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Positive Discipline in the Classroom: Developing Mutual Respect, Cooperation, and Responsibility in Your Classroom (Positive Discipline Library) 4th ed. Edition

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About the Author

JANE NELSEN, Ed.D., is a licensed family and child therapist and an internationally known speaker LYNN LOTT, M.A., M.F.T., is a therapist and author of more than 18 books and manuals including four in the Positive Discipline series. H. STEPHEN GLENN, Ph.D. was the coauthor of the bestselling classic Raising Self-Reliant Children in a Self-Indulgent World.

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Chapter 1

Positive Discipline:  An Encouragement Model

A child needs encouragement like a plant needs water.  It is essential to healthy growth and development.

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Many people think of academic study as the purpose of school and that discipline programs should support academic excellence. Therefore, adults administer common disciplinary approaches based on rewards and punishment in an effort to control students. However, research demonstrates that unless children are taught social and emotional skills, they have a tough time learning, and discipline problems increase.

Positive Discipline is a different approach. Picture a train trying to reach its destination on one track. It can’t be done. The train needs two tracks, and so do our schools. The first track is academics, and the second track is social and emotional development. Positive Discipline consists of methods that involve students in focusing on solutions instead of being the recipients of punishments and rewards. Schools that have used this integrated system (both tracks side by side) report that behavior challenges decrease and academic excellence increases. The following photo, used with permission from the Visalia, California, School District, illustrates what they refer to as “A Climate for Learning.”

Years ago one of the authors was struggling to learn how to use a ­computer—­she wondered if it was worth all the effort. Then she heard someone say, “It’s too late to decide whether there should be an electronic train. The choice now is when to jump on the train.” His words have echoed in her mind as one new electronic development has followed another. Her world is filled with electronics that make her life easier and more interesting. She’s glad she jumped on the train. Now that you’ve been introduced to the two tracks of Positive Discipline, we hope you’ll want to jump on that train.

Before you shake your head and say, “No way! I can’t handle one more thing in my already busy classroom,” we hope you’ll consider this: Positive Discipline will make your life easier. ­Really! If you’re a kind and firm teacher who focuses on academics along with teaching social and emotional skills, you’re already on board. If you’re wondering if a Positive Discipline classroom is the direction you’d like to go, here are some questions for you to consider.

1.Do you want your students to be good decision makers?

2.Do you want your students to learn resilience?

3.Do you want your students to learn responsibility ­(response-­ability)?

4.Do you want your students to learn cooperation?

5.Do you want your students to learn listening skills?

6.Do you want your students to learn to use ­self-­control?

7.Do you want your students to learn to be comfortable with accountability?

8.Do you want to provide a forum where others can say how they were affected by hurtful behavior?

9.Do you want to help students learn how to make amends for the mistakes that hurt others?

10.Do you want a classroom where students are learning the qualities and strengths for good character?

11.Do you want a classroom where academic excellence can happen because students are encouraged to love learning?

Positive Discipline–trained teachers create classrooms where young people are treated with respect, have the courage and excitement to love learning, and have the opportunity to learn the skills they need for a successful life. The Positive Discipline vision is about schools  where children never experience humiliation when they fail but in- stead feel empowered by the opportunity to learn from their mistakes in a safe environment. Many of the social and emotional skills students learn are represented in the Significant Seven Perceptions and Skills.

Three Empowering Beliefs That Help Children Succeed  in School and in Life

1.I am capable.

2.I contribute in meaningful ways, and I am genuinely  needed.

3.I use my personal power to make choices that positively influence what happens to me and my community.

Four Empowering Skills That Help Children Succeed  in School and in Life

1.I have discipline and ­self-­control.

2.I can work respectfully with others.

3.I understand how my behavior affects others.

4.I can develop wisdom and judgment skills through daily practice.

Here is a description of how Positive Discipline methods teach the Significant Seven.

I Am Capable

To develop a belief in their own personal capability, young people need a safe climate in which they can explore the consequences of their choices  and behavior without judgments about success or ­failure— ­without blame, shame, or pain. Positive Discipline methods provide a safe climate in which students can examine their behavior, discover how it affects others, and engage in effective problem solving to create change.

I Contribute in Meaningful Ways,  and I Am Genuinely Needed

To develop the belief in their significance in primary relationships, young people need the experience of having others listen to their feelings, thoughts, and ideas and take them seriously. They need to know “I am important, and I count.” In a Positive Discipline classroom, everyone has the opportunity to voice opinions and make suggestions in an orderly, respectful process. Students learn that they can contribute significantly to the ­problem-­solving process and can successfully follow through on chosen suggestions. They experience the primary goal of all ­people—­a sense of belonging and significance.

