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Power and Love: A Theory and Practice of Social Change [Paperback]

Adam Kahane
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Book Description

January 4, 2010

War is no way to resolve our most problematic group, community, and societal issues, but neither is a peace that simply sweeps our problems under the rug.
To create lasting change we have to learn to work fluidly with two distinct, fundamental drives that are in tension: power—the single-minded desire to achieve one’s solitary purpose; and love—the drive towards unity.  They are seemingly contradictory but in fact complimentary. As Martin Luther King put it, “Power without love is reckless and abusive, and love without power is sentimental and anemic.” Using revealing stories from complex situations he has been involved in all over the world—the Middle East, South Africa, Europe, India, Guatemala, the Philippines, Australia, Canada and the United States—Kahane reveals how to dynamically balance these two forces. Just as when we are toddlers we learn to shift from one foot to the other to move ourselves forward, so we can learn to shift back and forth between power and love in order to move society forward.


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Praise for Power and Love

"Adam's Solving Tough Problems helped me understand that all of our pressing problems--be they strategic issues inside a company or societal challenges like conflict, poverty, or climate change--require that those with a stake and the power to act come together in open dialogue to create a joint diagnosis and a deep commitment to moving forward together. In Power and Love, Adam goes further and deeper, into the kind of leadership that it takes to do this."
--Ravi Venkatesan, Chairman, Microsoft India

"It isn't either-or; it's both-and. In this deceptively brief and clearly written book, Adam Kahane takes us through his own learning process to a way of acting in and on the world that is both effective and caring. Intelligent, insightful, satisfying--and inspiring."
--Mary Catherine Bateson, author of Composing a Life and Willing to Learn

"Kahane is a master practitioner and thinker who knows the highs and lows of solving some of the toughest problems of social discord. Power and Love is both instructive and inspiring."
--Patrick Dodson, winner of the Sydney Peace Prize and Founding Chairman, Council for Aboriginal Reconciliation

"This book is a must-read for business leaders who are coming to recognize that to continue to thrive, business must join forces with interest groups, communities, and government to address the wicked sustainability challenges of our time. Kahane shows us how."
--Diane Osgood, Vice President, Business for Social Responsibility

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Product Details

  • Paperback: 168 pages
  • Publisher: Berrett-Koehler Publishers; 1 edition (January 4, 2010)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1605093041
  • ISBN-13: 978-1605093048
  • Product Dimensions: 5.6 x 0.7 x 8.6 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 8.8 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.8 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (31 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #38,332 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

Adam Kahane is a partner in the Cambridge, Massachusetts office of Reos Partners and an Associate Fellow at the Saïd Business School of the University of Oxford.

Adam is a leading organizer, designer and facilitator of processes through which business, government, and civil society leaders can work together to address their toughest challenges. He has worked in more than fifty countries, in every part of the world, with executives and politicians, generals and guerrillas, civil servants and trade unionists, community activists and United Nations officials, clergy and artists.

Adam is the author of "Solving Tough Problems: An Open Way of Talking, Listening, and Creating New Realities," about which Nelson Mandela said: "This breakthrough book addresses the central challenge of our time: finding a way to work together to solve the problems we have created." He is also the author of "Power and Love: A Theory and Practice of Social Change" and "Transformative Scenario Planning: Working Together to Change the Future."

During the early 1990s, Adam was head of Social, Political, Economic and Technological Scenarios for Royal Dutch Shell in London. Previously he held strategy and research positions with Pacific Gas and Electric Company (San Francisco), the Organisation for Economic Cooperation and Development (Paris), the International Institute for Applied Systems Analysis (Vienna), the Institute for Energy Economics (Tokyo), and the Universities of Toronto, British Columbia, California, and the Western Cape.

In 1991 and 1992, Adam facilitated the Mont Fleur Scenario Exercise, in which a diverse group of South Africans worked together to effect the transition to democracy. Since then he has led many such seminal cross-sectoral dialogue-and-action processes, throughout the world. He was one of the sixteen outstanding individuals featured in Fast Company's first annual "Who's Fast," and is a member of Global Business Network, the International Futures Forum, and the World Academy of Art and Science.

Adam has a B.Sc. in Physics (First Class Honours) from McGill University (Montreal), an M.A. in Energy and Resource Economics from the University of California (Berkeley), and an M.A. in Applied Behavioural Science from Bastyr University (Seattle). He has also studied negotiation at Harvard Law School and cello performance at Institut Marguerite-Bourgeoys.

Adam and his wife Dorothy live in Montreal and Cape Town.

