Radical Hospitality: Benedict's Way of Love [Paperback]

Father Daniel Homan (Author), Lonni Collins Pratt (Author)

Book Description

Publication Date: May 1, 2005

Today's culture is increasingly hostile and suspicious toward anyone who appears to be different--especially when tragedy strikes. Our instinct is to bolt our doors and protect the ones we love. But deep within the heart of Benedictine spirituality lies a remedy to hatred, fear, and suspicion: hospitality. At once deeply comforting and sharply challenging, true Benedictine hospitality requires that we welcome the stranger, not only into our homes, but into our hearts. With warmth and humor, drawing from the monastic tradition and sharing personal anecdotes from their own lives, Pratt and Homan encourage us to embrace not only the literal stranger, but the stranger within and the stranger in those we love.

Editorial Reviews

From Publishers Weekly

"All guests who present themselves are to be welcomed as Christ." So says the famous Rule of St. Benedict, written more than 1,500 years ago and still the operative standard for all Benedictine monasteries. This simple guide shows readers that hospitality is not reserved for the monastery only, but is an ideal for all Christians who wish to connect closely with one another. Homan, a Benedictine monk in Oxford, Mich., draws stories from monastery life, while Pratt, a freelance writer and retreat leader, transposes them nicely for the reader. They discuss some of the challenges of hospitality: guests sometimes have different values than their hosts; they can intrude upon the routines of daily life; they require intimate companionship when hosts might rather be alone. There is an element of surrender to true hospitality, of opening the heart to strangers as well as friends. "Forget about turned-down sheets, mints on the pillow and towel-warmers," say the authors. "Monastic hospitality creates sacred space where the guest is free to be alone, to enter silence, to pray and rest." At the heart of monastic hospitality is the discipline of listening, of allowing a guest to feel safe and loved. The book is more descriptive than prescriptive; it is not a how-to guide listing 10 steps to cultivate "deep listening" or the seven secrets of the well-laid table. It is instead a heartfelt sharing of stories, a welcome mat to enter into the spiritual discipline of hospitality.
Copyright 2002 Reed Business Information, Inc. --This text refers to the Hardcover edition.

Review

. . . inspiring guide to developing an essential spiritual trait. This is no fluff piece. . . -- Susan Dunman, CBA Marketplace, September 2002

. . .outlines the spiritual principles of hospitality at the core of the monastic, Benedictine way of life. -- Allison Askins, The State

Radical Hospitality is not something people do, but rather something people become. -- Todd Weddle, St. Joseph News-Press

. . .the authors explore the spiritual and human connotations of the act of welcoming others. -- Body and Soul, November/December 2002

Benedict's vision of hospitality was so deep and beautiful. -- The Oakland Press, October 16, 2002

Comforting and challenging, their book takes us deep within the heart of Benedictine spirituality. -- Religion News Service, October 2002

Offers a remedy to fear and suspicion. -- Interpreter, November/December 2002

Offers indispensable wisdom, thoughtful reflection and practical steps. -- Abbey Blessings, Fall 2002 --This text refers to the Hardcover edition.

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Product Details

• Paperback: 233 pages
• Publisher: Paraclete Press (May 1, 2005)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 1557254419
• ISBN-13: 978-1557254412
• Product Dimensions: 6.4 x 5.2 x 0.7 inches
• Shipping Weight: 8 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
• Average Customer Review: 4.9 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (21 customer reviews)
• Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #386,664 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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22 of 24 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Hospitality Begins At Home, February 6, 2003

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David G. Robinson "David Robinson" (Cannon Beach, Oregon) - See all my reviews
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This review is from: Radical Hospitality: Benedict's Way of Love (Hardcover)

What a delight to read "Radical Hospitality", written by a monk and a mom. Both worlds, that of the monastery and the family home, are primary places of hospitality. Lonni & Daniel weave their lives, stories and faith together into a durable and beautiful welcome rug, inviting all who dare step this way into a life of "radical hospitality". The title word "radical" may turn some away from this book due to connotations of rebellion and anarchy. Don't let it. "Radical" simply means "having to do with the root, the radix". Benedictine hospitality is truly radical, returning us to our roots, our true heart home in God the God who welcomes us as we are, where we are, who we are. Hospitality begins at home with God, and at home where we live, eat, sleep and love on a daily basis with others. Radical hospitality is the true balm to heal the wounds of nations, and bring peace. But will we live this way? For another book that explores Benedictine hospitality in the home, look into THE BUSY FAMILY'S GUIDE TO SPIRITUALITY (Crossroad, 2009). The Busy Family's Guide to Spirituality: Practical Lessons for Modern Living From the Monastic Tradition

15 of 16 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars A kinder world, October 6, 2002

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Rev. Joe (San Francisco, CA) - See all my reviews

This review is from: Radical Hospitality: Benedict's Way of Love (Hardcover)

There's a danger in thinking this book is about being nice or anxious to entertain guests. There is no normal sense of the word hospitality by which one can identify the message of Radical Hospitality. It is clear-headed, wildly fun to read with unexpected sorts of stories about real people. Personally, I mistrust rave reviews. Can any book be so worthwhile that it merits no criticism? I found nothing to dislike in this vision of a kinder world. A monk who writes with a pretty woman can't be all bad.

20 of 23 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars The phrase is everywhere, December 5, 2004

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Literary Bug (New York) - See all my reviews

This review is from: Radical Hospitality: Benedict's Way of Love (Hardcover)

I picked up Radical Hospiality because of a sermon I heard in Boston awhile ago while visiting a friend from college. I did not catch the name of the author, authors as it turns out, but I was sure the minister, a woman, was quoting from a book. When I did a internet search it turned out that the phrase Radical Hospitality is used by religious and social groups from churches to conventions, all around the world. What I amazed by is that so few of the people, like the minister, name where they got their quotes or who they are quoting. This is a very fine book. It borders on brilliant actually and I am not the sort to use such a word casually. Why would anyone not want to give these authors the credit they deserve? The book, Radical Hospitality is challenging in a gentle way. I never once felt like the writers were shoving some agenda down my throat. There is just this level of telling their own experience and stories that any half-brain dead person could tell is from their hearts. Don't get me wrong. It is not a personal experience kind of book and it is not a book for anyone who like fluff instead of substance. But, if you are looking for a book about what has gone wrong in how we relate to one another, this is it. And if you love it too, be sure you tell people who you're quoting!