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For someone with authority issues, (I have found common on people with alcohol problems), this was the last thing I needed.
Then there are the slogans. I felt an AA "Dictionary" should be made available to those of us who didn't know all these, because most people spoke their entire "sharing stories" sprinkled with them.
I admit at first I felt mad at the world so I attributed this to why I felt so angry. I am sure that was part of it.
But as time went on and my drinking became a real problem I got real serious about finding a way to stop.
I am not against AA for everyone but for me it wasn't working, even when I tried all the exercises.
I especially balked at the forth step, where I was supposed to recount all my wrong doings I had done while drinking, and THEN report these to someone else. This to me is like beating a dead horse--most people, I would say ALL who have crossed the line from social to addictive drinking, KNOW full and well what they have done and have beat themselves up over it time and again.
In fact-- that is, why in my opinion, so many return to booze, or whatever took them away from this pain--to forget how bad they messed up. And so the cycle goes on.
I had stopped going to AA when I was critized for bringing up an idea that was not sanctioned by AA--that was not part of the very limtited view of the "Big Book". I was looking for somewhere to turn and found the book, "Why Alcoholics Anonymous Failed Me". While this book at least made me feel vindicated somehow, that I was not alone, it was Jack Trimpey's book that helped me use a method to overcome my addiction. I have used the dialog with myself and "the Beast" many times, and it has worked for me.
Most of all it gives me the satisfaction that I am in control of my life, and my drinking is a choice-- one can choose not to make. Most people with a problem need to know they are in control or can be. I found this to be a simple, easy solution to help me. And I did it during divorce proceedings, a time when in the past I would have turned to drinking and made things worse.
Another book I found extremely helpful to read when I am feeling down about things, is "The Seat of the Soul". I did not read the entire book, but the chapter on Addictions spoke to me. And I keep it around when I need a fix on being empowered, as well as using Trimpey's method.
Yes Virginia there is an alternative from AA. If it works for you I am happy. I am also happy I found this book, because AA did NOT work for me.
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