The Professional Bachelor Dating Guide - How to Exploit Her Inner Psycho [Paperback]

Brett Tate (Author)

Book Description

Publication Date: January 1, 2007

Pickup Artists' Psychological Secrets to Turn on, Charm, and Seduce almost any Woman.

The Art of the Pickup involves analyzing your target, determine her values, beliefs and weaknesses, and role-playing her desires.
Sexual Persuasion occurs by stimulating her subconscious emotions and desires. You create value and scarcity for yourself, remove her barriers, build trust, and initiate the close. The best Pickup Artists are teasingly cocky, have a cutting sense of humor, and the poise to pull it off with class.

The dynamics of Sexual Persuasion share the same techniques perfected by all great salesmen. Any man with the right tools and attitude can transform himself and create an exhilarating lifestyle he controls with style and ease. Face the facts. Women in courting mode are phenomenal actresses; many devote their whole lives to role-playing, camouflaged appearances, and storytelling. They manipulate men by dangling potential sex to satisfy their ego, play games, or vacuum your wallet. Understanding how seduction works is a double-edged sword. You can either go through life playing the victim, or educate yourself using the techniques to your advantage.
The Professional Bachelor Dating Guide reveals how to:

• Predict, anticipate, & easily influence female behavior.
  
• Create instant attraction and lust in seconds.
  
• 20 Seduction speaking techniques that create Irresistible Sexual Charisma.
  
• Master Speed Dating, eliminate 80% of your dating time & money spent, with a superior closing ratio.
  
• Read women instantly; spot and avoid the Psychos, Game Players, and gold digging cons.
  
• Build instant rapport with Smooth-talking Sexual Persuasion.
  
• Know exactly what she wants to see and hear, and feel.
  

Considering marriage? With a failure rate of 50%, the best defense is a good offense. Remove her financial incentive to file with a pro-active asset protection plan well in advance. In straightforward, easy-to-understand terms learn the Advantages, Limitations, and costs: the complete how, what, and where to setup multiple Trusts, FLPs, and LLCs. Learn how to:

• Legally Protect your ASSets from the whims of divorce courts and frivolous lawsuits.
  
• Shield a large salary, limit alimony to one based on a nominal salary YOU choose.
  
• Structure your financial planning and shield your entire estate layers deep and out of sight.
  
• Remove the assets from your name. You Control everything, but own nothing.

Tired of the Chase and want to elevate your Game to the next level? Section three is a Jet-setting Bachelor's travel guide to the best Sex Vacations around the World: where gorgeous young girls compete for you. Spoil yourself rotten, and be a Professional Bachelor.

Editorial Reviews

From the Publisher

With razorsharp wit in dissecting the Art of the Pickup and female psyche, Dr. Tate writes with precision of a scalpel, that cuts like a chainsaw. No stranger to controversy, his follow up to The Hedonist onces again shreds the feminized PC culture and reveals the fast track to being a great seducer is a Pure Alpha Male. This isn't a layman's guide full of cheezy lines, flashy clothes, and date ideas. It's an advanced pysch guide for high level players hunting the big game, and avoiding the wrong women. It analyzes the specific female personalities you'll encounter, examines what traits great pick up artists use, what works best from a woman's perspective, and combines the two. It reveals how to turn women on subconsciously before you even speak, and presents role-playing styles to seduce and charm her panties off with Irresistible Sexual Charisma.

It reads one moment with the wisdom of Anthony Robbins, and the next a Dennis Miller routine. Compelling, hilarious, and sure to aggravate women to no end with it's wisdom in keeping the upper hand by seeing through women. The advice and tips on legally shielding your assets prior to marriage may cause devious trophy wives to jump off cliffs. We all know men destroyed by women in divorce; follow Dr. Tate's wisdom here and it will never happen to you.

About the Author

A Sexologist by trade, Dr. Tate (in his words) "accidentally got rich" during the Dot Com boom, and has spent the last decade globetrotting around the world Diving, Golfing, Fishing, and enjoying his favorite sport .. seducing women. His first book, The Hedonist, details his favorite two dozen cities abroad to pursue the Jetsetting Bachelor's lifestyle.

In The Professional Bachelor, he rips out his unique perspective of working the American dating scene, as a former nightclub prowling Psych Doc turned swashbuckling Expat. Having bedded an "embarrassingly large number of women" over the last 25 years, he shares his PUA advice; creating and projecting the Successful Alpha Gladiator image; a hilarious, insightful analysis of the psychological hoops men must leap through to find the right woman and push the right buttons to seduce her, while avoiding Dating Catatrophes. For those looking for a change, he offers up a glimpse of the night and day difference in women beyond Western Culture, and the ease of passionate romance without any drama just a flight away.

