I have NEVER, EVER read a book where I related more to the main character than I did to Lee Fiora. A lot of critics say she doesn't properly reflect the high school experience--well, that's understandable, since there is no universal high school experience that everyone in the world can relate to. If you are someone with an introverted, self-conscious, overly-analytical, fearful, shy personality (like myself), then you will identify with Lee's experience. If not, then you probably won't understand why she acts the way she does.
Like myself, Lee has a lot of severe social anxieties, and I'm sure it would only be compounded being one of the few "middle class" students at an elite prep school. I think her behavior is completely justified and absolutely realistic. Of course, there were scenes here and there where I thought I would have reacted differently than she did, but overall, there were so many occasions where I just thought to myself, "Oh my God, I can't believe there is someone else who thinks this way." Just her little everyday observations and worries, and how almost all of her decisions are driven by the effect they will have on how others perceive her - all of those things are things I felt in high school, and still feel every day. I feel like Sittenfeld got inside my mind. Even the littlest moments in the book struck a chord with me: in one scene, Lee is in a dorm room with another girl (I think it's Sin-Jun, but I can't remember at the moment), and is enduring an awkward silence. She likes the girl's skirt, and wants to compliment her, but she just can't bring herself to say anything. She thinks to herself, "Sometimes speaking is just so hard." I know exactly what she means.
Even her obsession with Cross is totally spot-on. Who in high school doesn't pine for the hot, popular guy from afar? And then, when her crush is actually realized, she becomes even more obsessed - he's all she can think about. Again, what high school girl could deny having behaved the exact same way with the first guy who expressed interest in her?
What I also liked about Lee is that she had a high school experience that wasn't all hearts and flowers. In fact, looking back on it, she doesn't necessarily feel that fondly towards it. I feel the same way - although it had a few great moments, high school wasn't that amazing for me. I wasn't one of the popular kids. I wasn't a complete outcast, but I was more like Lee - one of the peripheral, uninteresting girls. In fact, my 10-year reunion is coming up, and I don't think I even want to go.
I could not get enough of this book - I devoured it. I was so sad to see it end. I felt sad and nostalgic and bittersweet when it was over. I would love to hear about more of Lee's experiences. She is the closest I've ever come to feeling like I was reading a book about myself.
If you are nothing like Lee and think that a character like her would annoy you, maybe this book isn't for you. But if you feel that you possess any of her timid, insecure qualities--or are curious to get inside the brain of someone who does--then it's your duty to read this book NOW.