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Raising a Reader: A Mother's Tale of Desperation and Delight [Hardcover]

Jennie Nash (Author)
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August 23, 2003
What were my kids born to do? That is the question I hope to help them answer. And because reading is the thing I love most, it's only natural for me to hope it will become something they love, too...The trouble is that reading is a particularly slippery passion to want to pass along because it's a skill most parents would agree their children have to master, to one degree or another.
--from Raising a Reader

Can passion be passed along from parent to child? Can you, in other words, make someone love baseball, ballet or books? Of course you can't - but that doesn't stop parents from trying. Jennie Nash was one of those parents - a parent so obsessed about getting her kids to read that her desire sometimes strayed into desperation; her hope often became an obsession; and instead of helping, her resolve got in the way. In the end, she found that, like so many of the things we do as parents, passing along a passion for reading happens in the push and pull of digging in and letting go, day in and day out, both because of and in spite of our efforts.

Nash shares stories and misadventures from the years when her young daughters were learning what it meant to have a relationship with words--and she was learning to let them. She reminds us how the magic moments happen in their own sweet time, by being together in the presence of good books and seeing each child as unique.

Each chapter of Raising a Reader ends with personal, practical tips and games that spring straight from the narrative. A comprehensive index discusses many of the books Nash has enjoyed with her children, providing a year's worth of titles for parents and their children to explore.

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For parents overwhelmed with the many technical advice books written by specialists and teachers, Nash's anecdotal guide to getting children to pick up a book might be a refreshing change. Nash is not an educator, nor is she a learning specialist. She is, however, the author of The Victoria's Secret Catalog Never Stops Coming: And Other Lessons I Learned From Breast Cancer and the mother of two daughters, aged 10 and seven, who are both avid readers. Thus, her guide bursts with examples of her own personal frustrations and triumphs. As she reports on how she made progress with her children's literacy, she shares insights and practical tips, suggesting, for example, that parents and children both keep journals to track the books they've read. Nash's use of personal stories may not be the most scientific way to teach children to read, but it could help parents who are feeling desperate or frustrated with the task of cultivating literacy.
Copyright 2003 Reed Business Information, Inc.

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"Raising a Reader is for every parent who ever worried about a child's reading, who compared one child with another, who charted, prodded, prompted, and coaxed words into little mouths and minds. For any parent--timid, pushy, or frightened--who has a child entering school and literacy, THIS is the book for you."
--Jim Trelease, author of The Read-Aloud Handbook

Product Details

  • Hardcover: 160 pages
  • Publisher: St. Martin's Press; First Edition edition (August 23, 2003)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0312315341
  • ISBN-13: 978-0312315344
  • Product Dimensions: 8.6 x 5.8 x 0.6 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 9.8 ounces
  • Average Customer Review: 4.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (6 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #2,236,863 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

I'm the author of three novels, which all have something to do with someone overcoming doubt to find their creative voice. I'm also the author of three memoirs, the most well known one being the story of how breast cancer taught me the healing and transformative power of telling your own story. I have, in other words, been wrestling with the push and pull of creativity for a long time -- both in my own work, and in my work with coaching clients. I believe we were all born to tell stories, but sometimes life causes us to forget how to do it, or to forget that we have the right. Sometimes, the best solution is to forget all that and just begin.

I'm currently working on my fourth novel. It's about a woman overcoming doubt to find her creative voice. Surprise!

 

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5 of 5 people found the following review helpful:
3.0 out of 5 stars Good tips, but..., January 10, 2005
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annette873 (South Florida) - See all my reviews
This review is from: Raising a Reader: A Mother's Tale of Desperation and Delight (Hardcover)
I'm also a bookaholic mom, so I really wanted to love this book. Unfortunately, I found the author's message in conflict with her actions and had a hard time getting past that. This book presents itself as a guide on how to pass along your passions without being overbearing or minimizing your child's other interests. Nash wants to be able to do this almost as desperately as she wants her daughters to find the same meaning in reading as she has. Both are admirable goals, but the pushy tone pushed me away.

In the chapter titled Grace, Nash paints the picture of her family relaxing in a snowed-in cabin, each one reading by the cozy fire. You can tell this moment, down to the hot chocolate and popcorn, has been a fantasy for her, and she just can't help nudging it towards reality. Nash defines grace as allowing moments like this to "just happen" and encourages her readers to do the same. But she didn't allow the moment to happen - as soon as her youngest, portrayed as the non-reader, finishes her snack, mom prompts her to "pick a book and come read next to me."

If anything, the book served as a cautionary tale for me - when it comes to passions I want to pass on to my daughter, I'm reminded how hard it is to keep yourself in check. That said, Nash seems to have come to that same conclusion intellectually and can share it with her readers, but just finds it difficult to put into practice herself (a very human trait). I gave it three stars because the author provides good tips like keeping a journal of the books your children enjoy, and great reference lists of titles and authors.
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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars a must read for moms, dads, and grandparents!!, October 1, 2003
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I LOVED THIS BOOK!! as a bona-fide bookaholic mom who wanted more than anything to pass on my great love of books to my own children, this book completely and totally hit home. besides being an utterly charming and enjoyable read, it also has many good parenting/reading tips as well as lists of choice books. i recommend it highly!
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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Parents Need What This Book Provides -- Perspective & Laughs, September 3, 2003
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This review is from: Raising a Reader: A Mother's Tale of Desperation and Delight (Hardcover)
As a mother of a six- and eight-year-old who have both approached reading very differently, this book was exactly what I needed -- which was a big deep breath! As I began to question whether "I was doing it right" and when I began to compare my kids to others, I started to panic. It reminded me of the envy and pride I felt when my kids were (or were not) the first ones in their play groups to walk, talk, toilet train, fill in the blank. But with reading it's worse, because you feel like it's something you can and should control and "do better." So, Jennie Nash's book was a welcome pat on the back, arm around the shoulder and loving vote of confidence that I haven't (and I am not going to) screw this up. It's going to be fine and I have to remember to let the love of books, reading and the spoken word happen in its own sweet time. This lesson has helped me in other areas with my kids as well.
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