I Use My Personal Power to Make Choices That Positively Influence What Happens to Me and My Community

Many teachers fail to understand that students have personal power and will use it in one way or another. If they are not given opportunities to use it in productive ways, they will probably use it in destructive ways. Young people, to develop a healthy use of power in their lives, need the opportunity to contribute in useful ways, in an environment that encourages them but also holds them accountable. They need to learn to understand and accept their power to create a positive environment. A Positive Discipline classroom is a place where students can experience that it is okay to make mistakes and to learn from those mistakes. In Class Meetings, they learn to take responsibility for their mistakes (accountability), because instead of being punished, they receive assistance in exploring ways to learn from their mistakes. They also learn that even when they can’t control what happens, they can control their response to what happens.

I Have ­Self-­Discipline  and ­Self-­Control

A Positive Discipline classroom is an excellent place where students can name and claim their feelings and develop empathy and compassion. Young people seem to be more willing to listen when they are listened to. They gain understanding of their emotions and behaviors by hearing feedback from their classmates. In a nonthreatening climate, young people are willing to be accountable for their actions. They learn what a feeling is and how to separate their feelings from their actions. They learn that what they feel (anger, for instance) is separate from what they do (hit someone), and that although feelings are always acceptable, some actions are not. Through the ­problem-­solving process, they learn proactive rather than reactive ways to express or deal with their thoughts or feelings. They develop ­self-­discipline and ­self-­control by thinking through the consequences of their choices and by accepting suggestions for solutions from other students. The notion of inviting students to explore the consequences of their choices is quite different from imposing a consequence on them, which is usually a poorly disguised punishment. By exploring the consequences of choices, students learn from their mistakes instead of trying to hide them or defend them.

I Can Work Respectfully with Others

A Positive Discipline classroom provides the best possible opportunity for young people to develop social skills through dialogue and sharing, listening and empathizing, cooperating, negotiating, and resolving conflicts. When a behavior problem arises, teachers, instead of stepping in and resolving it for the students, can put it on the Class Meeting agenda, or use the Four ­Problem-­Solving Steps, or instruct students in the use of the Wheel of Choice. All these methods, discussed in Chapter 7, allow students and teachers to work together on developing ­win-­win solutions.

I Understand How My Behavior  Affects Others

A Positive Discipline classroom is a place where students can respond to the limits and consequences of everyday life with responsibility, resilience, and integrity. They learn that it is safe to take responsibility for their mistakes because they will not experience blame, shame, or pain. They learn to give up the victim mentality of blaming others (“The teacher gave me an F”) and accept an accountability mentality (“I received an F because I ­didn’t do the work”).

I Can Develop Wisdom and Judgment Skills Through Daily Practice

Young people develop judgment skills only when they have opportunities to evaluate problems by being socially conscious and aware of what is happening around them. When a problem develops in a Positive Discipline classroom, students explore what happened, what caused it to happen, how their behavior affects others, and what they can do to prevent or solve such problems in the future. In this way, they learn to respond to the needs of the situation.
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Product Details

  • Series: Positive Discipline Library
  • Paperback: 272 pages
  • Publisher: Harmony; 4th ed. edition (July 16, 2013)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0770436579
  • ISBN-13: 978-0770436575
  • Product Dimensions: 7.3 x 0.6 x 9.2 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 10.4 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.8 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (14 customer reviews)
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After attending a workshop presented by Jane Nelson, I was completely sold on the beauty, respect, and effectiveness of this approach. I have implemented this for years I my school and, more recently, in my home with my own children. It is such a simple, sensible, and effective approach!
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Every single teacher and administrator should read this book and then learn and implement all the guidelines: all students would experience school in far better ways and would learn far more effectively. Positive discipline itself makes sense, offers the kind of guidance students~ and adults~ need, and is both wise and effective. Read Nelson's book about positive discipline at home and then learn and practice it within the family as well.
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I bought this book before I started teaching and now that I'm 2 months in (and currently reading the book) I have to say that my current/future success is tied directly to this book and it's model. As a first year teacher it's very easy to lose sight of why you decided to teach, what your students are going through and (most importantly) the reasons why students act the way they do.

This book not only offers insight into what motivates student behavior; it gives you practical things you can do to turn around these behaviors. I'm not exaggerating when I say that the strategies in this book has not only made me a happier teacher, but a more effective one. It's very easy to take the wrong road, but with this book I don't feel that I can go astray.

I have two copies of this book; one for use in school and one for home.

I HIGHLY recommend this book!
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This book outlined the importance of including kids of all ages in the decision making process and finding solutions to problems. Allowing kids to be active in the process facilitates greater learning and understanding. I am excited to implement clad meetings and agendas. We could all use more positivity in our lives.
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This is such an amazing book. I refer to it often. A must for any classroom community enthusiast.
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This book was a breath of fresh air. In my experience of teaching for over 2 decades, it's much better to accentuate the positive. We all respond better to criticism, when our dignity has been preserved. It's a 5 star book on a very important topic. Bravo!
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Practical advice that can be utilized immediately in the classroom....class meetings are a great way to build community.
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