Customer Reviews

The Proper Care and Feeding of Marriage LP

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Dr. Laura's no-nonsense approach comes through loud and clear in this book. If you're looking for a wake-up call regarding how to treat your spouse and nurture a loving relationship, then I highly recommend this book. She offers her own perspective as well as MANY of her listeners' perspectives; both men and women. If you want someone to tell you that you're right if you ignore the needs of your spouse then do not buy this book. If you have an open mind and are interested in making some changes, then this book is worth the read.

I have listened to Dr. Laura for years... I want my marriage to be strong and endure time. My spouse and I have had previous marriages and I want to learn what "I" can do different in order to make it my last. I am more then half way through the book now and it has made take a close look at my actions, attitude and the choices I make. It seems obvious once you start to read but it is difficult to look at ones self constructively... the book is a great tool for me to look at me and has given me insight

What can I say? I LOVE Dr. Laura. She's been a huge guiding light in my life, and this book just adds to her wisdom. I hugely recommend this book.

Great book for strong women to read. Guys just need lots of attention and constant encouragement! They need to be reminded of the good old days when you worshiped the ground they walked on! Remember the days of dating and bring them back! Guys cheat for attention more than just sex! If you think this book is a joke than you probably don't have a very good marriage!

I come from a feminist family where I was taught to always expect more from a man than was reasonable. Even my dad unknowingly added to this misconception as he constantly took responsibility for my mothers' happiness; a woman who was terminally unhappy. I've gone through countless relationships in my adult life, while always blaming the man for their failure. After reading this book, along with The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands, I've finally realized my faults and taken great steps to eradicate my earlier way of thinking. I'm engaged to be married and I know for a fact that the only reason my finace and I are so happy in our relationship is because of the knowledge gleaned from these books. While Dr. Laura may come across as a pompous bully in her radio show, she comes across as a champion for loving, caring, healthy relationships that will endure! I recommend this book to all young couples who want to live out their lives together in happiness. As a matter of fact, I think it should be mandatory:)

Both my husband and I enjoyed reading this book. It helps us communicate as well as remember how to appreciate one another and be more loving to one another. We have only been married two years but I know that this book will be a good reference in the years to come.

The book is good in some ways, but it is all about " O, poor men, women are so mean to them. Dr. Laura to the rescue!". My husband loved this book, and now, 'thanks to Dr. Laura's" advice, when he comes home, instead of giving attention to his family members, who were waiting all day for him to come home, he....goes to check his emails and whatever internet has to offer. Because Dr. Laura said, that when man comes home, he MUST have alone time for at least 30 minutes, to do what he wants to do. Because he is tired from job. Yes, i understand that, but since when spending lovely time with his wife and kids is not a relaxing time??? So, now he teaches us, that his first priority is....computer. How lovely!!! Thank you, DR. Laura!!!! :-(((( Other than that, book has lots of good ideas on how to save your marriage. Thats why i gave it 4 stars. 90% of information is really useful. Now we need a man to write a rescue book for...other men on how to treat your wife right. We need Mr. Laura. ;-)

I like to listen to Dr. Laura's radio talk show when I'm out doing errands at lunch. I decided to buy the book and was glad I did! It's easy to read and the advise is great. It's a nice reminder that attitude, respect, and appreciation are important skills in any spousal relationship. Her advice is practical and works. I definitly recommend this book to any married woman and am loaning it out to my sisters and girlfriends.

I enjoyed the book from a male perspective. I don't know why Dr.Laura is controversial. Most of what she says is common sense that people forget to think about. I don't know if the book is going to save anyones' marriage, but it might make a few more harmoneous relationships out there.
The book is more valuable if both spouses are willing to read it.

...but Dr. Laura has some great ideas about marriage, and you would probably serve your best interests to attempt to implement her methods.

It's easy to read and makes a lot of sense.

Not sure why so many people think it's controversial to actually pay attention to your husband and treat him well.