estimation was too good for him. Yet the two have a wonderful marriage, raise a son together, and at least as far as Prate is concerned, the two never fall out of love. This love and dedication is being tested now that Irene has Alzheimer's. Prate spends most of his days caring for Irene, but his routine is disrupted when his son Newell calls and asks him to baby-sit for Jackson, Newell's son. Prate reluctantly agrees believing his widowed son may need some time away but he wonders how he's entertain a sullen, bookish, and somewhat quirky young boy like Jackson. The two bond, and this bonding creates a new family dynamic.

The beauty of this book is due to Tommy Hays' carefully structured writing. This book could easily go in at least five different directions, but Hays is careful to present the story through Prate's eyes and by doing so, we become immersed in this man's story and grow to feel for him and the other characters in the story. Readers may think that a husband caring for an ailing wife with Alzheimer's is similar to the story of THE NOTEBOOK, Hays avoids sentimentality. Prate always has a bit of an edge which keeps him real and anyone who either has cared for someone with Alzheimer's, or knows someone who has, will appreciate the accuracy of the story and Prate's emotions.

I know I'm not the only reader who fell in love with this book, and it's my guess that others will too. Enjoy!
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