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A Self-Help Book for Parents with Good Lessons on Relationships, January 19, 2006
I don't have any children yet, but I read HOW TO RAISE EMOTIONALLY HEALTHY CHILDREN by Gerald Newmark because my cousin, a pre-school teacher, suggested it as interesting reading. It focuses on five critical needs that children have (that is, the need to feel respected, important, accepted, included, and secure) and discusses how to go about fulfilling those needs as a parent. It was a short, informative read, and some of the chapters included examples of how to deal with "real-life" situations at home. One of the things I got out of the book is the realization that you don't have to apply fulfilling the five needs only towards children - you can use them to also improve your relationship with your significant other, parents, siblings, friends, or whatever.
The book is a self-help guide, and it does offer a lot of good, sound advice. Unfortunately, not all of the chapters are as engaging as others, and some can come across as dry reading. Anyway, here's a list of the chapters in the book:
1. The Five Critical Needs of Children (Parenting as Though Children Really Matter)
2. Family Situations (A Closer Look at Behavior that Helps and Behavior that Hurts)
3. Recollections from Childhood (Memories Have Impact)
4. Becoming a Professional at Parenting (Childrearing Is Too Important to Leave to Chance)
5. Overcoming Obstacles and Taking Control (Maintaining Focus and a Balanced Lifestyle)
6. Implications for Families and Schools (Creating and Extending a Sense of Community)
7. Guide to Parent Resources (Tools for Life-Long Learning)
Again, it is a short book, but some the lessons you learn about improving relationships may stick with you for the rest of your life.
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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful:
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Common Sense Parenting, November 18, 2008
This review is from: How To Raise Emotionally Healthy Children: Meeting The Five Critical Needs of Children...And Parents Too! Updated Edition (Paperback)
How To Raise Emotionally Healthy Children: Meeting The Five Critical Needs of Children...And Parents Too! Updated EditionParenting is the toughest job we can ever love. Yet in these challenging times many parents find they need help to cope. This book offers practical ideas to create the families we want - families that respect one another, where all feel secure, accepted, important and included. This is the framework that helps parents examine how they treat family members and themselves. Filled with examples from toddlers to teens, parents will find this book easy and enjoyable to read.
As a parent and a parent educator, my favorite chapter is chapter 4: "Becoming a Professional Parent: Child rearing is too important to leave to chance." In this chapter, Dr. Newmark discusses practical ideas to apply strategies used by professionals to the art of parenting. For example, parents need to develop a game plan and make conscious choices of how they use their time. This means having priorities straight and developing a plan to create the home and family life that is important to them. And professionals monitor their own progress and are willing to adjust plans and to get creative to meet goals. Parents are encouraged to keep a journal to note progress and challenges.
We have used the book as the basis of reading groups and parents report how helpful it is because it gives parents a way to make decisions about which strategy is best for their children and the emotional health of each family member.
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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful:
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What parents want to know but don't know who to ask, November 10, 2008
This review is from: How To Raise Emotionally Healthy Children: Meeting The Five Critical Needs of Children...And Parents Too! Updated Edition (Paperback)
My husband and I were very young parents with not a clue as how to raise our children. Our lives and our
children's lives would have been so much easier if this book had only been written then. We go to school to
learn the 3 R's, but there is no school for parenting. This book is so insightful, and makes so much sense, it
should be read by every person who has or expects to have children.
Thank you Dr. Newmark. Your book will have a positive effect on all the children and parents who read and use
it.
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