Customer Reviews

4.8 out of 5 stars
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4.8 out of 5 stars
Adam Kahane has written a powerful and lovely book. maren and jamie showkeir  |  20 reviewers made a similar statement
A really nice accompaniment, making the book even more readable. salmon guy  |  10 reviewers made a similar statement
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18 of 20 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars Interesting and inspiring December 20, 2009
By K. Hoeg
Format:Paperback
I have one foot in the "love" communities (art of hosting, theory U, facilitators network etc), where I have noticed very good intentions and good processes, but quite few results. My other foot is in the power community (as a government official in a political department) where I witness many results but also questionable intentions and agendas.

I liked the first half of the book the most, where I was provided with some interesting viewpoints and a language to understand and differ from generative/degenerative power and same for love. The second half of the book is more confusing and less clear.

I am inspired by the concept of combining love and power in order to manage things in the most constructive ways and I believe most leaders and innovators can be in inspired by reading the book. However, I would personally like some more insights on how to choose love in the middle of a political system. I find it challenging and difficult to keep track of love when acting in a political system. I would enjoy reading more about that.

Overall I recommend the book to anybody seeking to understand how to manage and enable sustainable change.
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11 of 11 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Insightful and relevant January 31, 2010
By J. Kwan
Format:Paperback
Having read and been inspired by Adam Kahane's previous book, Solving Tough Problems, I was eager to read Power and Love. What I found was a personal story, told in a highly readable way, in which I found lessons and insights which could be applied to both my work and my personal life.

The key message is that both Power (the drive for self-realisation) and Love (the need for unity) are necessary, and that there is an inherent dilemma between the two. Just like your two legs, they should be used in dynamic balance to be able to walk smoothly.

I really enjoyed the Falling, Stumbling and Walking chapters where Kahane highlights his theories through examples from both his work and personal life. I also appreciated that he was not shy in sharing his blind spots and mistakes so the reader can also learn from them.

I think Power and Love is a book that can be read several times with different mindsets - e.g. a quick entertaining read, a more reflective experience and also great for a book club / discussion group.
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7 of 7 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars A Practical Theory and a book with Power and Heart January 19, 2010
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"Power and Love: A Theory and Practice of Social Change" uses Adam Kahane's tremendous experience of designing dialogue processes and mediations in South Africa, Colombia, Guatemala, Israel and on several environmental issues as examples of the generative and degenerative uses of power and love. The book is both theoretical and at the same time extremely practical for anyone working in the fields of group facilitation, large-scale systems change, or mediation. The lengthy examples of his work with diverse stakeholders around contentious issues are riveting and instructive. He is quite transparent about his successes and failures, and also very self-disclosing about his own process in the journey of learning how to walk with both power and love. Because of this journey the book has a lot of power and a lot of heart. I recommend it highly.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Crucial information for our survival as a species
Adam Kahane describes how he came to understand the relationship between power and love in his work as an international consultant on crucial issues facing humankind. Read more
Published 10 days ago by Thomas
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This is a wonderfully insightful book that takes massive complexity and sees underlying patterns that open doors of perception and understanding. Read more
Published 6 months ago by Matthew Wesley
1.0 out of 5 stars A confused, error-ridden and annoying little book.
Had _Power and Love_ not been assigned reading for an change process, I would have stopped before getting 10 pages in. It is a confused, error- and non-sequitur-ridden book. Read more
Published 24 months ago by Spencer R Phillips
5.0 out of 5 stars loved the book
I felt compelled to write after just completing the book. I am inspired and touched by his humanity and sharing of the humble, teachable moments and stories in his life. Read more
Published on September 5, 2010 by dms
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Adam Kahane, Managing Director of Reos Partners, is one of those rare change agents whose remarkable work has touched the lives of people throughout the world. Read more
Published on June 16, 2010 by Gregory Peterson
5.0 out of 5 stars A great little book
My colleague Andrew Lyon and I were pleased to be able to host our friend and fellow International Futures Forum member Adam Kahane on a brief visit to Scotland this month. Read more
Published on May 31, 2010 by Graham Leicester
5.0 out of 5 stars Fierce love and caring power
Having lived and worked as a Catholic priest with grass-roots people and organizations in countries like Bolivia, Sudan and Chile I have faced raw power at work to block and... Read more
Published on May 8, 2010 by E. Toland
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Since reading Adam's book during the COP 15 negotiations in Copenhagen, I have found my thoughts returning to the themes of power and love on a regular basis. Read more
Published on April 16, 2010 by Karen Miller
5.0 out of 5 stars As relevant to the commercial world as it is in a social or...
No management book I have read describes theories of successful leadership as powerfully as this book. The source of the book's power is in its personal nature. Read more
Published on April 14, 2010 by Sharna Jarvis
5.0 out of 5 stars Real tools - real change - review by Deborah Ravetz
I first heard Adam Kahane speak about, `Power and Love' over a year ago before he had written this his second book on the subject. Read more
Published on April 5, 2010 by Deborah Ravetz
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