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5.0 out of 5 stars
An intelligent and thought-provoking work, March 19, 2005
Michael Mellow, age thirteen, discovers a book called PLEASURING (complete with realistic illustrations), which features his parents graphically enjoying their sexuality. He immediately shares his discovery with his siblings --- Claudia, Dashiell and Holly, ages six to fifteen.
PLEASURING becomes a national sensation, with Roz and Paul Mellow appearing on television, on the covers of magazines, and on lecture tours. The book makes the Mellows wealthy, but it also changes the family forever.
Michael reflects, "No one ever thought about how it felt to be Paul and Roz Mellow's children ... how it felt to have your parents display their bodies, their preferences, their most private selves."
Thirty years later, the parents (who divorced two years after PLEASURING was released) argue over whether or not to reissue the book. Roz recruits Michael to persuade his father to allow the anniversary edition, so Michael travels to Florida to talk to Paul. The trip becomes a prolonged respite from Michael's own life, which has focused lately on the sexually detrimental side effects of his antidepressant.
Meanwhile, the grown Dashiell finds an ominous lump in his neck. His illness gives him time to reflect yet again on the fact that his parents' book spoke slightingly of homosexuality --- a fact that continues to wound him in spite of his satisfying life with his partner, Tom, and his work with a senatorial campaign staff.
Holly, the Mellows' oldest child, has long left the family, first for a life of transience and drugs and later for marriage and motherhood. When she married, her primary emotion was relief at no longer bearing the name Mellow or having to hear, "You're not related to the sex book Mellows?"
Their little sister, Claudia, has lived permanently with self-hatred, based mostly on her short thick body. Thirty years after first seeing her parents' sensational book, she is just embarking on her first real relationship.
Paul, the father, is on his third marriage yet still considers Roz to be his true wife. Nearly thirty years after their divorce, he continues to obsess on the ending of their marriage. His motive for refusing to agree to a re-release of PLEASURING is spite for Roz's decision to leave him.
Roz, now a professor teaching human sexuality to college students, remains attractive at 67. However, she continues to long for the acclaim she experienced when PLEASURING was first published.
Meg Wolitzer is a master storyteller. In her hands, the lives of these six people are realistically interwoven and absolutely fascinating. A subtle mystery --- how exactly did the Mellow marriage end? --- threads through the plot. The answer manages to be truly surprising despite abundant clues. I highly recommend this intelligent and thought-provoking work, which offers readers subtle resolution and hope.
--- Reviewed by Terry Miller Shannon
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6 of 6 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars
Family difficulties and resolution, February 2, 2006
The "position" refers to a unique sexual position, among many others, discovered by Paul and Roz Mellow and incorporated into their how-to sexual book published in the mid-1970s. One might imagine that the author intends to comment on the opening of American society to taboo subjects, but not so. Her focus is on the impacts and fragility of families. She follows all six members of the Mellow family beginning at the time of publication, and then leapfrogs forward by some 25 yrs with pertinent details of the intervening years being injected at propitious times. The premise seems to be that the discovery of their parent's book by the children, Holly, Michael, Dashiell, and Claudia, was a life transforming event. But that possibility really does not resonate compared to the impact that the divorce of Roz and Paul had on the Mellow children, sending them careening in all directions, with resolution taking years.
The book is concerned mostly with adjustments to life and self-discovery. In following each of the family members, the author offers often incisive commentary on coping with family, self-doubts, expectations, sexuality, modernity, etc. The new difficulties introduced into their lives that must be dealt with are the pending reissue of the how-to sex book and the discovery of Hodgkin's disease in Dashiell.
As has been noted by others, the book is not a taut examination of a situation or a life. It is mostly shifting commentary on members of a family, as they have gone their separate ways, who are somewhat forced, either through circumstances or guilt, to maintain some connection. The author does not leave most of the characters adrift; she suggests that the resolution of difficulties is possible for those open to possibilities. An interesting read.
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5 of 5 people found the following review helpful:
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Wolitzer's best work to date, March 13, 2006
Meg Wolitzer's novel, "The Position" includes a plot so richly layered and interesting, on can doubt that it consists of this novelist's best work to date. "The Position" revolves around the family of the Mellows, suburbanites who, in the middle of the 70's, write a sex manual where they serve as the models for the paintings. While the manual takes off, making the family wealthy and the parents famous, at home things change. One evening the Mellows four children, ages 7-15 find and read the manual. This moment turns into the seminal moment of their lives, the one which changes everything.
After this initial event, the novel picks up in the present day, examining how the aftershocks of that day continue to reverberate in the each family member's life. Deftly using rotating perspective, Wolitzer shows us the family from each member's perspective. She also takes the opportunity to cover a great many modern subjects, from internet startups, to Viagra, to the war of Iraq, dealing with each in an interesting and engaging manner.
To her credit, Wolitzer's characters never turn trite, and while the occasional clichés creep in here and there, this draw back does very little to lessen the novel's engaging flow. To a certain degree the author returns to the subject of her previous novel "The Wife," particularly as it relates to a wife who is misunderstood and whose depth is underappreciated by her spouse. This novel, however, benefits from deeper characters and also for Wolitzer's use of humor, something that previous work lacked. Indeed, more than a few scenes here provoke a hearty chuckle.
Over all, readers will enjoy this work and be converted to Wolitzer fan's in the process. I have little doubt that, come the summer reading season, a paperback addition will find a welcome place in many a beach bag.
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