Product Details

• Paperback: 304 pages
• Publisher: Cambridge Publishing, LLC (January 1, 2007)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 0975264028
• ISBN-13: 978-0975264027
• Product Dimensions: 9 x 6.1 x 0.6 inches
• Shipping Weight: 15.5 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
• Average Customer Review: 3.3 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (66 customer reviews)
• Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #53,667 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

A Sexologist by trade, Brett Tate "accidentally became wealthy" during the Dot.com boom and retired in his 30's. He's spent a decade globetrotting, competing in adrenaline junkie sports, as well as golfing, deep sea fishing, and relishing his favorite sport; women. His ever popular travel guide "The Hedonist" details his favorite two dozen cities abroad to pursue the Jetsetting Bachelor's lifestyle.

Hitting Amazon's 2007 top 100 list is his satire "The Professional Bachelor - How to Exploit her Inner Psycho". A bachelor's lifestyle guide, Tate pens a cynical guide full of observation humor; how he worked the American dating scene as a former nightclub prowling psych doc turned swashbuckling expat. Having bedded an "embarrassingly large number of women" over the last 20 years, he shares his PUA social dynamic insights and advice. Part two of the book includes an Asset Protection plan to set up pre-engagement to avoid getting rolled in a divorce.

For those looking for a change, the last section of the book is a bachelor's travel guide for Brazil, Costa Rica and Thailand. He teases men with a glimpse of the night and day difference in women beyond Western Culture, and the ease of passionate romance without any drama just a flight away.

His brand new 2009 release is "High Heels and Dirty Deals - Globetrotting Tales of Debauchery from a Binge-drinking Nymphomaniac". The title says it all. It's a hilarious photo-journalistic memoir documenting his outrageous life in the fast lane.

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30 of 35 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Funny, intellectual satire - exceptional PUA advice, September 13, 2009

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M. Resnick - See all my reviews
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This review is from: The Professional Bachelor Dating Guide - How to Exploit Her Inner Psycho (Paperback)

An extensive formula for speed seduction and relationship dynamics. Covers social marketing, persuasion and influence, creating value/scarcity, building emotional connections, personality behavioral analysis, targeted role-playing, projecting charisma/presence, body language, timing, and much more.

For those who've take self-improvement/business marketing, this will be a nice refresher course with some added insights. In summation, you'll learn how to create a more attractive you, how to crack barriers and build a warm rapport, how to observe and predict behavior, and subconsciously connect more in conversation.
I`d actually classify this book as far more than the typical nightclub pickup guide. It goes way beyond that, more into the post hookup and relationship level. It's an introspective psychology tool for identifying the right personality match, maintaining healthy interaction, as well as a guide for recognizing problem situations early and avoiding getting trapped. Whether single, engaged or married, anyone can benefit from the advice.

Tate clearly wrote this for the lifetime bachelor. If you are in the back of your mind considering marriage, section two covers setting up asset shelters. It covers all the different formulas available; concise, but somewhat complex asset protection tutorials. As a small business owner, I set mine up a few years back and am very familiar with the process and terminology. I had my attorney skim through the pages to see if I needed to add any additional provisions that Tate proposes, but came out fine. For real estate investors, of importance, pg. 232 references an important change - see the Albright 291 bankruptcy Rptr 538 ruling. LLC's need to be multi-member from now on.

Tate's main theme for this section is to highly encourage men to set up shelters even before engagement, as a self-defense shield against the potential of a girl marrying money with the intent to divorce in a few years. I must say the concept is brilliant. Divorce rate is 50%+, so the advice is invaluable. Best offense is a good defense.

The last 60 pages are a bachelor's guide to vacationing in Rio de Janeiro, Costa Rica, and Thailand. Heavy on details from logistics, tourism advice, sports options(extreme sports, golf, fishing, etc); the best beaches, hotels, as well as pointing you to all the night clubs and easy hookup chica hotspots that hotel concierge's are clueless about. I've been to Brazil and Costa Rica before, and can vouch the advice is spot on. If you haven't been to Rio, it's a must! A fascinating section to read, and definitely a point-and-click time savor for the best itinerary during limited vacation time. Turns out Costa Rica has all kinds of extreme rafting, rapelling, and zip lining that I missed out on; great sail fishing there by the way.

Overall, I'd say the Professional Bachelor is a highly recommended read. Only negative, at 300 pages the editor should have trimmed it down, and tightened up the text a bunch; 250 pages would have been just right.

This is written for guys who are already players, and written as an intellectual's satire. If your sense of humor is limited, if you're a newbie who hasn't dated dozens of women and witnessed their highly volatile nature, or if you haven't viewed advanced financial structuring, this book may go way over your head (as seen in some of the reviews). But as far as a bachelor's manual, it is a totally unique treatise and on it's own level...something you'll re-read often, and will stand the test of time.

