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0898620163 978-0898620160 June 1, 1993 1
According to recent surveys, approximately 40% of American women between the ages of 18 and 44 do not have children. Yet these women are virtually missing from accounts of women's lives. In this important new work, Mardy Ireland defines a place for women outside the parameters of motherhood and gives voice to the significant number of women who are not mothers. She draws extensively from interviews with over 100 childless women from various ethnic and educational backgrounds, demonstrating the myriad ways they came to view themselves as complete adults without recourse to the traditional defining criteria of motherhood. Her work offers all women--mothers and nonmothers alike--a vision of self-defined adulthood and a recognition that every woman is the subject of her own life.

Challenging the assumption of deprivation or deviance that is traditionally applied to childless women in psychological theory and popular culture, Dr. Ireland reframes childlessness as a concept and lays a groundwork for an expanded view of women's identity and psychic development. Using contemporary psychoanalytic theory, she reexamines female identity development and presents a positive interpretation of women who--for whatever reason--are not mothers.

To contrast and compare the experiences of her interview subjects, she places them within the changing psychosocial context of the last few decades and catagorizes them according to their reasons for childlessness. Included are: 'traditional' women, who are childless by reasons of infertility or health complications; 'transitional' women, who are not mothers because of delaying circumstances; and 'transformative' women, who have actively chosen not to bear children in order to develop lives beyond the field of motherhood. The legend of Lilith, a creation story of the first woman, described in the last chapter, places both female desire and female power in a longstanding historical and mythic context.

Animated by excerpts, quotes, and stories from the many interviews, RECONCEIVING WOMEN: SEPARATING MOTHERHOOD FROM FEMALE IDENTITY is illuminating for general readers and professionals alike. It provides valuable insights for anyone interested in women's studies and the psychology of women, and serves as an excellent textbook for courses in these fields.

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"It is practically impossible to think of the woman who is not a mother without thinking of something absent, lacking, or missing," says Ireland, a California-based psychologist with a heavily Freudian bias. Such a blanket statement is highly questionable, particularly since the 100 women (ages 38-50) whom Ireland interviewed in 1988 all hail from Northern California and don't represent a cross section of middle American attitudes. Whether discussing women who are childless due to infertility, those who delayed pregnancy until past their childbearing years, or women who consciously decided against motherhood, Ireland too facilely pigeonholes these baby boomers as representatives of 1970s feminism. One senses a strong traditional bias behind what findings she chooses to report, limiting her examples to women who started out with strong desires for motherhood, despite casual references to women who "told me that they had never enjoyed playing with dolls as a child." Moreover, readers who don't have some grounding in psychoanalytic theory will be confounded by Ireland's discussions. There is a lot of dry verbiage here, but little insight.
Copyright 1993 Reed Business Information, Inc.

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Although surveys suggest that some 40 percent of American women between the ages of 18 and 44 do not have children, most scholarly and popular literature continues to assume that motherhood is the defining role in women's lives. Here a Berkeley psychologist shares data from her survey of 100 such women, revealing significant differences, depending on whether they are childless by choice, by chance, or because of infertility. Rejecting conventional interpretations, which emphasize the childless woman's infertility, Ireland offers new, more positive interpretations, drawn from Lacanian and object-relations theory, for all three categories and ends by summoning the legendary first woman Lilith to represent the nonmaternal creative energies that exist in every woman and by which childless women can define themselves and their experience. Recommended for specialized collections.
- Beverly Miller, Boise State Univ. Lib., Id.
Copyright 1993 Reed Business Information, Inc.

Product Details

  • Paperback: 195 pages
  • Publisher: Guilford Press; 1 edition (June 1, 1993)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0898620163
  • ISBN-13: 978-0898620160
  • Product Dimensions: 9 x 6 x 0.7 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 11 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.7 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (3 customer reviews)
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25 of 27 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Great! Technical and In-depth, April 24, 2000
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This is another great book that supports women who choose to not have children. The author theorizes that women can fall into one of three catagories (or a combination thereof): Traditional, Transitional, and Transformative. Pyschological theories abound and there are personal stories about real women. There's a little too much Freud for my taste - but it does help the reader get the full picture not only from the author's view, but from ordinary women and the world of psychology as well. This book is a little more in-depth than some other books on the subject -it's not a quick read- but is well worth the time invested. I think psychology and women's studies students - even if they don't agree witht the content - should read this book. I really hope the author is right when she talks about a future day when people will shudder in disbelief at the cruel stereotypes that were directed at childfree women - just as we do now at past thinking that a woman not married by the age of 25 was an old spinster!
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18 of 21 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars With our without child, this is a MUST READ for ALL WOMEN, April 21, 2001
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I sat down, opened this book and did not put it down until I was finished. Even then, I re-read three chapters. This book is a neccessary read for those of us without children, struggling to find our purpose in the world.
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10 of 11 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars Very intelligent and thorough, April 17, 2006
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This is one of the most intelligent books on childless and childfree women that I've ever read. Despite being a little dense and relying too much on psychoanalytic theory (I would very much have liked to see some discussion of Adlerian psychology on this topic), this is a strong exploration of the topic. It discusses and provides sympathetic examples of women who do not have children for various reasons, and analyzes why childless women are so disturbing to society. This is a solidly academic book, but is worth reading if you're genuinely interested. Much better than other books I've read.
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It is nearly impossible to think about the adult woman who is not a mother without the spectre of "absence." Read the first page
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transformative woman, transitional women, transformative women, childless circumstances, transitional woman, adult female identity, female identity development, maternal ambivalence, childless women, voluntary childlessness, feminine sex role, women childless, childless woman, creative labor, maternal identification, traditional woman, female lineage, serial relationships, traditional women, maternal desire, masculinity complex, adult identity
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