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Product Details

  • Paperback: 200 pages
  • Publisher: New Harbinger Publications; 1 edition (October 1, 2003)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1572243376
  • ISBN-13: 978-1572243378
  • Product Dimensions: 9 x 6 x 0.5 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 4.8 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.1 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (16 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #44,056 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

Editorial Reviews

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“In her latest book, the Rape Recovery Handbook, Matsakis has again demonstrated a unique level of compassion and concern for rape victims and their capacity for healing. While guiding her reader gently through numerous exercises specially designed for maximum effect, Dr. Matsakis provides illumination into thought processes that often trap victims into believing that they are beyond hope. Gentle, empathetic advice, along with a sincere belief that rape victims can restore their self-esteem and become rap survivors living full, joyful lives, make this book indispensable to both victim and therapist alike!”
—Teresa Lauer, MA, RapeRecovery.com

From the Publisher

A woman is raped in this country every two minutes; this is the only step-by-step program that helps these survivors recover from PTSD symptoms and other emotional problems due to this traumatic event. (Rape victims experience the second highest prevalence rate for post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD)—only exceeded by survivors of war)

More About the Author

Aphrodite T. Matsakis, PhD, is an internationally recognized expert in trauma and relationships. Her books include:I Can't Get Over It!, Trust After Trauma, The Rape Recovery Handbook, Back From the Front: Combat Trauma, Love & Family, and most recently "Loving Someone with PTSD. Other specialities: communication skills, relationships, stress management, and women's and minority issues. She has counseled others for over 35 years, taught at several major universities; and has conducted numerous seminars. Visit www.matsakis.com for further information.

Customer Reviews

I worked through it in detail while also receiving quality counselling.
Mel
I am using this book in conjunction with therapy, and highly recommend that you have a therapist or someone you can talk to while you work through this book.
jamesgirl
I was off to a rough start, but after reading this book I finished my paper immediately.
Leah

Most Helpful Customer Reviews

47 of 49 people found the following review helpful By jamesgirl on October 5, 2008
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I am working through this book. I have finished the first chapter that contained exercises. The exercises are not easy, but once you've written everything down you feel a bit better about things.

I am using this book in conjunction with therapy, and highly recommend that you have a therapist or someone you can talk to while you work through this book.

So I did the exercises one night, and then went to therapy the next morning. I read everything to my therapist and I felt really good. But after therapy suddenly I felt emotionally, physically, and mentally exhausted. I couldn't do anything the rest of the day.

You will feel a lot of emotions come up while you do the exercises...from anger, to sadness, to fear, etc. That is why I recommend having somebody you can talk to. These emotions can be hard to sit with on your own.

I hope this review was helpful, because it wasn't like I wanted everyone on the internet knowing what happened to me.

jamesgirl
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13 of 14 people found the following review helpful By WichacpiHoskila VINE VOICE on February 27, 2010
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This book is a simplified summary of current understandings of PTSD and rape. It explains rape trauma in succinct terms, and describes the phases of recovery, normalizing the survivor's experiences with issues like panic, flashbacks, and depression. It is NOT, nor represents itself to be, a workbook or guide through self-help. As a "handbook," it is a clearly-worded reference for a survivor wishing to locate information that explores and explains trauma symptomology; a "handbook," however, is NOT a guide or workbook, and I disagree with its connotation of offering "step-by-step help." The Rape Recovery Handbook should be read by survivors as part of recovery, as long as she (and the book is intended for the female survivor) understands that it is not an in-depth therapeutic manual. Thus, this book would be most helpful when used as preparatory reading for subsequent work using a workbook or therapeutic guide through recovery.
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6 of 7 people found the following review helpful By Bonnie J. Serra on January 14, 2012
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I bought this book after my adult daughter was raped. I bought it to give to her before returning to school, where the crime was committed. But I looked at it first. I could have read the whole book in one afternoon but from what I read it is an important tool in the process of coming to terms with the humiliating crime of rape.
We still live in a male-oriented world after all the strides we've tried to take as women. That being said, rape is not taken as seriously as it should be by the whole legal and medical systems. There is much work to be done for future generations of women. As a woman, mother and parent I am outraged by the lack of seriousness taken by the "authorities" but without this becoming a diatribe let me just say that this book will begin to help heal the broken spirit of the victims of rape. Whether you are the victim or a loved one who is trying to help, this book will begin a dialoge at the very least.

Bonnie S.
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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful By Mel on May 22, 2012
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This book helped me enormously. I worked through it in detail while also receiving quality counselling. If you have the courage and want to heal- this is a great book. I would recommend working through it very slowly and rewarding yourself every step of the way.
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17 of 24 people found the following review helpful By Leah on November 13, 2005
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For my research paper, I the topic was the "Effects of Rape". I was off to a rough start, but after reading this book I finished my paper immediately. As a rape victim I HIGHLY recommend this book as a guide to a healthy recovery. It's not your fault...
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6 of 8 people found the following review helpful By Amazon Customer on October 28, 2008
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I ordered this book for working with clients that are survivors of sexual abuse and rape. It has worked well with each one and have recommended it to several colleagues. Wonderful resource of how to work through the issue of assault and the emotions that go along with it. Rather enjoyed having the solution focus perspective when working with clients that are trying to overcome abuse, assaults, and rapes.
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3 of 4 people found the following review helpful By aeb on January 22, 2011
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I found the author's suggestions helpful in recovering from my rape. Of course nothing can substitute for counseling, but the author did a good job of not being patronizing.
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By N. Fleming on November 23, 2013
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I love the stories in this book. I use it often in my group settings to highlight specific topics we are covering.
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