For you PUA junkies, The Professional Bachelor is probably more useful in conjunction with a book on creating openings and initial contact with women...so consider picking up The Mystery Method: How to Get Beautiful Women Into Bed .

Also, get Tate's hilarious new memoir about his insane lifestyle living overseas. The title says it all. He just nails it with this book. Sex-drenched adventures filled with erotic photography and biting observation humor, with a cast of animated, flamboyant characters who push each other to edge and beyond.

High Heels and Dirty Deals - Globetrotting Tales of Debauchery from a Binge-drinking Nymphomaniac

13 of 14 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Laughed myself into tears, September 22, 2009

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This review is from: The Professional Bachelor Dating Guide - How to Exploit Her Inner Psycho (Paperback)

A one of a kind classic. My husband and I both teach psychology at competing Universities, and there's been quite a buzz about this book amongst the faculty, so we bought a copy. Seriously folks, all this misogynistic and manipulative talk is entirely misplaced. When you read the publisher's description and buzz words, realize that sensationalism is what sells. All the persuasion and influence books, of which there are many, use the same type of sales pitch, because it draws us in. We all try to influence the outcomes of experiences with others to our advantage, in every facet of our lives. This one makes you better at it with women, and its uses would be as effective in business.

When you take away the chest pounding and witty shock value, this book is about creating opportunities with the right women, and avoiding the nightmares of dating the wrong ones. The author obviously has a background in psychology, and provides very introspective and effective Alpha male self-improvement advice. As far as imaginative interpersonal relationship tips for you players, this covers multiple areas to make you great with the ladies on your terms. It shows how to shape womens' attitudes, feelings, emotions and behavior towards you. It teaches how to create sexual chemistry and be likeable, how to get the upper hand and steer the encounter (like salsa dancing, women want the man who can lead), and how to upper hand in difficult situations and avoid being manipulated.

Women prefer a man who doesn't get tongue-tied and stumble all over himself at all the wrong moments. This book teaches men panache; how to enhance their ability to carry themselves with confidence and attitude, and how to charm and be smooth with the ladies, ala James Bond. This would mean a well-dressed, classy, guy with charisma who knows exactly how say the right thing at any given moment, creating subconscious emotional and physical attraction. Any women would admit (to other women) the information is very accurate, after all, the author tells you upfront in his discovery phase that it's written from what works from a woman's point of view, as well as contains advice from male seducers.

16 of 19 people found the following review helpful:

4.0 out of 5 stars Hilarious writing on speed seduction, June 27, 2010

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This review is from: The Professional Bachelor Dating Guide - How to Exploit Her Inner Psycho (Paperback)

Funny as hell; so much information in this it's almost overwhelming. Brutally honest observations about womens' agenda in dating, and uncanny psychological solutions on how to stop being played and get what you want without getting your head ripped off, manhood deflated, and wallet pick pocketed.

This came highly recommended from an old college friend of mine who I constantly make fun for working it so hard with the ladies. I mean he's read all of these PUA books. (Game, Mystery, etc) I was very cynical even opening a page; man was I wrong. It's seriously intelligent, interesting, and the author is a highly educated nut! This book is written for guys who have their act together and hook up a fair amount, but are looking for that extra edge. Excellent relationship and PUA advice, and it's all written in satire and tongue and cheek. I can't believe more people don't point how funny it is. I should mention this book is a lot of offense; but where it differs is the self-defense approach in dating. Streamlining your time. It concentrates as much time on who not to date, what not to do, as well as the ultimate defense in dating; setting up asset protection to protect yourself in divorce.

The most interesting section was the psychoanalysis of the various female personalities, and role-playing styles for approaching/dating each. It has me reliving dates with half a dozen girls, as well as half a dozen I didn't want to date, but couldn't get rid of. He has a very dry, witty way of making you think, and seeing your mistakes from the past and what to do in the future. Girls all have some type of wall they put up. It's strange; they are so programmed with their you-go-grrl childish nonsense of blowing out guys. Even the men they are very attracted to rarely get anywhere unless the girl is in the mood. (or trying to show off to her posse). I realize it is just hiding from their insecurity, but men could sure use advice on dealing with this obstacle. The book gives great tips into creating these openings, by paying attention to her personality type, and role-playing to her style, as opposed to treating all girls the same.

I'm now able to get past the wall much easier and am closing like a champ. Plus, it's such a confidence booster now that I have that added intellectual edge, I find the success attitude just feeds on itself. By knowing who to date and not to date, I eliminate all those worthless dates. More importantly, I never get trapped in relationships I can't get out of, because I know better than to get involved in them in the first place. I don't put so much pressure on myself now, and the "whatever" attitude is attracting them like flies. It's nice to be in control.