About the Author
Mike Magee, M. D., director of the Pfizer Medical Humanities Initiative and a noted expert on the patient-physician relationship is senior medical adviser of Pfizer Inc and maintains an extensive calendar of speaking engagements to a wide variety of audiences including physicians, patients, medical educators, administrators, and legislators. Through these addresses, Dr. Magee is able to interact with each of these groups to ensure their views are taken into account in the work of the PMHI
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It's remarkable how, in one's life, the most memorable acts of kindness are often simple actions exquisitely timed. There are many times when kindness seems to have been extended almost with divine providence, for kindness arrives when there is the greatest need, when humans are discouraged or distraught, when they are scared or hopeless, when they are about to lose faith in themselves. At those times, positive people seem to sense the need and instinctively respond. I grew up in a family of 12 children. I was number four, and by the time my wedding day arrived, everyone was used to the drill. But, of course, for me it was anything but routine. Yet on that special day, everyone seemed to be doing their own thing while I was nervous and overwhelmed. My sister, Pat, came up behind me and whispered, "Mike, can I make you breakfast on your wedding day?" A small gesture really. Yet, now 30 years later, I still remember how nice that felt and still feel a need to! say thank you although I have mentioned it to her many times. That's the power of human kindness.